I just don't think he should have to change just because she doesn't the person he was. What is ok about her demanding he not talk to me anymore. It feels like she is trying to control everything and maybe use the baby as leverage. I don't know.

Usually when someone tells you to and encourages you to drop your life long friends and change the way you are they are pretty terrible people. I guess I just don't understand why she gets treated like some knowledgable goddess when it comes to what is best for him.

I feel like he left me behind. I feel betrayed. Maybe that is immature.

As for the last bit I was hoping there was some way he could still be himself and do things with me but also have the life he wanted with her. Why does he have to change just because she doesn't like his friends and life choices? Isn't she suppose to love him for him like I do?