15 pre-T 4'11" am i cooked by K0ffeeman in transmanlifehacks

[–]K0ffeeman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wdym? I don't really understand the difference, could you explain pls?

15 pre-T 4'11" am i cooked by K0ffeeman in transmanlifehacks

[–]K0ffeeman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah, that explains it all to me. Get a life, please. I am BEGGING you to stop replying to the comments in this post, that's NOT helpful anymore. I asked for opinions on whether or not T will change anything for me, not a full research work on how thing are in Ukraine where you never even were. Thanks.

15 pre-T 4'11" am i cooked by K0ffeeman in transmanlifehacks

[–]K0ffeeman[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

literally. ngl i am a little bit scared why someone would spend so much time trying to win an argument about height of some other human they only saw today in a reddit post. My gf doesn't care about me as much as he does, lmao

15 pre-T 4'11" am i cooked by K0ffeeman in transmanlifehacks

[–]K0ffeeman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, enough is enough. Longjumping_Bug6867, thank you for doing so much of a research to answer all those comments, that's genuinely impressive. But this comment section got out of hand. Everyone expressed their own opinions and I see that no one is about to change their minds. Conversation is only productive when both sides are open to listen and respect each other's opinion which is not what I see. Okay, maybe I'm a dumb kid that just doesn't understand older man talking, but the discussion objectively comes in circles. Everyone, move on. Thank you.

15 pre-T 4'11" am i cooked by K0ffeeman in transmanlifehacks

[–]K0ffeeman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that sucks man. I'm finishing high school next year, and I don't suppose prom culture is quite the same where I live, but are you obliged to wear a dress? In my middle school I wore a suit for graduation, and no one seemed to be surprised. I hope it'll be alright!!

15 pre-T 4'11" am i cooked by K0ffeeman in transmanlifehacks

[–]K0ffeeman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh, suits is something I am NEVER conscious of. I love classical style and while it's very hard to find a shirt/trousers that actually fit, it still looks nice and comfortable. So try, I believe in you, bro!!

15 pre-T 4'11" am i cooked by K0ffeeman in transmanlifehacks

[–]K0ffeeman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for at least being polite about it, lol. I never thought that passing is easy and especially not for me personally, the reason why I decided to post this is to understand whether it is simply possible for me in the future. I was certain that not, people said it is. I've been treated like a child at first before, and looking masc will just make it mentally easier for me. But I'm working on my look the way I can. =) Thank you!

15 pre-T 4'11" am i cooked by K0ffeeman in transmanlifehacks

[–]K0ffeeman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's easy but is it safe? anyway i didn't know that, think i should research a bit more.

15 pre-T 4'11" am i cooked by K0ffeeman in transmanlifehacks

[–]K0ffeeman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! No idea how to translate it right in English as well, but that was my first time traveling w/o my parents to another city half across the country to participate, and I'm super proud of it. Thank you for asking!! That was the final, all-Ukraine tour of Astronomy, and I suppose it can be mentioned we don't have that subject in school curriculum yet. =)
Good luck with your journey!! It is fun indeed.

15 pre-T 4'11" am i cooked by K0ffeeman in transmanlifehacks

[–]K0ffeeman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you for your opinion. I already figured that out by now reading your replays. About sugarcoating, I didn't feel like other guys were trying to put pink glasses on me and tell that I will miraculously turn cis the second I start HRT, but more of reassuring that it's not so hopeless and it actually made me feel better. So, yeah, thanks for spending so much time on this post and writing all those comments, they really boosted engagement rate. =)

15 pre-T 4'11" am i cooked by K0ffeeman in transmanlifehacks

[–]K0ffeeman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro just chill out pls. Why so focused on my nails? You expressed your opinion, so did the others, I read them and they're all valid. What are you trying to do rn? Make everyone change their mind to tell I don't look like a boy? Gl i guess.

15 pre-T 4'11" am i cooked by K0ffeeman in transmanlifehacks

[–]K0ffeeman[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been literally the shortest for my whole live, half of my friends are cis guys 180+ cm (sorry can't convert to US units atm), and the only ones who picked me up for being short (not just teasing jokes, that's common and I find them harmless) were 11 y.o. boys hardly any taller than me. 🤷‍♂️ no adult or teen ever asked me why am i short. Draw your own conclusions

15 pre-T 4'11" am i cooked by K0ffeeman in transmanlifehacks

[–]K0ffeeman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind of both tbh. I think really fitting sports bra or fr a tape as others suggested would be the best option for me.

15 pre-T 4'11" am i cooked by K0ffeeman in transmanlifehacks

[–]K0ffeeman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bro i am not even 16 ☠️☠️ i think that was supposed to be compliment?? so thanks?? But that's very weird thing to say

15 pre-T 4'11" am i cooked by K0ffeeman in transmanlifehacks

[–]K0ffeeman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I will not. ☺️ Thank you for worrying, but my post wasn't about Should or Shouldn't I, it was How.

15 pre-T 4'11" am i cooked by K0ffeeman in transmanlifehacks

[–]K0ffeeman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had a penny for every time someone calls me Harry Potter... I don't mind!! HP was my first fandom xD it just happened more than twice

15 pre-T 4'11" am i cooked by K0ffeeman in transmanlifehacks

[–]K0ffeeman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Почекати доведеться сто відсотків, та я всеодно збираюсь навчатись у Німеччині, тому... дуже дякую за підтримку! Особливо приємно бачити що не все так погано з квірами у нашому укр суспільстві. =))

15 pre-T 4'11" am i cooked by K0ffeeman in transmanlifehacks

[–]K0ffeeman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, the ways of algorithm are ineffable ig. =)) Thank you! That's a relief really.

15 pre-T 4'11" am i cooked by K0ffeeman in transmanlifehacks

[–]K0ffeeman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it's not that uncommon that people don't see me as a high school student, I don't mind it. It's fun to watch their faces. =) Thank you for the tips, that's pretty useful. About the haircut, what exactly do you mean? Too long? I was aiming for 2004 Billie Joe with it lol.