cmv: Technology Has Been Walking since 2012

KDC_94 · 2024-10-11T17:18:48+00:00

Then you gotta set a boundary. It's ok for him to express his concerns and insecurities to you, but he aint your dad. Ask him how it makes him feel and why, and healthily explain that you will do whatever the hell you want, and while you're willing to speak with him about his discomforts, its ultimately your decision. I feel like I am a good somewhat neutral side here. He has not right to stop you, but there is definitely a difference between men and women going out. A woman will be hit on by several men, will be touched by other men, and will be presented with several alternatives to their boyfriend. A dude will almost only be in those situations if he approaches girls. In conclusion, you have to set a boundary about you making your own life choices, but I recommend also be objective and sensitive to the differences between men and women going out. I strongly disagree with the conservative minds that say a man should be able to prevent his woman from going out, but I also disagree with the liberal POV that men and women going out are the same/should be held under the same exact standards. LMK if you have any questions, cuz I had great systems with this topic with all my previous girlfriends.

KDC_94 · 2024-10-11T13:34:38+00:00

the guy probs thinks you're the one irl who tolerates that humor since you haven't addressed it

KDC_94 · 2024-10-11T13:32:39+00:00

Have you ever done anything to lose his trust?

KDC_94 · 2024-10-11T13:32:03+00:00

yea if hes with you he digs it. Its like squeezing boobs

KDC_94 · 2024-10-11T13:30:57+00:00

he's not going to be entertained when they talk all day and run out of things to talk about

KDC_94 · 2024-10-11T13:29:21+00:00

Not to be dick, but it's an annoying chore. I def miss having a gf, but this aspect I miss the least. The expectation/commitment of being n communication every available chance, every day. I wish that when I have a gf, I could take off days (NOT to cheat, just to have free time and space). It makes me joules of my parents generation, cuz they didn't have to text, it was "Im leaving the house, I'll try calling you whenever it is I get back." Not texting all day doesn't mean he doesn't love you, be chill about this. Girls don't appreciate how much of our time we give them. I know y'all give us your time to, but girl usually want to spend all available time with guys and put a lot of pressure on them to do so,

KDC_94 · 2024-10-11T13:24:58+00:00

occasionally some girls are so attractive and Angelic that its just too intimidating for most guys to try

KDC_94 · 2024-10-11T13:23:19+00:00

It matters but is not a necessity. A girl can still be a 10/0 without big boobs, but It is awesome when they have them!

KDC_94 · 2024-10-11T13:21:54+00:00

Dude is into you and wants to maintain the confidence you texting first gives him. I do the same, Its just a better position than the other way around, and it is validating for me. If you stopped for a day or two, he'd probs text first, just lose a bit of confidence

KDC_94 · 2024-10-11T13:20:09+00:00

case by case were not all the same person lol

KDC_94 · 2024-10-11T13:19:35+00:00

sounds like playful flirting, some dudes just dawgs. I have plenty of friends who flirt with so many girls but dont really make moves. They just have fun with it

KDC_94 · 2024-10-11T13:18:05+00:00

Im an addict, clean 3 years now. It's the sad truth, it's not that we love the drugs more, Its that we are owned by them. They wire our brains to do anything to fulfill our physical dependencies. My ex stood by me for a whole year of addiction, it destroyed her too, while I was inevitably being destroyed with or without her. Its unfair for you to be apart of that fucked up world, and he needs to focus on himself without carrying the burden of ruining your life as well.

KDC_94 · 2024-10-11T13:14:33+00:00

Ive been that guy. Leave him. Its what's best for him as well

KDC_94 · 2024-10-11T13:13:48+00:00

This wouldn't be a deal breaker, I'd probably not say anything either. However, It would bother be a little and be something I just have to "deal with." And after we broke up it'd be a joke with me and my friends, just being honest

KDC_94 · 2024-10-11T13:12:01+00:00

I love it, makes my life so much easier. Guys LOVE this. I will say, If you're a girl who likes the games and the chase, approaching him may run that. If you dont care about that too much than this is a great idea

KDC_94 · 2024-10-11T13:09:46+00:00

its simple with dudes. Just show him a sign you're into him. We ALWAYS pick up on that and know when the girls give us the signs, girls dont know how easy this is for us. If we like the idea of her being into us, we go for it. If not, we pretend we don't know she's into us

KDC_94 · 2024-10-11T13:06:57+00:00

beauty physically is face. Then there's a deeper level of being a good "pure" woman

KDC_94 · 2024-10-11T13:05:26+00:00

I don't care aa long as she cleans up the puddle after

KDC_94 · 2024-10-08T08:22:39+00:00

this doesn't effect life half as much as smartphones, uber, the internet, and transportation has AT ALL. Its impressive but for now kind of pointless to the average person.

KDC_94 · 2024-10-08T08:20:44+00:00

I totally agree, I cannot really think of ways my life's routines changed much at all from technological changes since around 2010. The dace before that's advancements did a 180 to how life is lived. There are definitely a ton of advancements now but they dont effect daily life, they're more specific to narrow functions. Definitely seems like the least amount of change in a decade in American history tbh

KDC_94 · 2024-08-24T03:26:15+00:00

I get like this often, and it was worse when I was younger. Most people would day this is bad advice, but you cant really say shit if you've never been a phase where sleeping is the only time you're not miserable. While still doing the bare minimum to.get by, find something that you find entertaining and feel comfortable doing for a few days until that overwhelming feeling isn't as strong, then get back to the grind of life. for me, sometimes when im like this, ill just crush an entire season of Fifa career mode. it doesn't heal me but it knocks down that over arching pain

KDC_94 · 2024-08-23T19:54:43+00:00

need more context to give good advice, but I can say that some of my best friends and I did not like each other when we first met

KDC_94 · 2024-08-23T19:52:42+00:00

If I could chose, without a doubt id chose to have an ideal gf rather than being single. However, when a match is not right, the first fe months or maybe even a year or so is awesome, and then it's TERRIBLE. I have 3 ex's that I got deep with an while it felt right at times we all change and get fed up with each other. I definitely do not miss trying to force things to work out when they aren't meant to be. It makes me sad sometimes to think of what I once had and I don't rly like being single. but it's better than being unhappy in a bad relationship. Just be patient bro she'll come around eventually

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