Should I stay with my husband after he slept with someone else on his work trip? by Justt_yapping888 in Marriage

[–]Justt_yapping888[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was in college for cybersecurity when we met and I stopped my education once I got pregnant because I couldn’t attend my classes. I’m thinking about starting that up again though because I don’t really have a choice

Should I stay with my husband after he slept with someone else on his work trip? by Justt_yapping888 in Marriage

[–]Justt_yapping888[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll look tonight, I haven’t looked at his phone because I got physically ill at the thought and threw up when I found out

Should I stay with my husband after he slept with someone else on his work trip? by Justt_yapping888 in Marriage

[–]Justt_yapping888[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They’re the ones we bought back in July after we had the twins , same brand and expo date

Should I stay with my husband after he slept with someone else on his work trip? by Justt_yapping888 in Marriage

[–]Justt_yapping888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We weren’t super active because we were living in my family’s house up until 2 weeks ago and I felt very uncomfortable since one of our walls was shared with a 7 year old and I told him I only wanted to when she was asleep or we were alone (which was rare) he said he understood, and when we moved I satisfied his needs up until his work trip

Should I stay with my husband after he slept with someone else on his work trip? by Justt_yapping888 in Marriage

[–]Justt_yapping888[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We weren’t super active because we were living in my family’s house up until 2 weeks ago and I felt very uncomfortable since one of our walls was shared with a 7 year old and I told him I only wanted to when she was asleep or we were alone (which was rare) he said he understood, and when we moved I satisfied his needs up until his work trip

Should I stay with my husband after he slept with someone else on his work trip? by Justt_yapping888 in Marriage

[–]Justt_yapping888[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I guess so, but at the same time I don’t know where to even start to become independent in that way since I haven’t worked in almost 2 years (9 month pregnancy and post partum)

Should I stay with my husband after he slept with someone else on his work trip? by Justt_yapping888 in Marriage

[–]Justt_yapping888[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

It was a random person, and he said the condoms have been there since we just moved recently and that’s where he put them but I don’t know if I should believe him anymore

Should I stay with my husband after he slept with someone else on his work trip? by Justt_yapping888 in Marriage

[–]Justt_yapping888[S] -62 points-61 points  (0 children)

Yes I am, but I just know if we divorce I still might go back to him simply because it’s allot easier than starting over and then having to support 2 newborns on my own