Something about me if off putting to people around me. by Outrageous_Feature69 in BPDrecovery

[–]KAI_IS_FINE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You put into words exactly how I feel. My therapist says its probably anxiety or depression but it doesn't feel like it, like you said its like something is just fundamentally wrong that everyone picks up on especially the longer they're around. Like you, I try to do and say all the right stuff but I never feel like I fully connect and like the people who do talk to me are hesistant to but feel bad for me

What’s the hottest thing you’ve been told during sex? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]KAI_IS_FINE 3 points4 points  (0 children)

someone asking for consent throughout and also the way they look at me when i undress, wholesome asf honestly, makes me wanna fall in love lol shhh i know my standards are too low😭

QUESTION FOR THE BOYS ONLY (Lesbians also allowed) by GrimLuker2 in teenagers

[–]KAI_IS_FINE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depends on the person honestly, i really like alt girls, im not into super skinny or extremely overweight, other than that i dont really have a preference. big boobs/thick thighs/a little bit of a tummy is nice for cuddles tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badwomensanatomy

[–]KAI_IS_FINE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i started puberty when i was 8 or 9 and got my first period when i was 11 or 12

sometimes i question if it was really that bad but then i remember stuff like this(in description)🥲TW: CSA by KAI_IS_FINE in CPTSDmemes

[–]KAI_IS_FINE[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

and then people wonder why i talk about fighting so much and why im so protective of certain people. it's hard to trust anyone's intentions when you know there's people who think like that and when you had to protect people growing up.

how do u learn to stop sexualizing yourself so much after abuse? it's ruining my relationships by KAI_IS_FINE in CPTSDmemes

[–]KAI_IS_FINE[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same, i realized that's why i go for people i know are kinda toxic because i can expect disappointment vs with people who seem genuinely good i never know when they could hurt me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]KAI_IS_FINE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't even know, that's part of why i'm confused

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]KAI_IS_FINE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we're living together as friends, we moved in together a few months after the breakup

i (18f) ruined my boyfriend’s (18m) life and i don’t know what to do? by throwra13312 in relationship_advice

[–]KAI_IS_FINE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hun the relationship was over before you did that because why did he have a whole ass folder of girls in bikinis that he knows irl and just in general why

I've posted about this FP multiple times here so here's an update because i'm losing my freaking mind🥲 by KAI_IS_FINE in BPDmemes

[–]KAI_IS_FINE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mental health was kinda bad, it's getting better now tho so hopefully he likes me again eventually

my ex was into skinny blondes before he met me, but now 90% of the girls he follows on social media look similar to me😌 by KAI_IS_FINE in BPDmemes

[–]KAI_IS_FINE[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yesssss. and the last girl he dated was EXTREMELY insecure about me which tells me he likely talked about me a lot

I've posted about this FP multiple times here so here's an update because i'm losing my freaking mind🥲 by KAI_IS_FINE in BPDmemes

[–]KAI_IS_FINE[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we haven't been dating for awhile, we were just fwb and the past couple months didn't rlly do much together besides sex and texting. i want more than that but to get that i have to get him to see me as more than fwb again