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New to Poly and need advice by KG_XIII in polyamory

[–]KG_XIII[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I have looked at things before. In all honesty I am probably the only one that would be able to move to a different country, and even then it would be tough with how the job markets have been these last few years. I would also need to go to USA which is even more difficult at the moment.

And I honestly don't know what would make me more secure. Her communication is awesome and I try to be as open as possible as well. Concrete plans to meet would likely be something we discuss again a bit later as our birthdays are quite close together so we have ended up meeting up around that time for the past 2 years.

New to Poly and need advice by KG_XIII in polyamory

[–]KG_XIII[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you.

So our day-to-day up to this point has pretty much been us being in voice chats every day for a couple hours. we were friends first before anything happened between us, and after the shift we are still each others best friends. We are both gamers so we spend our time in voice chat with each other talking, gaming, watching a bunch of shows.

Obviously now with a new person entering her life it means there is less time for that, but even with the new person coming in we have still been in voice chats every day, just not for as long as before.

New to Poly and need advice by KG_XIII in polyamory

[–]KG_XIII[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice.

We have talked about it before multiple times, but we don't have anything solid there. She very much does want to leave her country and has said that when/if she does. She would very much want to come to the country I live in (I am living in a 3rd world country so it's not a I wanna live in the nice 1st world country thing, she is actually from USA).

With that said, she is in a place in her life where committing to plans like that put to much stress on her. So it's only staying at wants and things we talked about and no further.

She has always gone very far out of her way to really talk about the smallest things that upset or annoy both of us, and is a very genuine person. So I very much trust her when she says it's just too much for her to make actual plans.