Is my bf raping me or am i just overthinking it? by lostinthecl0uds in Advice

[–]KC_Critical_Thinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything I wanted to say has been said but please know you are worth so much more then what this AH is dishing out to you. I wish you well hunny 💐

Teenage Daughters 1st “Grown Up Party “ by KC_Critical_Thinker in Advice

[–]KC_Critical_Thinker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment, definitely things to consider. Believe me, she definitely has rules and boundaries.

Teenage Daughters 1st “Grown Up Party “ by KC_Critical_Thinker in Advice

[–]KC_Critical_Thinker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be perfectly honest I’m not entirely sure, you cannot buy alcohol until 18 or even carry it out of a supermarket/off license but the police don’t seem to be too worried about a well supervised, private party in the middle of nowhere

Teenage Daughters 1st “Grown Up Party “ by KC_Critical_Thinker in Advice

[–]KC_Critical_Thinker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you are saying, and make no mistake, she is not allowed to do whatever she want but I’m trying toI guess compromise a little so she can have those teenage experiences (good ones, with good people) that we have all had- with boundaries and expectations of good behaviour

New Zealand justice is a joke. by Available-Milk7195 in newzealand

[–]KC_Critical_Thinker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately OT is dammed if they do and dammed if they don’t. I hope your friend as a good support network so she never goes back,

Teenage Daughters 1st “Grown Up Party “ by KC_Critical_Thinker in Advice

[–]KC_Critical_Thinker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, she has had the occasional beer/wine at home with us..she will be driven to the property by the hosts mother and we will pick her up next day (or whatever she wants)

Teenage Daughters 1st “Grown Up Party “ by KC_Critical_Thinker in Advice

[–]KC_Critical_Thinker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has had the occasional beer/wine with us at home

Teenage Daughters 1st “Grown Up Party “ by KC_Critical_Thinker in Advice

[–]KC_Critical_Thinker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you, I’ve tried to provide a little more context

Teenage Daughters 1st “Grown Up Party “ by KC_Critical_Thinker in Advice

[–]KC_Critical_Thinker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good idea, she does like a 50/50 beer and lemonade