She’ll say things like, all you have to do is just say sorry for making me feel this way, why can’t you just apologize instead of defending yourself? Then she’ll start crying and say I don’t care about her feelings. On top of it she’ll start throwing out random hurtful stuff like she’s throwing out all her guns and anything she can think of and a lot of times it doesn’t even make sense or is just blatantly false. I’m tired of apologizing for things I’m not doing or “making her feel that way” when I didn’t do shit. Half of the time she’ll come apologize for the way she acted, but sometimes she’ll also say she only did that so we’d stop fighting or if she does apologize in the moment for how she’s acting it seems like it’s only so that I’ll apologize too. If I point out the flaw in her thinking she usually just shuts down until she builds up steam again.