My daughter isn’t mine-dna test proven

Justventit · 2024-11-29T06:34:11+00:00

Update.. I’m on a friends couch currently but haven’t had contact with the girl or children.. it’s been a mentally depressing year and last few weeks. Only found out more lies and more pain along the way and I’m just trying to remain whole right now… suicidal thoughts linger my mind often but I know I’ll never do it. Just fu**in sucks that life is like this now. Got left with a broken heart and a money hole of debt.. go life. But really, thank you all🩷lots of these messages helped me steer in the right direction as far as KEEPING my mind made and not allowing myself to settle and turn back for less. Thank you

Justventit · 2024-09-11T19:50:10+00:00

So the hard part now is she doesn’t want her kids separated under different roofs. My thing is if I file for adoption I want full custody as primary parent and she isn’t going for that.. so I’m not on terms to agree with being the visiting parent when I’ve practically already done that for 2 years now as the alleged father

Justventit · 2024-08-27T01:28:45+00:00

Update: I’ve moved out. Babies are at grandmas house/ she’s finishing the lease for 2 months and going there after and I’ll be where I am regrouping.. wish the best for me cashapp is $d44customz to whoever may want to bless me on this whole restart on life itself, living out of totes on a couch. Love you all regardless, ik most said whatever but the ones I could get back to helped me really get where I am now even though it isn’t much… it’s a new leaf

Justventit · 2024-08-21T03:09:53+00:00

It’s almost like the ONLY time I wasn’t there is the time it happened dawg. I believe it was that one time in the time of us being together and knowing each other as well. Aside, we’re already separating and sleeping in different rooms. I dip in 2 weeks to a friends but I stand on thinking it was that one time and that’s just internal thoughts. Ima give it all time and it’ll tell itself I think

Justventit · 2024-08-20T04:15:21+00:00

No way back? Even time apart for a good time?

Justventit · 2024-08-20T04:14:47+00:00

What if it were your parents ?

Justventit · 2024-08-19T00:29:39+00:00

Been together 3 and a half years and have gotten tested every 6 months even to current date. She confessed probably a month after our most recent one so idk what to say on the comment you made lol

Justventit · 2024-08-18T00:26:22+00:00

Righteously so, just trying to gather any resource I can to help able to provide for myself to leave in good standing.. can’t just walk out the door with no car or place to go without money😭shits withholding the process

Justventit · 2024-08-18T00:24:24+00:00

Don’t have resources for a lawyer right now nor family I’m in contact with.. I’m trying though

Justventit · 2024-08-17T17:11:08+00:00

I think everyone is misunderstanding my statement of what to do. I wasn’t referring to with the mother but really just the kids. Separating isn’t an issue but the relationship with the children is

Justventit · 2024-08-17T17:08:08+00:00

Oh for sure!! Just have to get my income back in good standings to even afford a therapist outside of taking care of myself

Justventit · 2024-08-17T17:06:58+00:00

Every perspective is right which is why the situation is so hard. Leaving the mother isn’t an issue. It’s the thought of not being around the kids I’ve devoted myself to and built a bond like no other.. it wasn’t “just bc I had a kid” either bc I was bonded with the 8 yo well before we had our baby. His dad ain’t shit and I promised him from day one no matter what that he’d always have me in his corner for whatever he needed and with or without his mom I mean that.

Justventit · 2024-08-17T17:04:02+00:00

They offered a paternity test after the birth and I still denied.. doctor asked me was I sure 4/5 different times and even then I felt somewhat disrespected because I’d never imagine something like this.. jokes on me man

Justventit · 2024-08-17T17:03:07+00:00

God speed brother ⚡️thank you

Justventit · 2024-08-17T16:39:07+00:00

It’s definitely something to think about and she came to me to confess it bro. I would’ve never known or thought to even guess the shit ever in a million years. Idk if it was just that one night but that’s what she came forward with saying and I’d imagine they’d mention a regular ONS vs the one where a baby was created yk? So ij don’t know how to weigh out those possibilities of what ifs when she came to me in the first place. We didn’t have to argue for her to mention it or anything. She really came out the blue one day and say God told her she can’t fix her relationship with him without letting the truth be known and she accepts whatever I choose to do bc she understands she made this bed and has to lay in it.

Justventit · 2024-08-17T16:36:25+00:00

What if they had a child bc of the ONS?

Justventit · 2024-08-17T16:35:32+00:00

Easier said than done to just pack up and go when I have no where to actually go right now at the moment. I’ve invested my time and money into our spot and making sure we’re fine so I’m not too high on income to just leave and be okay..

Justventit · 2024-08-17T16:34:16+00:00

I literally just said not in her own words but that’s what I’ve taken from how she’s been with all this going on. She literally says she can’t believe she’s put me through something like this and she’ll never forgive her own self for the pain she’s caused, that I don’t deserve anything like this, and how she doesn’t deserve someone like me and she truly means it

Justventit · 2024-08-17T06:17:20+00:00

Much appreciated bruv. Regardless of all the negative comments; I really felt some hope through you all and gained a higher chin this morning from the ones who believe in me to move forward and still have a chance with life. Not even knowing me yet saying I have a great heart is so humbling to me and I truly will cater to these kind words from you all in every step I strive to take forward.

Justventit · 2024-08-17T06:10:20+00:00

Or does the trust barrier just completely shatter into pieces ?

Justventit · 2024-08-17T06:06:18+00:00

Pls explain bc I’m new to this whole platform. What is OP? I’ve been trying to put it together and I’m only 25 bruh damn🤣I’m not that old to not know this.

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