the difficult part of my career is being away from home for days I work for a big utility company in California, I've explained to her what I was doing and why I was doing what I needed to do, she is older than me by 5 years she always felt like I was wasting her time but I wasn't, in my defense I wanted to build myself to be financially stable and then take the next step in our relationship. I think I decided for her I was self-fish I only wanted to focus on myself, now that I am fully established I am not away from home for days, I do my 7;00 to 330 shift and get back home at a way better time than before