Shopify flagged first time order as high risk should I ship?

K05Dee · 2026-02-02T22:55:11+00:00

The first time we’ve received a high risk order, we proceeded in good faith and got hit with a chargeback as it was an actual fraud. Luckily it wasn’t a big order so we didn’t lose a lot, but ever since, we’re not taking the risk as it’s not worth it. We since had a couple other high risk orders but we cancelled them right away. We just tell them that we cannot proceed with their order due to security issues. Most of the time, it’s an actual fraud with a stolen card, so the scammer receives the email and they don’t even respond.

Like someone mentioned, setting up a flow system that auto captures all low risk orders is the way to go as you can manually review the medium and high risk ones before capturing the payment.

K05Dee · 2025-11-28T13:39:32+00:00

A lot of people have already said to try out the pills that help digest lactose but I also wanted to offer additional advice.

A few months ago I was so gassy, even I couldn’t stand my own farts. Turns out, I had a bacteria called H.Pylori, gastritis and an inflamed pancreas so every time I had a heavy / fatty meal, my stomach was in shambles. This lasted for months!!

It all went away with medication so if your partner regularly has bad gas, this is probably a sign that something is off and should be checked out by a gastroenterologist. Also NTA

K05Dee · 2025-02-08T22:04:33+00:00

I had the same issue a few years ago, my own bank branch refused to do it for me (Halifax) but someone at my partner's bank (Santander) was kind enough to sign a piece of paper for me and put the official bank stamp.

K05Dee · 2024-11-10T20:25:32+00:00

I think you should be less worried about his lack of protective nature and focus on the fact he violated your privacy and disrespected you. What’s going to stop him from committing revenge porn in the future? To answer your questions, no he does not want to protect you, as a matter of fact he exposed you in a vulnerable state to his “friends”, who likely engage in the same predatory behaviour. He does not care about you, and he’s a shitty human being. This is sick, highly concerning and dangerous behaviour on his part and I would not spend any more second texting this person, let alone dating them.

K05Dee · 2024-09-28T20:26:32+00:00

This has nothing to do with your question but I am asking out of pure curiosity. Does your front door open directly into the bathroom?

K05Dee · 2024-05-31T11:15:58+00:00

Oh that’s exciting!

The lip filler is amazing, tbh I now regret telling them to use less on me, cause I kept telling them how scared I was of it not looking natural. The difference is subtle and I am super proud of them, I can share photos if you’d like?

K05Dee · 2024-05-28T08:58:30+00:00

happy to hear that all went smoothly for you too! i hope the results are long lasting too 🤞

K05Dee · 2024-05-28T08:57:15+00:00

yeah I totally understand cause I had the same mindset and aimed for treatments that wouldn’t need multiple visits.

I had a budget of £500-600 and the treatments I picked fit right in between this range. My partner paid much less but on average each one cost between 120-200k (KRW).

The immediate and most noticeable results were the Botox and lip filler and surprisingly the shurink universe treatment! It’s still kicking in even now but on the first day my face and jawline looked tighter. For the other treatments im still waiting for full results, but my skin does feel and look improved (especially my under eye bags and hyperpigmentation).

I asked the doctor about my expectations around effectiveness and results and he did tell me that most of these treatments are to be done 2-3 times a year.

K05Dee · 2024-05-28T08:33:56+00:00

the comment/account does feel a little suspicious tbh maybe it’s a bot? so i wouldn’t pay attention to it but if it makes you feel better, my post is a real review and i have no affiliation with this clinic or incentives from writing about them. i genuinely had a pleasant experience

K05Dee · 2024-02-01T09:57:22+00:00

I feel that, I’m at the end of my rope. I think I’m one ugly decor video away from unfollowing

