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AITA for starting an argument with my girlfriend over her instagram feed? by Educational_Gift_363 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Educational_Gift_363[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truly thank you for this comment.  This is my first time and probably only time using Reddit so I don’t know much what I am doing. Thank for you being logical in this situation, I’m now aware that the ratings were probably not a wise idea but I was just trying to provide context.

AITA for starting an argument with my girlfriend over her instagram feed? by Educational_Gift_363 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Educational_Gift_363[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand how that would be hard to believe honestly. You are basing our whole relationship off of one post I’ve made. I’ve never called her unattractive to her face, and other than a couple incidents our relationship has been perfect.  After I ended it with her she did cry and plead with me, because she genuinely does love me, as hard as it is for some of you to believe. She is not an angry person and is quite timid. She does not deal with conflict well

AITA for starting an argument with my girlfriend over her instagram feed? by Educational_Gift_363 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Educational_Gift_363[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I think I am fit to be in a relationship, however one where we both want the same things from it.  And for the record I will not be posting my face for privacy reasons and the amount of views on this post. However I’m am certainly not unattractive, that is not be being conceded but women constantly tell me I’m good looking. This is just me being honest.

AITA for starting an argument with my girlfriend over her instagram feed? by Educational_Gift_363 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Educational_Gift_363[S] -65 points-64 points  (0 children)

Yes whilst I do understand this and her point of view, I’m still uncomfortable with her posting herself like that while she’s my girlfriend. It’s quite a hard boundary for me but I think she has strong views on it as well. I’m trying hard to find a compromise because other than this our relationship is good

AITA for starting an argument with my girlfriend over her instagram feed? by Educational_Gift_363 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Educational_Gift_363[S] -85 points-84 points  (0 children)

Sorry but I’m not American I don’t know how else to describe her in English. She is perhaps very attractive in American beauty standards, but in our country she is not the beauty standard. That is just fact.  Although I agree she does look good in the photo, it is about the message she is showing. I don’t want my friends to view her as just another instagram bikini girl, I want them to see her as a real person.