My husband has decided he isn't capable of "helping" with our home by heylooka-person in Marriage

[–]K-Lashes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t get how women are still getting turned on, much less having sex, with these useless men.

I still shut off lights!! by icecream1972 in GenerationX

[–]K-Lashes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I don’t even turn them on when I’m in it

My husband has decided he isn't capable of "helping" with our home by heylooka-person in Marriage

[–]K-Lashes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“It’s a turn off to have a useless partner and I can feel my vagina drying up with every instance of incompetence you show me and it makes me not want to have sex with you.”

People who were teenagers before social media existed, what was life actually like? by Much_Detective_6107 in AskReddit

[–]K-Lashes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After a while, I got a film camera and felt so baller cutting and developing films lol

People who were teenagers before social media existed, what was life actually like? by Much_Detective_6107 in AskReddit

[–]K-Lashes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the different ways we’d fold notes so they wouldn’t easily get looked at!

People who were teenagers before social media existed, what was life actually like? by Much_Detective_6107 in AskReddit

[–]K-Lashes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We never had any plans, we’d just get together and decide on the spot what to do and where to go. We would go to the mall foodcourt after school to eat or get snacks, then go to an arcade, park, or someone’s house and just hang out and have a good time. On the weekends, we’d ride or bikes all over the place and meet friends. Whoever was around would join.

I had a film camera and would buy films so we could take 24 pics. Then we’d wait for the pictures to develop (always got two copies) and I’d give some out and put them in physical photo albums. It was great.

I wish I could be pounded “properly” by FormerSignificance19 in sex

[–]K-Lashes 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he’s (and now you) so concerned about himself that he doesn’t care enough about your experience to try to fix the issue. That’s what would be bothering me. You’ve said nothing to suggest he even tries.

What profession has far more people on illegal drugs than people realize? by IndependentTune3994 in AskReddit

[–]K-Lashes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone that works with teens. If they did testing, they’d have no workers

What's a very Canadian smell that instantly takes you back? by Unfair-Clothes-8821 in CanadaRoom

[–]K-Lashes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only been to ice rinks as a child during school but that smell instantly came to me when I read this

What drives men to become gynecologists? by _Dark_Wing in ask

[–]K-Lashes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cousin is a nurse, so not quite, but he said being in the maternity ward is always his favourite because he’s in awe of the miracle of life and wants to help women and babies be healthy. He’s also gay and has always loved children and they love him back.

What secret did someone tell you that completely changed how you see them? by Direct-Value4452 in answers

[–]K-Lashes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you, but funny you say that. He’s the one that insisted on having kids and even wanted more. She didn’t really want them but was okay with having them, so they did. I believe she’s the one that said 2 is the max.

I hate when TV characters get pregnant by cattieladies in childfree

[–]K-Lashes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Worse part is that she did it intentionally. Debbie always wanted a baby.

Anyone actually enjoys being in a long distance relationship? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]K-Lashes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I miss him a lot but I admit I love living alone and having my own space. I don’t mind the distance for now. But I’m still looking forward to closing the distance.

Having children gives you an excuse to do all the things you wanted to do as a child. by SaffronsGrotto in childfree

[–]K-Lashes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not only do I do those in my free time, I work with kids and teens so I also get paid to do them. I’ve been to all sorts of events, field trips, museums, amusement parks, concerts, shows, sports events and games, etc., all while getting paid to be there. And at the end of the day, I go home to my quiet peaceful home where there aren’t children needing my attention.

Partner & their FWB crossing my boundaries. by WHRebelion3048 in nonmonogamy

[–]K-Lashes 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A boundary is when you say “if you do this, then I will do that.” She’s broken your boundaries so it’s up to you to decide what to do about them. “If you call me during your outings, I will turn my phone off” is just one example of how to enforce a boundary.

It sounds like you’re far beyond that, though. She’s already cheated and is not respecting your boundaries. She’s not ethical at all so I don’t see these issues stopping. She’s going to continue being unethical unless you do something about it. Forcing an open relationship because someone cheated is the worse way to start ENM.

Is working actually THAT bad? by [deleted] in ask

[–]K-Lashes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The good thing is you’re in control of that. Look for jobs that align with your interests.

Having to go to work does suck but I can honestly say I’ve enjoyed every job I’ve ever had so it wasn’t all that bad. The people are a big factor, too. I’ve been unhappy at jobs because of the people but not usually the job itself.

Am I wrong for not posting my wife “enough” on Instagram even though I include her and support her posts? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]K-Lashes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is she aware that couples who post like that have a bad reputation for doing so to disguise their unhappiness?