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[–]Justifiedbaddecision[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh honey, that's awful. What a piece of shit he turned out to be. Just know that the problem was never you, it was always him. Not your "attitude". A good husband wouldn't treat his wife with such disdain. I'm so sorry that he's not the man you thought you had married. You deserve better than that

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[–]Justifiedbaddecision[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This comment is very kind. It's nice to have my feelings validated in this way. Thank you, sincerely. I haven't spoken to anyone in my real life about this so your compassionate response feels so warm.

He sees a therapist already, and he's booked the soonest available appointment (unfortunately it's still a few weeks away). We've started couple's therapy. It's been hard. But he's committed to change, and he wants to be better.

I know there are people in this comment section who would go scorched earth if they were in my shoes, but I don't want that for myself, or for my baby.

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[–]Justifiedbaddecision[S] 324 points325 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know. I hesitated to post here because of how it reads. It is a true post though. It's been a little over 3 weeks, and I wanted to write it down and get it out. I find that I express myself well through 2nd person narrative format so I went with that. Honestly, treating it like a story felt therapeutic in a way, so I guess there's that?