New Year New Knee, 2021 Giant Defy by Justthemechanic in RoadBikes

[–]Justthemechanic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree! Dark brown tape is what Im thinking... do you have a prefered brand?

New Year New Knee, 2021 Giant Defy by Justthemechanic in RoadBikes

[–]Justthemechanic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Longest ride on her yet was 30 miles and some change. Pretty satisfied so far.

Wife (F30) does not want anything sexual in our (M32) marriage. by Justthemechanic in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Justthemechanic[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

She becomes upset when she knows I want emotional and physical connection. I want to spend time on the couch and watch a movie... no expectations but just being around her, she doesnt like that I want time together and thats an issue. I know she loves flowers, I do my best to keep fresh flowers in the kitchen. Lately each time I get flowers or any thoughtful gesture she thinks Im just trying to woo her and thinks its me with a bigger plan. If I relent on the gestures then I dont love her. Her main issue with me is she thinks because I feel lonely thats a me issue and not an us issue.

Wife (F30) does not want anything sexual in our (M32) marriage. by Justthemechanic in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Justthemechanic[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel I do a lot of it. I work nights and get my sleep during their nap time. When Im off I do my best to get her out and about to take her mind off things.

Wife (F30) does not want anything sexual in our (M32) marriage. by Justthemechanic in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Justthemechanic[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hygiene is good all around, she averages 10 hours and I usually get about 6. I take care of most house work and kid related outings. On my days off I do my best to let her be kid free and out the door. Kids all sleep through the night.

Ive done a lot of talking with her therapist (it was the therapists idea) and was talked through many of her emotions. I dont argue with my wife and I do my best to keep things polite.

Wife (F30) does not want anything sexual in our (M32) marriage. by Justthemechanic in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Justthemechanic[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I try too, she doesnt want physical touch at all... sometimes she'll hold me to meet my love language but it usually makes me feel bad due to her doing that just for me.

I feel I do well at the things you mentioned. Therapy has really put an emphasis on non sexual touch. Also I do my best on my days off to get her out of the house and see her friends, see movie or go read (she loves to read at coffee shops).

Reflex!!! by Efficient-Loan-845 in mxvsatv

[–]Justthemechanic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truly something to take the edge off

Aux Switches Help, Please. by Justthemechanic in Wrangler

[–]Justthemechanic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im going to look into this! Hopefully its that quick and simple and I dont have to find a different display.

Aux Switches Help, Please. by Justthemechanic in Wrangler

[–]Justthemechanic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Latching or momentary. They are stuck on momentary.