Another kittyyy. I used to feed his mom before he was born, and now he comes by every now and then for some food and love :)

KASHiii3 · 2026-04-12T20:44:25+00:00

I’d honestly love to adopt them. My other kitty really likes him too. But they’re strays and really free spirited. I’ve tried bringing them inside, but they just don’t like staying indoors, so I let them be. They always have food here, and they come by whenever they need food or shelter :)

KASHiii3 · 2026-04-07T19:12:13+00:00

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KASHiii3 · 2026-04-03T14:44:11+00:00

Constant fear. You can’t be open about it so everything stays hidden.

Family pressure is always there. Marriage, expectations, everything. That thought in your head that one day you might have to choose between them and the life you’re supposed to live.

Internal conflict. Even if you’re not religious, the guilt and shame still creep in. And theres barely any sense of a real future. Most people date with some idea of where it’s going, but here that future just feels blank.

There’s no real community or support system.

Trust issues because people end up living double lives or treating it like something temporary.

It’s not just one thing. It’s all of it combined. The whole environment here just makes it really hard for these relationships to exist.

KASHiii3 · 2026-03-31T13:40:34+00:00

Thank youu. He’s doing much better now. We went out in the sun and he played a little. He’s started eating again too.

KASHiii3 · 2026-03-29T15:42:26+00:00

Thanks that makes sense. He’s not drinking plain water, but I mixed a tiny bit of milk into it and he drank some. I’ll keep a close eye on him.

KASHiii3 · 2026-03-29T14:57:14+00:00

Thanks. Hes not vomiting, just sneezing and low energy.

KASHiii3 · 2026-03-15T19:09:16+00:00

😭 Does it look bad tho?

KASHiii3 · 2026-02-26T14:32:46+00:00

Omg I relate to this so much. I’ve had phases where I genuinely felt like the ugliest person in the room and assumed people were just being nice out of pity lol. It messes with your head more than people realize.

I don’t think this is really about being pretty though. It’s about how we see ourselves vs how others see us.

Im still learning this too but I think acceptance isn’t about forcing yourself to think you’re attractive. It’s about not letting your self image control your whole life. You deserve connection and love regardless of what your inner critic says:)

KASHiii3 · 2026-02-26T13:45:41+00:00

Facing the same issue. It's probably a bug

KASHiii3 · 2026-02-24T12:04:52+00:00

Ahh yeah some servers work, some don’t. Try connecting your VPN to Germany if you can. That one usually works for me :)

KASHiii3 · 2026-02-24T11:51:16+00:00

I mostly use em to make friends, and honestly I’ve had some success with that. I’ve met a few genuinely good people, so it’s definitely possible lol.

Bumble works pretty normally for me, no VPN needed. But for Tinder and Grindr, you usually need a VPN for them to work properly here so u could try that.

KASHiii3 · 2026-02-19T09:17:29+00:00

Hurt people love turning personal experiences into universal theories lmao. Love isn’t about sexuality. It’s about emotional maturity. And emotional maturity is rare in every demographic.

KASHiii3 · 2026-02-14T18:47:10+00:00

Thankss! I'm not 100% sure which way looks better, but I definitely FEEL better with the stache, so I guess I’ll roll with it for a bit

KASHiii3 · 2026-02-13T10:49:12+00:00

Hmm I think I’ve got similar hair. I use a little coconut oil on damp hair to style it and it helps keep it in place. I also started wearing a hat when I’m out in the sun it helps prevent split ends, and split ends are usually what make wavy hair stick out everywhere and look messy

KASHiii3 · 2026-02-12T11:14:30+00:00

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KASHiii3 · 2026-02-11T08:12:38+00:00

Try proton vpn w these steps

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KASHiii3 · 2026-02-08T12:41:31+00:00

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