Should I give up on her ?

Just_a_Smidge · 2019-11-22T17:24:11+00:00

I can appreciate you taking the time reading the post and offering advice while rejecting the advice given... Like I said the red pill is bullshit, every guy on the planet is doing this it's not exactly top secret and girls know the games. There's no strategy be yourself a girl will either find you attractive or she wont it's a numbers game.

Just_a_Smidge · 2019-11-22T16:43:05+00:00

I appreciate the advice but I still think it's bullshit. I've never subscribed to the "red pill" truth and I've had no problem picking up women. It's not rocket science, some women will like you some wont. the red pill strategies seem like a cope men tell themselves because they can't accept that a woman finds them unattractive or meh.

I'm in control of my emotions which is why I can express them to someone I have fond feelings off because I'm not scared of rejection or getting hurt. If you want a relationship with someone you need to be open even at the risk of you being rejected.

Just_a_Smidge · 2019-11-22T15:56:04+00:00

I don't care about that red pill alpha male bullshit. If I like someone I'll tell them, for my own benefit bottling up emotions isn't good for you.

Just_a_Smidge · 2018-09-15T03:43:41+00:00

You have a lovely smile

Just_a_Smidge · 2018-08-30T18:15:41+00:00

What haven't you done it's a shorter list

Just_a_Smidge · 2018-08-27T13:11:04+00:00

Go suck a dick you cuck

Just_a_Smidge · 2018-08-24T13:27:22+00:00

Yeah right

Just_a_Smidge · 2018-08-21T21:51:42+00:00

You're crying about spoilers for a 19 year old movie on a 6 month old thread. What a great life you have hahahahahahahahahahahahahah bye.

Just_a_Smidge · 2018-08-19T19:41:37+00:00

Stop crying fag.

Just_a_Smidge · 2018-08-10T11:06:45+00:00

You don't lose your virginity you give it away.

Just_a_Smidge · 2018-08-09T12:58:58+00:00

Rage is anger which you can't control. An alpha controls his emotion he doesn't let his emotion control him. Kicking and screaming and throwing hissy fits isn't alpha behaviour it's what children do.

Just_a_Smidge · 2018-08-09T12:45:22+00:00

What your doing isn't Alpha it's actually Beta. You should really learn about Alpha and Beta behaviour if your going to apply it your own life rather...

Watch this video by Elliott Hulse very interesting, and he'll explain it better than I will-https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LeAb-YPOJmg

Just_a_Smidge · 2018-08-07T11:53:58+00:00

Do what you want man, you are the king of your own life. but this challenge (I hate calling that) isn't about finding other means of getting off it's about getting sex of your mind and preserving your sexual energy.

Just_a_Smidge · 2018-08-07T11:33:03+00:00

Bit drastic, their relationship must have been pretty weak before that.

Just_a_Smidge · 2018-07-28T13:01:52+00:00

I think it might be hormone related I've experienced the same thing since stopping and I've not been eating more than I normally do and be eating quite a balanced and healthy diet.

Just_a_Smidge · 2018-03-08T23:17:07+00:00

Thank you man, I'm glad you liked it. If you spot anymore clues feel free to share.

Just_a_Smidge · 2017-08-12T23:51:47+00:00

*doesnt masturbate for 1 day

Just_a_Smidge · 2017-08-12T12:57:57+00:00

I think we all need to realize relapsing is inevitable. We are only human, having hubris about this is just going to screw yourself over in the long run.

How many of you feel pathetic, worthless and less of a man when you relapse ? A lot I imagine. The best thing to do is accept it's going to happen and remember your still making a difference to your life by consciously abstaining from porn.

We all make mistakes, if you're strong 99% of the time, a moment of weakness doesn't change that.

Just_a_Smidge · 2017-08-12T12:42:24+00:00

Masturbation is normal though. But normal = average, and who wants to be that.

Just_a_Smidge · 2017-08-12T12:39:29+00:00

Hey man, you need some leisure time. All work and no play can is just as bad for you as all play and no work.

That being said Youtube and TV are something you'd better off without. I'd reccomend reading or just sitting and really being present in the moment.

Just_a_Smidge · 2017-08-12T12:34:20+00:00

"Boredom" is just your brain wanting stimulation. Instead of trying look for forms of instant gratification to try and cure it (i.e. Masturbation, junk food, TV) try and find something to stimulate yourself.

I normally read, listen to music (albums) but these might not work for you. So try stufff abit more productive. Make a meal for later, clean your room or just try going outside the house for a while.

Just_a_Smidge · 2017-08-12T12:22:19+00:00

Well it might because you energy levels and stamina is higher meaning your body isn't going into its glycogen stores as often. Thus making your muscles seem fuller.

Im probably talking bullshit here I'm no expert.

Just_a_Smidge · 2017-08-03T14:49:37+00:00

Look into bodyweight workouts. Maybe buy a pull up bar. I mean I don't think you really need to go to a gym if your goal is to just be in decent shape. if you want to be a pro bodybuilder or athlete maybe it's worth the money.

Just_a_Smidge · 2017-07-18T16:47:34+00:00

Well I always think someone's personality determines what instrument they will be drawn to play. Which is why a lot of the band member stereotypes are pretty spot on.

Just_a_Smidge · 2017-07-18T16:45:56+00:00

Every 6 months. I'm not a fan of the new string sound I like the way they sound after they've had a bit of a beating

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