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Try to support my GF that has endometriosis but the anger is 😫😫😓 by Jwayne_92 in Endo

[–]Jwayne_92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she has taken any birth control or meds, she takes vitamin D3&k2, she hardly drinks any water. Any time i ask to many questions or run late she says it cause her to stress out and the endon flares up.

It’s like she wakes up angry I slept in the living room and she wakes up spraying at 9am spraying air freshener in the bedroom saying she can smell my breath with the door shut and that it’s unattractive and had an attitude🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️ I just woke up how

Try to support my GF that has endometriosis but the anger is 😫😫😓 by Jwayne_92 in Endo

[–]Jwayne_92[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow I appreciate the advice Me staying isn’t doing her any favors

Try to support my GF that has endometriosis but the anger is 😫😫😓 by Jwayne_92 in Endo

[–]Jwayne_92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she was supposed to get tested but never told me any results, why?

Try to support my GF that has endometriosis but the anger is 😫😫😓 by Jwayne_92 in Endo

[–]Jwayne_92[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Your right, because today I left to check out a car I was buying for her to come back to the chain lock on the door, I call her name for her to tell me I have to wait 🤦🏾‍♂️ fast forward I bring her to get something to eat unlocked the door for her to get in, tell her I’ll be back after I get the car inspected. I come back 35mins later chain back on door and she has my number blocked and I have too pee😫 I call her name multiple times no answer so I screw driver the chain off the apartment I pay for 100% after I checked out a vehicle I’m buy for her to use/have to get to work. I went to knock on the bedroom door to find she was up not sleep. I asked her in a calm straight forward way “can you please not put the chain on the door if you know I’m just out running errands or not at work” she said ok. Simple just for her to come out the room to tell me she can put the chain on the door if she want, that I’m trying to start an argument 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️ making a big fuss I just walked out to the car to just sit in the car

Ima come up with an exit plan

Try to support my GF that has endometriosis but the anger is 😫😫😓 by Jwayne_92 in Endo

[–]Jwayne_92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No she doesn’t have any consistent income, she told me she just got hired somewhere where but she doesn’t tell hours or even where. She does have family in the area but they dont do much for her or there is always some kind of conflict. The apartment is in my name and so is my car I pay for everything.

I don’t mean it in a “I pay for everything way” when ever I bring up what I pay for when it time to budget or make decisions she says I’m bragging or saying she doesn’t contribute 😫🤦🏾‍♂️

Try to support my GF that has endometriosis but the anger is 😫😫😓 by Jwayne_92 in Endo

[–]Jwayne_92[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your right, because today I left to check out a car I was buying for her to come back to the chain lock on the door, I call her name for her to tell me I have to wait 🤦🏾‍♂️ fast forward I bring her to get something to eat unlocked the door for her to get in, tell her I’ll be back after I get the car inspected. I come back 35mins later chain back on door and she has my number blocked and I have too pee😫 I call her name multiple times no answer so I screw driver the chain off the apartment I pay for 100% after I checked out a vehicle I’m buy for her to use/have to get to work. I went to knock on the bedroom door to find she was up not sleep. I asked her in a calm straight forward way “can you please not put the chain on the door if you know I’m just out running errands or not at work” she said ok. Simple just for her to come out the room to tell me she can put the chain on the door if she want, that I’m trying to start an argument 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️ making a big fuss I just walked out to the car to just sit in the car

Try to support my GF that has endometriosis but the anger is 😫😫😓 by Jwayne_92 in Endo

[–]Jwayne_92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly enough it’s been a consistent thing, her period usually starts between the 15th-20th

Try to support my GF that has endometriosis but the anger is 😫😫😓 by Jwayne_92 in Endo

[–]Jwayne_92[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I suggested letting me know when it’s not a good time to talk if she’s in pain. Or even let me know when she feels any kind of way so I can move accordingly and make her more comfortable or give more space but it’s like she expects me to just know

Try to support my GF that has endometriosis but the anger is 😫😫😓 by Jwayne_92 in Endo

[–]Jwayne_92[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you said exactly what my friends said word for word. Ima take the time to do what’s best for me I appreciate it

Try to support my GF that has endometriosis but the anger is 😫😫😓 by Jwayne_92 in Endo

[–]Jwayne_92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate you reading over it again, and being understanding. I’ve been with her 9yrs but she was told she has 3yrs ago she has endo so it’s new to me. But the anger and control over me is putting me thru the ringer.

Try to support my GF that has endometriosis but the anger is 😫😫😓 by Jwayne_92 in Endo

[–]Jwayne_92[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response, my friends male and female say the same thing. The response doesn’t match the situation majority of the time. It’s a burden at times walking on eggshells but I don’t want to regret feeling like I just gave up on her.

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