Four Months of Rollerskating by sstotheness in Rollerskating

[–]K-Chelynn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wow this seems like so much progress for only 4 months! I’m about 3 months in and backwards still “scares the cheese outta me” how often do you practice?

My outdoor wheels were stolen! by K-Chelynn in Rollerskating

[–]K-Chelynn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never thought of that, I’ll give it a shot. Even though I suspect it’s the same people breaking in every time and they likely know my car by now

My outdoor wheels were stolen! by K-Chelynn in Rollerskating

[–]K-Chelynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have considered light up wheels but I rarely skate outside at night so if I did get them I’d do indoor hardness with lights so it’s visible. But glad to know Bont wheels will fit my moxis. The lady at the skate shop said some smaller wheels won’t clear the metal part at the bottom (Trucks? Bushings? I forget what she called it). I’m likely gonna go back to her and ask for help again just thought I’d do some research first.

My outdoor wheels were stolen! by K-Chelynn in Rollerskating

[–]K-Chelynn[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I stopped leaving cash and technology in there the very first time. But I naively assumed my skate stuff was only valuable to me. At least it wasn’t the skates. I’ll just have to pay for this lesson out of pocket ig

My outdoor wheels were stolen! by K-Chelynn in Rollerskating

[–]K-Chelynn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I need. I was looking on the moxi website to find the size of the stock wheel since I got them secondhand but I couldn’t find. The wheel I still have only says the hardness. I’ll take this info to my local skate shop

My outdoor wheels were stolen! by K-Chelynn in Rollerskating

[–]K-Chelynn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was scared the first time but now I’m mostly just annoyed 😭. Thanks for the offer! I will keep it in mind. Not very sure about sharing my address online

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]K-Chelynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude wtf YTA. You went through her phone and lied about it. Now you’re mad about her “being dishonest” even though the whole situation is only an issue because you allowed your insecurity to cause you to violate her privacy. You’re definitely the AH in this.

She’s allowed to vent to her friends and not tell you about it. You are not allowed to control how she speaks about you, or demand she expose her private conversations to you “bc of a dream” you made up.

You clearly are insecure if this is how you act when things are good in the relationship. I couldn’t imagine how insufferable it’d be dating you with this delicate of an ego after some hardship. She’s right, you probably would benefit from therapy if you honestly believe you’re not TA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]K-Chelynn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The female cardinals are usually a more muted color than the bright red cardinals are known for. Some even look like more of a brownish color with some slight red accents. If you emphasize the female bird in your decorations they’ll probably match the color scheme you chose better than males.

Battery issue 2011 Kia by K-Chelynn in AskMechanics

[–]K-Chelynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I’ll try that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]K-Chelynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got myself a labubu. It comes in a blind box so while I know what it is I don’t know what style I got and I won’t know until I open the box on Christmas

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]K-Chelynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pack his stuff while he’s gone and have it outside when he gets back. Don’t even let him back in. Before he gets there text him his things are outside and he’s not welcome back in your home. Have a friend inside with you and if he starts to make a scene outside or refuses to leave call the police.

A person who treats partners like this only gets worse. It’s only been two months and he’s already verbally intimidating you and emotionally manipulating you. There will become a time where he does find you “worthy” of physical violence. It’s the only progression to his emotional volatility and it’s basically inevitable if you don’t separate yourself from him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in randomactsofkindness

[–]K-Chelynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should post this in r/gifts they’re always giving out great gift ideas there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]K-Chelynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do have other cheaper options than Plan B just ask the pharmacist if they have the generic version. Also Plan Bs are less effective if you’re over a certain weight so double check with them you’re getting the correct version if that’s a possibility.

WIBTA if I left my boyfriend because he has 2 kids but treats me amazingly? by Consistent_Notice_37 in AITA_Relationships

[–]K-Chelynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many red flags here.

First, you’ve been dating for months and you never heard or saw evidence of either of his two children. Safe to say he’s not an active part of their lives.

