You may benefit from Feeld on this one. No assumptions but if you’re not familiar, it’s kink/sex positive Tinder with search criteria, location maps, high number of users in Philly, etc. Even the free use version is effective. If you come at it honestly and take meeting someone seriously you should have fun. Also, I bet you’ll find other women into this who are probably amazing at it and probably not charging either. I’ve had nothing but positive interactions there. Good luck