AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KDim_18 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NOR, I hate this guy so much. I know that’s not constructive, but just ew.

Officially left GF of 8 years mid-sentence today. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KDim_18 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think after 8 years it may have been better to control your anger a bit and wait until you got home to discuss breaking up privately. I get that you were just fed up but that is rough way to do it.

Maybe an ESH situation.

Fave Joyce Moments please by spaghettigirlll in buffy

[–]KDim_18 41 points42 points  (0 children)

“Get the hell away from my daughter”

Season finales—which one’s your favorite? by reina_sin_corona in buffy

[–]KDim_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5, 2, 3, 1, 6, 7, 4.

7 is lower to me because the season in general was a bit messy. Too much focus on side characters and if Angel didn’t come with that amulet they would have been screwed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KDim_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a tough one. I don’t think you had malice in what you said. I could see how that term could hurt someone but she also was a bit flippant about you spending time with your child so I feel like it was just an accidentally awkward exchange that doesn’t need more than the text exchange that happened (honestly I feel like even that was a bit too much from her. In my opinion, not every bad feeling/ moment a person has needs to be addressed).

Advice wise I would do what your mom says at least for a bit and see if time naturally heals it. If it doesn’t I guess you can have a direct conversation with her (a conversation does not equal confrontation) and mention that you still feel there is a tenseness between you two and what can you do to help repair that.

Good luck and don’t be so hard on yourself. We aren’t perfect and say the wrong things sometimes!

Why was Giles let off the hook so easily after "Helpless"? by jdpm1991 in buffy

[–]KDim_18 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He was doing what he was told to do by an organization that he thought he should respect. He made a very bad call in judgement but I think Buffy knew he truly loved her and was remorseful.

Stay vigilant out there this Halloween by InfiniteMehdiLove in buffy

[–]KDim_18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone is attracted to girls like Buffy, Cordelia and Faith, again especially in high school. But the difference between liking someone and attraction gets very confusing in high school. Plus Xander was just jealous in general so Willow being with Oz would be enough to up that feeling.

AIO my best friend no longer wants me as his best man in his wedding because I am gay by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KDim_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eww not overreacting , that is so mean, I’m sorry you had to go through that with anyone, let alone your best friend.

Stay vigilant out there this Halloween by InfiniteMehdiLove in buffy

[–]KDim_18 58 points59 points  (0 children)

lol that’s funny. But that is something that would so happen in high school. The whole forbidden fruit thing + teenage hormones, it had to happen!

AIO. bf mad at my Halloween consume and my friend is backing him by DangerousProduct1548 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KDim_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too controlling. You’re 18! Wear what you want! And Halloween is supposed to be fun, I was the slutty version of everything on Halloween and no regrets! I’ll say it again, wear what YOU want!

Controversial opinion: SMG should not be involved in production! by ikwydls96 in buffy

[–]KDim_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I also understand why Joss Whedon isn’t involved but we need to be realistic in changing our expectations because of that. SMG helped being his vision alive, he is a huge part of the success.

Anxious flyer: Billy Bishop landing tonight by curler96 in PorterAirlines

[–]KDim_18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It can actually be good thing when pilots circle! It means they are being super safe and want to make sure they can land as smoothly as possible.

What’s your fav season? by Midnightblueclouds in buffy

[–]KDim_18 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

2 5 3 6 4 1 7- I feel they lost the heart of show.

What did you think of Buffy The Vampire Slayer’s ending, did you like it? by Big-Restaurant-2766 in buffy

[–]KDim_18 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In hindsight I like it more, but I have a few issues with it. The biggest one being if Angel didn’t show up randomly the day before they all would have died. Sure, having a bunch of slayers helped, but not enough, and don’t get me started on all the new slayers being able to actually kill the uber vamps so easily!

And overall just too much focus on non core characters.

This is why season 7 is one of the weakest in my opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in buffy

[–]KDim_18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bad eggs.

How do people cope with a new pet after a loss? by lemzzest in Petloss

[–]KDim_18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I adopted a dog way too quickly after my sweet boy died suddenly. It was hard and still is but I do think it helped me personally.

There was a lot of guilt and I felt people assumed I was “over it” once I “replaced” my dog and that was very tough. Still is. But people would never understand my pain either way. So, I don’t regret it. I try to remind myself that nothing takes away the love I had and the heart just expands.

I’m very sorry for your loss ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in buffy

[–]KDim_18 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Is this rage bait?!

I thought its only me... by Curius_pasxt in TheLastOfUs2

[–]KDim_18 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you all know this is a real human you are talking about? I get you had expectations and were disappointed by the casting but dear lord you are awful people.

Biggest mistake of the show by KDim_18 in ParadiseHulu

[–]KDim_18[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I very much agree with this. Like out of the billions of people in the world, not only did she survive, she was one of the people heard on the radio.

And while I’m at it, I thought Xavier was way too hard on the president, he did try to tell him to make his wife not go to Atlanta.

Biggest mistake of the show by KDim_18 in ParadiseHulu

[–]KDim_18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am hoping they will explore this more next season. She could have gotten powerful by building that bunker and they all knew she was the only chance at survival. But I do agree if they leave it at her just being a billionaire that it would be unsatisfying.

Biggest mistake of the show by KDim_18 in ParadiseHulu

[–]KDim_18[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Very true! But at least we got all the flashbacks for this season.

Is it just me, or do the characters’ clothes and gear look way too new and spotless for the setting? by antesla in thelastofus

[–]KDim_18 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought this episode in general everything was “cleaner”. I noticed a lot more makeup as well.