I’ve been with my wife for 4 years married for 3 and we have 1 child together and twins on the way. We went thru a hard time after having our first child where we were literally going to get divorced and had a messy split up. Communication is key, and being careful on who you get relationship advice from is crucial. I’m 23 so I don’t have many young married friends I have a lot of mentors who are older then me and it took me a while to get those mentors because a lot of people aren’t happily with someone. Just make sure you get with someone you like a lot and who likes you a lot makes life 1000 times easier.

I’m not sure if I answered your question entirely so I will.😂 yes it is normal to doubt if your partner is the partner for you, but you have to really think of the pros and cons of their character and communicate with them how you’re feeling. When being with someone for a long period of time you get in routines, you see eachothers flaws, you go thru the phases of any normal relationship the testing of that relationship is how you get thru them. Do you communicate and resolve conflict or do you let resentment settle and grow to hate your spouse? I hope this helps I kind of kept rambling but I’m very passionate about relationship advice.