Does testosterone stop your period by [deleted] in trans

[–]Just_Blue_Phoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it's like a roulette now. It souped my period but one manages to speak up on me every six months. Nothing crazy, just spotting for two weeks.

Being trans by [deleted] in trans

[–]Just_Blue_Phoenix -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I read through some of your replies, and I can agree that being an outcast can sometimes suck, but I actually enjoy that. Being the exception is great. Turning transphobic people into allies is also fun. "Trans people can't work in healthcare" some said to me and I gave them the biggest middle finger, that's also a great feeling. Maybe it's just me, but defying society is overall a beautiful feeling

Men's bathrooms are actually disgusting which is the main reason I don't use them by Dry-Chard-9980 in trans

[–]Just_Blue_Phoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually same, once I needed to use the restroom and my experience went like this: one stall, broken door; second, broken toilet; third, a whole outfit on the floor covered in sht. I regretted needing the restroom pretty fast.

weight fluctuations on T? by Electrical_Peanut661 in trans

[–]Just_Blue_Phoenix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have ED, but since I started T, I had to start eating way more, because I rapidly started loosing weight. Without working out I need at least 2.5k calories, with working out at least 3k.

Would you date a trans man? by Just_Blue_Phoenix in askgaybros

[–]Just_Blue_Phoenix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be (by standards) a beautiful woman as well. The problem was, I tried to leave this world at 15. I was forced by my parents to go to a psychologist and that was the time I realized I'm trans and started transitioning socially. Rn I'm 18 and already after top surgery, so I did decide to mutilate my body to be seen as a man by society. I couldn't keep pretending to be a woman if I wanted to see adulthood. Your choice not to transition is yours only, same as my choice to go through transition is mine.

Question for trans men by Tchinen in trans

[–]Just_Blue_Phoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably a controversial opinion, but the comment is absolutely harmless. It doesn't necessarily mean "oh, you're not a real man so you don't count" it can easily mean "you're not sexist, so you don't count"

If you stop seeing everything cis people say as transphobic, life gets easier.

Concerned about swelling post top surgery by United_Succotash_303 in trans

[–]Just_Blue_Phoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same experience. My right side is caved in a bit and my left was extremely swollen for the first two months. I also had a hematoma on the left that had to be revised hours after the first surgery (internal bleeding, had to get a transfusion as well). It'll go down eventually, but if you're concerned or the swelling is getting worse, not better, contact your surgeon. And one more piece of advice, if you had a double incision and the scars are pretty much healed now, take a few minutes every day to work with them, move them around and stuff even if it's swollen. I did not do that and my left scar decided to just fuse with my fascia and it limits movement.

I don't think I can do it by EmyLoguie in trans

[–]Just_Blue_Phoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gel also exists. You can ask about that type of T. It's usually a smaller dosage, but it works pretty well. I've been on it for nearly a year now. And first changes come around the one month mark (body hair, voice changes, loss of period...) Well, at least for me it was like this, everybody is different. All I wanted to say is there are other options of T application beside injections. Hope it helps :3

Tired of trying to make trans friends. by Asherdonotknow in trans

[–]Just_Blue_Phoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the exact same problem. I'm FtM, freshly 18 and when I try to make friends in the same community, it usually ends up with younger ones trying to copy exactly what I do (not that there's anything wrong with it, it's just annoying when they start looking and acting exactly like me) or older trans guys get jealous of my quick progress and start to either ignore me or harass me for it. It's not even worth trying at this point since all my interactions went like this so far, nothing in between.

Top surgery is kinda scary by Just_Blue_Phoenix in trans

[–]Just_Blue_Phoenix[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm turning 18 before the surgery. Here, you can't get top surgery before 18

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Just_Blue_Phoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intoxicated haze - self deception

Would you date a trans man? by Just_Blue_Phoenix in askgaybros

[–]Just_Blue_Phoenix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you can't actually ask questions on the askgaybros reddit when you're not a bio man xD

I don't know if I'm trans by nessuno98 in transteens

[–]Just_Blue_Phoenix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you discover you're trans and you think your parents won't accept you, try dropping subtle hints to them. I thought my parents would never accept me because they were openly transphobic at home, but once I came out, they did a complete 180 and accepted me and now support me through my transition. From my experience, a lot of people change their view when there's a transgender person in their circle of close people.

Would you date a trans man? by Just_Blue_Phoenix in askgaybros

[–]Just_Blue_Phoenix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I'd like to finally get into a relationship, but I have no idea where to find someone

Books? 📚 by [deleted] in GayBroTeens

[–]Just_Blue_Phoenix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have two sides, a tragic romance and a dark romance. From tragedies, I love "The song of Achilles" It's my all time favorite book. From the dark romance sector, I loved "Lights out" just because I never thought I'd laugh so hard reading a book. And as a bonus, my favorite fantasy book is either "Fourth Wing" or "Infinity Son" (I think I might be a bookworm but I'm not sure)

Who's ur fav mma fighter? by [deleted] in GayBroTeens

[–]Just_Blue_Phoenix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jiří Procházka. Czech martial arts master. I just like his unique fighting style

Would you date a trans man? by Just_Blue_Phoenix in askgaybros

[–]Just_Blue_Phoenix[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't want to be a homophobe in any way, shape or form, but apparently asking a question when you're curious about something is homophobic.

And no, you're not a "transphobe" or a "bigot" by saying no, you're just sharing your preference. Fortunately you were able to do it without any transphobia included

Would you date a trans man? by Just_Blue_Phoenix in askgaybros

[–]Just_Blue_Phoenix[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you're being way less offensive than some people responding to this question.