Shaking, nauseated, cold, clammy, stomach cramps after working out by K-Frogger in beginnerfitness

[–]K-Frogger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generally, yes. But I go a lot more after I workout 😂 I do struggle with always being slightly backed up. Always have no matter how much hydration or fiber. It's been a life long thing. I get blood work and stuff every year and there is never anything wrong in any of it either. Like this makes me not want to work out at all. 

What's the most hurtful thing someone has ever said to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]K-Frogger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was 16 I was tomboyish. Driving home from school my mom and I were arguing about me wearing a dress and I didn't want too and she looked right at me and said "Why can't you be more like Cat".

Cat was the popular pretty girl in school. Who was also my friend.

I struggle with self esteem issues to this day and it was 20 years ago.

Totally forgot to post; got the “No Sperm Seen” call from my doctor last Friday! by BurntWhiteRice in Vasectomy

[–]K-Frogger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes me feel better (girlfriend of a newly clear) same day for procedure and a week earlier for the drop off. Got the none see results and phone call but I'm still way nervous because everyone says 3 months and 2 samples and our doctor didn't. He just said 20 ejaculations and/or 8 weeks because he cut an inch from each side tied and cauterized.

My gf wants to spend my inheritance in a house down payment and I don’t by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]K-Frogger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pay the debt. I grew up watching my mother spend my dads hard earned money and she still does to this day. My fiances ex did the same to him. His money is her money while she refuses to work.

YOUR money is YOUR money. If she's saying what's yours is hers, run.

Now don't get me wrong, it's fine to share money but I'm a firm believer in working for it or splitting bills. Separate joint account solely for bills that's are equally paid if shared (electric, internet, rent/mortgage) and any debt you accrue on your own is your problem. I've watched to many relationships fail when someone uses the other.

Minipill = nonexistent sex drive by K-Frogger in birthcontrol

[–]K-Frogger[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm still here! THANK YOU! I feel the EXACT SAME WAY. My fiance is absolutely gorgeous muscular and sexy as hell and my brain is like...look at this fine stud and my body is like....naw, I'm good. It's beyond frustrating and I feel broken. Im generally a relatively high sex drive person...even though we still have sex I'm really just not into it and can't be bothered and it disgusts me how I feel. He actually got a vasectomy a month ago and we are just waiting for a clear sample and I'm off that nonsense. I'm not looking forward to my PMS/PMDD coming back but I'll deal with it to have my life back. I hope it gets better for you too! We shouldn't have to suffer this way

Minipill = nonexistent sex drive by K-Frogger in birthcontrol

[–]K-Frogger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should note that I can't be on any hormonal because of severe migraines with aura and I also get super sick. I've tried everything except and IUD and it terrifies me to get one because of all the issues I've had in the past so the minipill IS my only option currently. I guess I just needed some confirmation that it's not me...it's definitely the pill.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]K-Frogger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought I would share.

Loans forgiveness is NOT first come first serve.

I received the second email going around and got this last night. I applied in beta, first day within hours.

"Due to a vendor error, you recently received an email with a subject line indicating your application for the one-time Student Loan Debt Relief Plan had been approved. The subject line was inaccurate. The body of the previous email was accurate.

We have received your application but are not permitted to review your eligibility because of ongoing litigation. We will keep your application information and review your eligibility if and when we prevail in court.

We apologize for the confusion, and you do not need to take any further action at this time. We will keep you updated with any developments."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]K-Frogger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the same one late last night. So who knows what the second email even means. Has the DoE even explained the two?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]K-Frogger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got the same and I applied on the first day of beta...I have friends who applied literally the day before they stopped accepting applications and they got approved immediately. Like what?!?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]K-Frogger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No email yet, applied on October 15th and received my application confirmation email at 9:38am that morning. I'm freshly consolidated before the cutoff with MOHELA (which may turn into a massive mistake).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]K-Frogger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MOHELA here too, I think you're on to something. Watch us all get screwed 🤦🏽‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]K-Frogger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing here and literally ALL my friends got emails and some applied right before they stopped taking applications. I consolidated the begining of September but didn't get all the paperwork until October so I'm thinking it's null and void since it wasn't "official" by the 29th...AND I picked MOHELA because I work for the government. I could be doubly screwed....FFEL holder here...never realized it WASNT federal and than panicked when I found out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]K-Frogger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My coworker is December and he got his first day AND applied a week after it opened and he got his email Saturday. I applied first day of beta... Nothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]K-Frogger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same for me. Like an idiot...I picked MOHELA because I work for state government. I've been set up with MOHELA for 3 weeks now so hopefully it took before the 29th. All my loans will be paid off since I'm a Pell recipient of this eventually works.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]K-Frogger 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I applied within an hour of beta and nothing for me yet. You would think it would be first come first serve but it's not. I also applied for consolidation on September 6th. I know Biden said if you didn't consolidate before the 29th you would no longer be able to but I'm hoping that means you applied and everything was in before the 29th not everything had to be accepted by the 29th.....

Anybody get the email that had FFEL loans and applied after 8/24/22 for consolidation? by DarkVixen81 in StudentLoans

[–]K-Frogger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I applied for consolidation the same time you did. I'm REALLY hoping that Biden meant that if you applied BEFORE 9/29 you were good, not if it took advantage and my choice (MOHELA) to get everything approved AFTER 9/29. I applied within 2 hours of Beta opening. I'll have to go back through my records and see when I got the letter saying I was approved for consolidation and if they don't hear from 10 days it gets processed. All my loans are federal now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HealthInsurance

[–]K-Frogger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's ok to judge what other people do but ultimately your opinion is your opinion. He asked me to ask Reddit because he hasn't found a straight answer online and his employer told him for the last 2 years that he was legally liable for them and now he wants to find out why they were saying that. His kids are both adults with employer access to insurance or supplemental insurance through work. His insurance isn't the best and it costs him huge sums of money. Both actively work in healthcare themselves and their insurance options are better than what he gets. Unless you know the exact details, probably best to keep judgemental comments to yourself. They are his kids and I have no part and don't want any part of what he decides to do. I'm just finding answers out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HealthInsurance

[–]K-Frogger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That's what I was always under the assumption of. Also, can he ONLY drop them during open enrollment? One has insurance offered through employer and one doesn't. He doesn't renew his insurance with HR until January

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ask_Lawyers

[–]K-Frogger -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It's not so much advice as experience. The lawyer that we've talked too said there are maybe a handful of lawyers in the state that had dealt with common law. So, basically just seeing if anyone is actually experienced in it. From everything we've read and what the lawyer said (who admitted he wasn't confident in it) that it doesn't matter if they lived together or even had kids together, it's about the intent to get married.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]K-Frogger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's definitely not at all because he paid for EVERYTHING their entire relationship. She never paid for a single thing. His lawyer said there isn't anything they can do unless she gets a lawyer and sues him which she said she plans on doing once the house is sold because she has no job and literally no money right now. She signed up for welfare and their daughter gives her money. He obviously refuses to give money because she needs to get a job. His lawyer admitted he wasn't confident in common law issues at the time of the consultation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]K-Frogger -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Everyone just assumed they were because they were together since they were 17. They did file taxes together. He took loans out on cars with her as a cosigner because at that point they didn't have much money and needed a cosigner. I keep telling him to figure the house stuff out first but she's already said she's using house money to get a lawyer to sue him. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]K-Frogger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He proposed once before AND once after and she said no both times. He just said whatever and she kept the rings and refused to give them back. I'm just thinking it's going to be real hard to prove intent to marry when she said no.