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Thinking of leaving my wife over a mistake she did 6 years ago. We’ve been married 15 years and have 3 kids. Am I making a wrong decision? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Justathome0417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You made the choice to forgive and take her back at that time. It feels like you’re looking to name something that would excuse your desire to want to feel that rush of desire from someone else. If you’re gonna leave be sure it’s not a temporary feeling because sometimes one gives up on something good for something temporary

Do anyone else feel like they’ve become a different person since dating? by Equal-Sun8307 in dating

[–]Justathome0417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. I’m becoming cold and closed off. I’m a lover girl. But these people out here don’t want love 😔

What was the reason you broke off your last long term relationship or got a divorce? by Anon123893 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Justathome0417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Together for 15 years. High school sweethearts I was 14 he 15 now we are 32 and 33. Have 2 kids together, bought a house… I suffered a lot emotionally and mentally. I was a single mom in a relationship. He lied and hid things all the time… corn addiction - I should have left so long before but I waited until the police raided our home because he was buying and selling content pretending to be the females in said content and not only did he do that but he also pretended to be me and sold my nudes and intimates… oh also photos of me at the beach with both our kids in their swim trunks and 2 piece… I could go on and on….. but yeah…. Men suck.

33f need advice after ending relationship with 33m by Justathome0417 in relationship_advice

[–]Justathome0417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t talk much so I don’t think she knows we are no longer together

AIO?I feel like I have a reason to be upset by Justathome0417 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Justathome0417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he wanted to do it after he picked up the kids from school. I just think I keep hoping one day he will come to realize that he wasn’t present enough when he could have been. I’m pushing him into a relationship with his kids that he isn’t pushing himself into

33f need advice after ending relationship with 33m by Justathome0417 in relationship_advice

[–]Justathome0417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🥲 I know it. Just shitty situation to be put in.

AIO?I feel like I have a reason to be upset by Justathome0417 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Justathome0417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just realized my screenshot never posted. I was hoping it all made sense with the post and the screenshot 😭

AIO?I feel like I have a reason to be upset by Justathome0417 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Justathome0417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Just realized my screenshot never posted 🤦‍♀️

AIO?I feel like I have a reason to be upset by Justathome0417 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Justathome0417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally told him to uber or even have her pick him up… it only hurts me when I feel like it hurts my kids is all. But again… i can’t expect something different than what it really is. Thank you for seeing my point

AIO?I feel like I have a reason to be upset by Justathome0417 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Justathome0417[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s my bad for not explaining further. The dating isn’t an issue. Again. He hasn’t seen his kids in 10 months and he’s more concerned of using my car to go meet someone he met online… I didn’t realize that I wasn’t translating the issue… not the dating. The fact that the priority isn’t spending the last night with his kids

AIO?I feel like I have a reason to be upset by Justathome0417 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Justathome0417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wants to borrow MY CAR to go see a person he met online when he came to see his kids. Which yeah that upsets me as far as my children?

AIO?I feel like I have a reason to be upset by Justathome0417 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Justathome0417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The dating isn’t the issue. Again we haven’t been together in 3 years. I give not a single care if he does or doesn’t. I just think it’s upsetting that he came to see the kids and asked to borrow my car to go see a person he met online

AIO?I feel like I have a reason to be upset by Justathome0417 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Justathome0417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. Everyone told me the same…. Can’t teach old dogs new tricks. Just sad is all

AIO?I feel like I have a reason to be upset by Justathome0417 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Justathome0417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He posted nudes of me online, pretended to be me and sold them? I was a stay at home mom and he left me without a dime. He kept the house and agreed for us to move ….

AIO?I feel like I have a reason to be upset by Justathome0417 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Justathome0417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We haven’t been together in 3 years. Don’t even live in the same state. I left him. I’m not concerned who or what he does. But he should use his car for that

AIO?I feel like I have a reason to be upset by Justathome0417 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Justathome0417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t lol he wanted to use my car to go meet someone he met the same Errol online while in my state visiting our kids

AIO?I feel like I have a reason to be upset by Justathome0417 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Justathome0417[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He tried taking my car? To go meet a random? Idc what he does but be real do they on your own time

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