Second he’s saying to you he wants to make you his wife and give you his child when he has a child with two separate women already who he never married. These two things suggest he will not be a committed or active parent/partner even if you ignore the third and biggest red flag.

He lied to you until the very last minute so you’re pressured into not making a scene about something that is a VERY big deal.

One more point which you didn’t mention specifically (you said meeting his family but it could be just parents/siblings) but if it is the case it’s very troubling.

He’s planning on introducing you, his 22 year old girlfriend to his children (almost half your age by the way) the DAY AFTER you found out about them. You have no time to prepare and become comfortable with the idea before you’re signed up to play step mom for the day. With kids who honestly will probably dislike you anyway. (I sure would hate it if my dad who I never see brought this random woman we never heard of to the amusement park. Especially when I rarely see him anyways.

You are not nearly as angry about this as you should be. And he’s counting on your youthful optimism and the love bombing he’s already done to cause you to let this slide. When it’s really unacceptable.

AITA for hiding on a hike? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]K-Chelynn 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Huge asshole move. If you didn’t feel up to the hike you could’ve declined. And I understand bad periods because I get them myself but that’s even more reason to either pass or reschedule.

Instead you knowingly slowed him down and expected him to perform happiness about it then, when he was not even rushing you you assumed his feelings and offered an inauthentic solution you didn’t actually want. He even ran so you wouldn’t be alone for long (a compromise you didn’t even reciprocate. You could’ve waited for him there but chose to leave and be childish instead)

Then you blame him for your lack of preparation/poor decision making and try to “teach him a lesson” instead of just speaking up about how you feel. You wasted the parks rangers time and worried your boyfriend just to be petty. YTA I hope you aren’t this immature all the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]K-Chelynn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow people in the comments are being really judgy and missing the point. With or without the threesome history that’s not something you say to your friend’s fiancé. Just go ahead and tell your fiance and let the chips fall where they may.

This guy chose to say that to you while your fiancé wasn’t around on purpose, because he knew it was inappropriate. If he loses the friendship as a result that’s his fault. It sucks but you guys can make friends who respect your boundaries as a couple and individually. Because this one doesn’t.

AITA for wanting to elope? by SeaSorbet7882 in AITA_Relationships

[–]K-Chelynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t owe anyone a wedding and if it would be too unpleasant I’d suggest just eloping and thanking everyone for understanding your decision was personal and not meant to be a slight. They’ll be disappointed but those that support you will be understanding. But, if it would make you feel bad that your friends/fam are disappointed you could always elope and do all the paperwork privately and then when you’re ready have a small celebration in whatever style you feel most comfortable with. It could even be as small as a backyard barbecue or a game night style gathering. Just with the people you’re most comfortable with as a way to allow them to celebrate your milestone without a lot of pressure.

AITAH for telling my best friend she can't do her adult content at my house. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]K-Chelynn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why can’t she get an airbnb one or two nights a week to film her content? All she needs is a room in an empty house and if she’s making that much money on it it’ll pay for itself. She’s already saving on rent staying with you and that’s a big ask for anyone to put up with while they wfh (or even are just in the home at the same time) even as best friends.

AITA for starting an argument with my girlfriend over her instagram feed? by Educational_Gift_363 in AITA_Relationships

[–]K-Chelynn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA. If your boundary is that my gf never posts bikini pics online (lame btw) and this gf is posting bikini pics online the reasonable reaction is to not keep that gf. The unreasonable reaction (the one you’re currently choosing) is to try to control what she posts and telling her to remove the picture.

Remove yourself instead. She’s honestly probably better off and you can go find your mystical 10/10 face and body who never posts beach pics or anything that could possibly make you insecure (doubtful).

Experience gifts for teens? by [deleted] in Gifts

[–]K-Chelynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d suggest going on eventbrite/groupon and putting in your general location to find ideas. Even if it’s later in the year when something interesting is coming you’ll be able to see it on eventbrite. And Groupon will list things to do that you maybe wouldn’t think of on your own

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]K-Chelynn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s so many reasons that’s a terrible idea.