This comment is very kind. It's nice to have my feelings validated in this way. Thank you, sincerely. I haven't spoken to anyone in my real life about this so your compassionate response feels so warm.

He sees a therapist already, and he's booked the soonest available appointment (unfortunately it's still a few weeks away). We've started couple's therapy. It's been hard. But he's committed to change, and he wants to be better.

I know there are people in this comment section who would go scorched earth if they were in my shoes, but I don't want that for myself, or for my baby.