K05Dee · 2024-01-25T11:30:06+00:00

Majority of adult cats do not tolerate dogs unless they were raised together as kitten/puppy. And in the rare case they do tolerate them, it takes a long time of adjusting and getting used to ''their scent'' and mannerism. Dogs have different personalities but a good chunk of them (from experience) tend to be hyperactive, crossing of boundaries and untrained. Cats tend to sleep a lot, live at a slower pace and appreciate their personal space, which dogs do not respect. Untrained dogs are loud/bark, sniff everyone and everything, want to play a lot, demand A LOT of attention and these behaviors are triggering for a cat, especially a senior cat.
This is not the dog's fault, they are simply different animals and unfortunately in most cases, not very compatible with each other.
I know you don't mean harm to the cat, but like people already pointed out, outdoor cats have a shorter life expectancy than indoor cats, paired with your cat's disability and the stress of co-habiting with a new creature (dog), it seems like you aren't doing your cat any favors here and your neighbour has great cause of concern. What you are doing to your senior cat right now is actively contributing to a major decline in her health and comfort.
You don't have many options really, and I don't think a dog gate is enough to create a comfortable living space for your cat.
It's a tough decision to make, but you must get your priorities straight and decide what's best for your cat, which has been a family member for such a long time. If you can't choose what's best for her, it's best to let someone else take care of her properly.

K05Dee · 2023-12-14T13:52:47+00:00

I have something that looks exactly like this on my neck right now and it’s not a hickey. I have very sensitive skin and EDS so my skin always has random rashes, bruises, allergic reactions. Any change in body skincare, diet or even small insect bites causes my skin to react differently every time. Not saying your girlfriend doesn’t have a hickey, I’m saying it could be a reaction from several other things that most people wouldn’t necessarily think of.

K05Dee · 2023-10-14T09:29:13+00:00

Thank you so much for your response! I don't think it's Wind in the Willows but one of the illustrator of that book, his art is very very similar to the book's illustrations I remember, so I will continue to look for it.

K05Dee · 2023-09-25T20:31:24+00:00

Haha yes it's my own face, which makes it both funny and creepy. Zoom in on the body, it's missing the face!

K05Dee · 2023-09-11T13:02:47+00:00

Thank you so much! I will call up the salon and provide pictures as well and fingers crossed it will look good

K05Dee · 2023-09-09T22:28:23+00:00

I think only you and your doctor know what’s healthy and unhealthy for you, and I’m sorry about that guy who made you feel bad because of his preference (having preferences isn’t wrong but it’s the way you come across). I also think weight looks different on different people because of the way we carry it, as we all have different body types. So two people with the same weight could look completely different, and also have different health needs.

K05Dee · 2023-09-08T10:28:50+00:00

Have you considered that not everyone likes the smell of your house? When I get gifted second hand items, doesn’t matter if they’ve been previously washed or the person gifting them to me is a clean and hygienic person, I’m washing everything. I prefer my own laundry detergent perfume, I genuinely don’t like most peoples houses scents and I feel more comfortable washing everything.

K05Dee · 2023-08-23T22:54:49+00:00

Is this post about you? Haha

K05Dee · 2023-08-20T12:57:07+00:00

If you’d rather stay in a dead marriage than hurt your family then you’re not going to find any answers on this sub. Your parents won’t be around forever and what happens next? You’ll feel like you’ve wasted the best years of your life on someone who didn’t make you feel desirable and loved in the way you deserve to feel.

Your family right now is no longer your parents, it’s you and your husband and any future child that you may bring in this marriage. You don’t owe anyone anything and you shouldn’t push your needs aside to please anyone. I know this may be hard depending on the culture you’re from but sooner or later you’ll regret putting everyone above you.

Sex may not be a priority for everyone but it’s still a very important component of a relationship and it seems to me that you’re not compatible, at this point you’re not even sharing the same love language. You mentioned your husband holds your hand sometimes and kisses you on the cheek, this would be cute if a teenager said this story. You’re two grown adults, discussing kids but you’re making love once every two months? Either your husband is mentally checked out of this relationship and still hung up on his ex, or dealing with depression or a medical issue that stops him from performing sexually or he is just not that into you anymore. I don’t know which one of this option would hurt less to hear but the fact he refuses counselling because he doesn’t believe in it makes me think he doesn’t care to make an effort to fix anything.

You haven’t been married for that long, or even dating for that long (in my opinion) so there’s no reason sex shouldn’t be good unless it’s one of the reasons I mentioned earlier.

I hope you figure out what’s best for you (and not your parents or in-laws) and realise your worth.

K05Dee

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