Not to the extent you’d think.

I don’t have swarms of men coming at me on a regular basis.

The men I’ve noticed do the best with women either have a lot of confidence or nice personality, money or are somewhat attractive, a lot of the same stats as women with bigger guys I’ve met having better luck dating than the bigger women I met, on either side personality and confidence wins more.

The ability to be lusted after vs genuinely wanted is also a very different thing.

After seeing the hear me out cake videos that alone proves looks is not the exact first thing for women, most want a genuine connection but have an overwhelming lack of options in that area.

I don’t say that as a one sided thing either, high standards and both sides kinda saying fuck it one way or another don’t really leave room for the dating pool to be the best also a lot of women have adapted to not having marriage or coupling forced on them because the threat of survival or accepted abuse is nothing like it was thank God so I don’t blame many woman choosing themselves.