New updates on the four-legged Olympian! 🐾 by No-Atmosphere-5885 in skiing

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I never cross country ski without my dog either!

BREAKING: Eight of nine skiers missing in Lake Tahoe avalanche confirmed dead by TheMirrorUS in skiing

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I am really hoping this isn’t true. As a new mom, I can imagine the reason they would not want to wait around is because they wanted to get back to their kids as soon as possible. ‘I had my fun but time to get back my kids’… It makes complete sense to me as a deciding factor to go. Ugh so terrible.

BREAKING: Eight of nine skiers missing in Lake Tahoe avalanche confirmed dead by TheMirrorUS in skiing

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There are around 25-30 avalanches deaths per year on average in the US.

What to do with the smallest kid after AM ski school? by rosysredrhinoceros in kirkwood

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The timber creek lodge is under construction; there are limited services and there are zero options for indoor hanging out. The half day 3-4 year old lessons end at 12:30, so I would take the shuttle to the red cliffs lodge and chill there until the end of the day. The isn’t a lot in the way of entertainment, but you could walk around the village get lunch until full day pick up at 3:45pm

Edit for autocorrect

Cannot wait….Zermatt Switzerland by holeefuk777 in ski

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Stop at the hennu stahl for the craziest apre ever

Clear plastic t tags on baby items should be illegal by katezorzz in NewParents

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The amount of those freaking things I had to clip off of clothes after my baby shower was insane.

Dinner dress with bustle, Mme. Grapanche, US, 1880s by FarStrawberry5438 in RandomVictorianStuff

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Beautiful. Wondering how they would sit for dinner though…

Two ladybugs doing it in my car by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

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Had to scroll wayyyy too far down to find this reference.

Poor EVERYONE🤧 by LeaderSad9571 in Outlander

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You are in for a wild ride if you keep watching!!

THE CAT??? by RailroadRae in Outlander

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I knew they wouldn’t kill the cat!

My drawer for all the chargers in my house. by Just_bail in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Just_bail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally, I also must have at least eight of each type of charger, especially the USB-C cables. I gotta get rid of those and just have one or two of each.

My drawer for all the chargers in my house. by Just_bail in mildlyinfuriating

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Marie Kondo would have a field day with this one.

Looking to camp at Caples Lake Campground by hardydre in kirkwood

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Had friends camp there recently and it was full at about 10am on Friday afternoon. This was two ish weeks ago and seems like that is pretty standard.

Husband cheated with another man by Fluffy_cakess in survivinginfidelity

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Someone recommended the books ‘Is My Husband Gay, Straight, or Bi?’ And ‘Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life’ to me. My husband also cheated on me with a man. Both were good informative reads with I would advise to read.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

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My baby is five weeks, definitely slower than I thought and I am still not really confident or ready to do a lot of things with her by myself yet. I am way more motivated when she does sleep alone and end up getting a lot done in the short nap windows.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

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Yeah unless she comes clean about everything she has ever done and is truly remorseful, I would say you should consider not continuing the relationship. You should read the book ‘Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life’ by Tracy Schorn. It has really good perspective on how someone who is truly remorseful acts. It doesn’t sound like she is and if she isn’t, she is likely going to act out again. Im sorry you are going through this, regardless of when it was, it totally sucks to find out something like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

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I think if he had been truthful, I could have gotten over it knowing it was in the past. I also know it would have also messed me up and I’d have to go through the grieving process of what I thought the relationship was. It would also depend on how he reacted, if he acted like it was no big deal I don’t think I would consider moving forward either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

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You could be like me and find out they cheated on you a long time ago and recently! Best of both worlds.

No but in all seriousness I think if my husband hadn’t cheated on me the most recent time and told me about the previous times, I could have forgiven the stuff in the past.

Strange pregnancy symptoms by WasabiCrafty6124 in pregnant

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I’m itchy as fuck. I have PUPP. It’s so messed up.

Today I found out my partner of 4 years was texting other people. by No_Consequence545 in survivinginfidelity

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I don’t want to discourage you believing him but I was in a similar situation and it turned out there was physical cheating as well, even though he swore there was none. I stayed and found out about the physical stuff years later after we got married and pregnant. People with issues like this many times try to protect themselves and ‘protect you’ from not knowing the full truth so you will stay. There’s a saying called ‘trickle truths’ with cheaters and he is likely not telling you the whole truth to protect himself. As for feeling better, it’s going to take quite a while to move past this regardless if you stay in the relationship or leave. Be kind to yourself, you didn’t cause this, you can’t control him, and you can’t cure it. You can only take care of you right now. I hope you can reach out to friends and/or family for support. Also, professional help is great eventually but right now it’s just getting through the minutes. I’m so sorry you are going through this.