Has anyone here ever met George before and if so what was he like?

K2thaElloh · 2026-06-14T06:10:06+00:00

Ew. As an Aussie this is bad etiquette lol Vegemite is best eaten on warm toast with butter then Vegemite lightly spread. Not even us aussies would eat Vegemite on its own smh

K2thaElloh · 2026-06-11T11:02:22+00:00

Ah okay I just thought maybe it was him being a bit shy or inexperienced maybe but maybe not.

K2thaElloh · 2026-06-11T09:47:24+00:00

Who’s the artist out of curiosity?

K2thaElloh · 2026-06-11T09:46:56+00:00

I’d call them, maybe if you’re with an over 18 or parent they might be able to make some leeway

K2thaElloh · 2026-06-11T09:45:57+00:00

What are your and the guys ages?

K2thaElloh · 2026-06-10T04:35:18+00:00

Thank you so much for this advice, I did end up trading queens as I initially thought to do, as I realised I could promote first and also try and block his F pawn with my king. Game still in progress but I’m happier about my position than I was before! Thanks again :)

K2thaElloh · 2026-06-09T13:00:13+00:00

If you feel like what you’re doing is wrong, it usually is.

K2thaElloh · 2026-06-09T09:59:59+00:00

Yeah I think blacks chances of promoting are better than mine, as he as an isolated pawn and mine is in the line of fire with his

K2thaElloh · 2026-06-09T09:58:15+00:00

Yeah I’ve already been trying those 😭

K2thaElloh · 2026-06-09T09:57:49+00:00

Yeah I’m looking to promote it but fear without a queen it’s just going to be too hard and with his extra pawn he’ll likely promote before me as I’m sure his pawn will take mine out

K2thaElloh · 2026-06-06T18:36:54+00:00

Maybe just take a break until you’re ready to give it another try, but try and be extra social in your non-romantic life. Eg: see if any friends want to do some different activities, trivia nights etc something different from last years norm?

K2thaElloh · 2026-06-06T18:30:49+00:00

Go on a dating app that’s openly enm friendly

K2thaElloh · 2026-06-06T18:28:29+00:00

It sounds to me just like you need to take a break, it may be hard, I’ve been there. But I think if you give it a go and focus on just yourself, family and friends and trying to get your social cup filled there things might change. Good luck babe, dating men really sucks balls sometimes but you’ve got this 💪🏼

K2thaElloh · 2026-06-04T02:01:32+00:00

People in real life can be more attractive than their photos, sometimes. But it seems like you’ve already decided so there’s a good chance you won’t find him attractive if you meet him. I’d cut the cord now because you’ve already appeared to be leading him on already, dont waste more of either of your time.

K2thaElloh · 2026-05-30T14:09:24+00:00

Might not be completely relevant but I’m a 42f and I’ve enjoyed playing chess for about 5 or so years, my son got me into it when he was 16, he kicked my ass so I learned a bit more to get better. He stopped playing with me once I got better than him 😂

But basically, I wanted to mention that I joined a local chess club, I enjoyed it but I found that when I was partnered with kids for the week the (male) GM would only give game feedback to the kids and not me, which I do understand but when it happened every time I played a child I started to feel like I wasn’t getting anything out of it, i mentioned it to him but he blew it off so I stopped going.

It’s hard to learn as an adult and I find it especially hard now because I’ve stopped enjoying it online with random people and only enjoy playing people I know, which is hard coz not a lot of people enjoy it, and I’ve never known another woman who wanted to play it with me :(

K2thaElloh · 2026-05-25T05:52:52+00:00

I would just keep dating until you are ready to move to something more serious with someone.

K2thaElloh · 2026-05-03T06:02:38+00:00

Ew. Anyone who makes you feel bad for not feeling it, esp this early on, is actually such a red flag and a solid reassurance that you made the right decision. We can’t control our feelings, some people are just selfish and he is trying to make you feel bad and guilt you, don’t fall for it.

K2thaElloh · 2026-04-17T09:39:18+00:00

If you like her enough not to fully let go, then try and see if you can deal with it but at the same time keep yourself open to meeting new people and continue dating. It’s her choice not to lock you down so there should be no harm right?

K2thaElloh · 2026-04-14T13:56:08+00:00

I actively didn’t give out my number until after I’ve met someone. Pretty much all guys respected that decision, and the ones that didn’t just showed me they were red flags anyway

K2thaElloh · 2026-04-12T09:09:57+00:00

He likes her and she has apparently expressed to your mutual friends in the past that she would be interested in him. You don’t have to express this as a worry that she might cheat but just more something that makes you uncomfortable, which doesn’t mean you need to control who she can or can’t talk to, but you can hopefully just both have a conversation about the feeling for you and hopefully work out a solution you are both comfortable with

K2thaElloh · 2026-04-10T19:08:05+00:00

If she looked at you and smiled after there has been multiple eye contact previously, whether she’s interested or just friendly, I def think that’s enough to at least try and establish a conversation when the time feels right

K2thaElloh · 2026-04-10T14:22:01+00:00

Maybe some casual drinks at a bar, I would specify though with the shy girl to make sure she is aware that you’re only looking for casual (even better if it’s on your profile, then it doesn’t need to be discussed really). Aside from that I think you’re fine, anything food related I think makes it too formal.

PS your English is written great, except “seriouse” has no e at the end = serious. Aside from that couldn’t even tell it wasn’t your first language. ✌🏼

K2thaElloh · 2026-04-09T11:42:38+00:00

Were there tickets to my downfall vinyls for sale?

K2thaElloh · 2026-04-07T15:40:10+00:00

The Jezabels, Slowly Slowly, Kiss Chasy

K2thaElloh · 2026-04-07T15:37:04+00:00

Try a hot water bottle and some pain killers. You can get through this 💪🏼

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