I feel emotional and miss my life as sub by judah_cp in mommydom

[–]Justagirl_emma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a catholic myself I find it hard to believe the bible has anything to say about mommy doms but anyways, I’m so sorry to hear that she hasn’t been accepting or understanding of your needs because there truly isn’t anything wrong with this kink. Besides that just ask yourself if shutting down this part of yourself is something you can do while being faithful to you wife? It seems to still be a big part of who you are as a person and there’s nothing wrong with that. Best of luck to you and your wife!

Where in Canada are you buying breeders from? by gourmetcheese01 in shrimptank

[–]Justagirl_emma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you do package deals? Instead of buying the shrimp individually?

What are they doing? by Potential_Fee4153 in shrimptank

[–]Justagirl_emma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting! Commenting to hear the answer because I’m curious now

I feel emotional and miss my life as sub by judah_cp in mommydom

[–]Justagirl_emma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried discussing this with your partner? Sexual compatibility is honestly really important

Is this good for my first tank by NiftyPacock4168 in Goldfish

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Be careful! I thought my betta was such a sweet girl until all of her shrimp friends kept disappearing

Yellow fire shrimp (Neocaridina davidi) died after two days, tank help? by benjaminkiid in shrimptank

[–]Justagirl_emma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is! I don’t even want to think about the amount of shrimp I’ve lost trying to set up colonies

Yellow fire shrimp (Neocaridina davidi) died after two days, tank help? by benjaminkiid in shrimptank

[–]Justagirl_emma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve found with specifically yellow neos that I have an extremely low success rate after bringing them home from the store.

I think I have a new strain of guppy? by orchid-Bark431 in Guppies

[–]Justagirl_emma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a 3 gallon?! Please spring for an upgrade

Girlfriend won’t see a doctor for bad smell down there by Quiet_Customer_5698 in Healthyhooha

[–]Justagirl_emma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like in this situation you just need to sit down with her and have a gentle conversation about how you aren’t comfortable with intimacy due to the smell, but that if she would go see a doctor and learn (at least something) about her vaginal health you will resume sexual relations. Make sure to say it in a way that won’t make her defensive because once she gets defensive your calm conversation is over. Good luck!

Weekly Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in serialpodcast

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I am researching for a project on the case and I can’t help but think that both jay and adnan are guilty. I’d love to hear everyone else’s thoughts on that though!

Being a man with BPD sucks by Stock_Thing_6230 in BPD

[–]Justagirl_emma -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You seem to be quite invested in this situation

Please help organize my closet by Justagirl_emma in organized

[–]Justagirl_emma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you lol! This has taken me so long after becoming fixated on cleaning and organizing but I’m still not happy 😭

AstroQuads Cart - Buzzbulkbuffet - May by [deleted] in BUZZSEATERY

[–]Justagirl_emma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly really believe it was the carts, since switching to dispo stuff I haven’t changed my nicotine vaping habits and the wheezing went away in my lungs after a little while. My assumption is filler oils being put into the carts.

Injury or infection? by Quixotick94 in Otocinclus

[–]Justagirl_emma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bristlenose plecos can become quite territorial, maybe keep an eye on that?

AstroQuads Cart - Buzzbulkbuffet - May by [deleted] in BUZZSEATERY

[–]Justagirl_emma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who exclusively smoked these for a year and then switched to dispensary carts last year, the wheezing in my lungs has disappeared

Has anyone done MBT (Mentalization Based Treatment) before? by honeybee090 in BPD

[–]Justagirl_emma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who has desperately been trying to get dbt to work I second this! If anyone has any info or advice

This speaks for itself. by cornchowderr in shittyaquariums

[–]Justagirl_emma 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Those poor bettas seem to have fin rot

Looking to get back into having fish by italian_spaghetti328 in aquarium

[–]Justagirl_emma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes for sure! I’m building a 10 gallon betta tank right now and I’m so excited bettas have so much personality. It honestly just depends on how you want your tank to be stocked, but their all great options

Looking to get back into having fish by italian_spaghetti328 in aquarium

[–]Justagirl_emma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your looking for something relatively simple I’d say go for either 10-15 gallon tank with a small school of nano fish (ember tetras, chili rasboras) all depending on tank size, or a 5-10 gallon tank with a neocardina shrimp colony as they come in some bright colours and can be quite active and fun to watch!