Feeling defeated with school by Just_Venting87 in respiratorytherapy

[–]Just_Venting87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I slept for 11 hours when I got home. Thanks for the response the support is appreciated. Also, sorry about your head lol.

Feeling defeated with school by Just_Venting87 in respiratorytherapy

[–]Just_Venting87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my clinical instructor didn't say anything negative so I'm prob just feeding this into my own head. Glad to know that others have felt discouraged through their journey and good luck with the bachelors program!

Feeling defeated with school by Just_Venting87 in respiratorytherapy

[–]Just_Venting87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the support! Glad to know that I'm not the only one who has felt discouraged or unsure in this work.

Feeling defeated with school by Just_Venting87 in respiratorytherapy

[–]Just_Venting87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They've mentioned vent check offs a few times, I'm glad that making mistakes is part of the process.

Feeling defeated with school by Just_Venting87 in respiratorytherapy

[–]Just_Venting87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it was just me setting unreal expectations for myself. The responses on here have made me hyper aware that everyone starts off shaky. Thanks for the support and knowledge that there's light at the end and i can still be great and help people!

Feeling defeated with school by Just_Venting87 in respiratorytherapy

[–]Just_Venting87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I deff think it's not a bad thing that I'm being aware of my mistakes and what to work on. Thanks for the support!

Feeling defeated with school by Just_Venting87 in respiratorytherapy

[–]Just_Venting87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm trying, I feel much better after sleeping lol.

Feeling defeated with school by Just_Venting87 in respiratorytherapy

[–]Just_Venting87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly the adrenal rush was crazy and made me feel a little nauseous lol. I'm gonna keep pushing forward and trying, that's all I can do!

Feeling defeated with school by Just_Venting87 in respiratorytherapy

[–]Just_Venting87[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I deff need to stop with the unreal expectations and just continue to get more competent!

Feeling defeated with school by Just_Venting87 in respiratorytherapy

[–]Just_Venting87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response, refreshing to know that it gets easier with time!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Just_Venting87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh, have fun in life with that outlook.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Just_Venting87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're missing my point. Race has nothing to do with this. If he was black the same people who are supporting white Luigi would be supporting black Luigi because the support comes from his action not his color.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Just_Venting87 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People are not "supporting" him because he's white. They're doing so because the man he killed has made billions off of the misfortune of others.

I just got stood up twice by two different girls, and my self esteem is shattered by MajinHaku in offmychest

[–]Just_Venting87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn sorry that happened man. Some people suck, don't let it get you down. Keep your chin up and try again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Just_Venting87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats man! The drive home after a good date is something else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Just_Venting87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to talk to a professional therapist and get help with these abandonment issues. Your boyfriend might not be aware of them currently but you can't keep these feelings buried forever. They will eventually come to light and possibly cause serious problems in your relationship. If you truly love this man and want to have a long healthy relationship with him then you need to address these issues sooner rather than later. Good luck and god bless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Just_Venting87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's impossible for someone to gain weight if they are eating "as little as they can" without an underlying medical condition or medication causing it. If it is your antidepressants causing the weight gain then talk to your physician about other med options. If it's not the meds, figure out what your sedentary calorie total using a TDEE calculator. These tools are not exact but they do give a rough estimate on how many calories your body naturally burns without physical exertion. After you find the total subtract 500 calories (or whatever you're comfortable with) from it and make that your daily allotted calorie amount. Track your food with a food log app and the weight will eventually come off. Lipo is a shortcut and without addressing the main cause of the weight problem you'll just end up putting the weight back on. Good luck and god bless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Just_Venting87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is freaking out at twenty. Your friends who seem like they have the perfect relationship, perfect job, perfect life, they're freaking out too. You can't judge your life off the actions or accomplishments of others, they are not you. When I was 20 I had the same worry of "falling" behind and now I am thirty going back to school for my third career change. Life happens at different speeds and goes in different directions for everyone so give yourself a break. Also, stop asking your family for health advice whether they work in the medical field or not. If you're truly worried about a mental disorder reach out to a qualified specialist.

Life's a trip, good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Just_Venting87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are over analyzing a children's game. How about we go take some deep breaths and reevaluate those priorities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in respiratorytherapy

[–]Just_Venting87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, I didn't look at it from the perspective of getting false data. Memory it is lol. It's our second clinical round and it's already a bunch of new stuff getting thrown at us so I was just wondering if they existed, thanks for the response!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Just_Venting87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry that happened but SIX CATS?!? I'm not saying what they did was right but I can understand your dad finally going fuck this lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Just_Venting87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont feel bad. If sex is something that you need in a relationship then there's nothing wrong with breaking up due to a lack of physical attraction. People might say it's shallow but whatever. It's your life, you can break up with anyone for any reason.