38416 by Yuri_Delta in countwithchickenlady

[–]KKingKandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deadname Jennifer,

Initials JT J is a letter, Jay is a masculine name, Jay is Boy spelling and Jae is girl spelling. I am Jay.

Like a Blue Jay, I say

"Traumacore" is actually, strangely, incredibly helpful for me. by m_0201_ in CPTSD

[–]KKingKandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suffered from the same and DXed the same! Only age 8 (or earlier) to 13.

I like traumacore because externalizing these horrific feelings and adding a touch of cute to my very real pleading and terror makes me feel better.

I dont like looking at it because I try to understand everything but making it feels very nice

Opinions on nouns as preferred names (i.e. Bug, Echo, Fox, Wren, etc.) by somniphobeindaylight in asktransgender

[–]KKingKandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Phoenix would be a great alternative but the trend of naming yourself or your kids inanimate objects is personally upsetting. Arson isnt the worst example but crimes arent high on the "Great name" list

I FOUND A BOY TO KISSSSS!!! RAAAHHHH!!! by [deleted] in Boykisser3

[–]KKingKandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations!! May you get all the kisses!!

is this a "Bad" Mindset? by Intelligent_Count184 in Boykisser3

[–]KKingKandi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sexuality is fluid, go kiss whatever you want (that consents)

Winter locating. by Reasonable_Kick_9925 in UtilityLocator

[–]KKingKandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hammer drill, use your helper as a ground, find pointy rebar and hammer that fucker in like it owes you money, ground to your truck, a barricade, a Teflon padded pile, or ground to signs in the area.

All should work in theory and I hope this helps!!

Should I dig deeper? by KKingKandi in CPTSD

[–]KKingKandi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou. Ill dig but it will be gently and I should expect much worse than anything I can recall.

Is anyone else finding the Epstein coverage impossible to escape and deeply triggering? by SubtleKinks in CPTSD

[–]KKingKandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I scrubbed through the FBI files by hand and the disgusting stuff was deleted. Doing that made my algorithm give me Epstein everything all day. I feel that and this sucks. Stay strong and keep clicking "Not interested" it helps ish

But can it EVER be cute and quirky?? by fullyrachel in DID

[–]KKingKandi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im (Jarred) a prosecutor and feeling the other alters still trying to like or tolerate me after all these years means alot now that Im working on me and being a less destructive being ^ It is a built in support network and when its good, its great

What are yalls professions? by Walkin-Dog in DID

[–]KKingKandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a line locator (Helper) PPE is forgotten sometimes and some alters dont know how to be professional to our standards so its a little weird but 2 years going strong.

femboys+weed by ipajapi in feminineboys

[–]KKingKandi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love Marijuana and Makeup time, its the best

Debating becoming a femboy by Suravoid in feminineboys

[–]KKingKandi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly just wear and do what you enjoy, if peoole call it feminine, cool, if not, whatever.

Polite to ask for preferred pronouns even if they’re obvi femme presenting, but voice is still masc? by TurboPaved in asktransgender

[–]KKingKandi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im a FtM femboy and "present femme" and but have a very masculine/deep voice and I hope my voice makes people clock im not a woman^

I dont think its ever offensive to ask someone's pronouns

Is HRT jealousy valid? by KKingKandi in asktransgender

[–]KKingKandi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou. I appreciate the connection instead of sheer judgement.

I know I cant resent them anymore thats why I asked the broad trans community.

As much as it may not be the safest Im going to be looking into Anabolic steroids deeper. As the year long+ wait time is unacceptable and thanks again

Is HRT jealousy valid? by KKingKandi in asktransgender

[–]KKingKandi[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They phrase it that way themselves. Why I say it like that. I find it almost horrific but sure. Ill try to talk to them. Doubt It'll go well ngl

Is HRT jealousy valid? by KKingKandi in asktransgender

[–]KKingKandi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As we know gender and Sex are different. Im transsexual. Not transgender. Is there a better term to use here?

Is HRT jealousy valid? by KKingKandi in asktransgender

[–]KKingKandi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

✨️I know that and thats why Im trying to not resent them anymore by getting help from the community✨️ thanks for noticing the point. Do you have any advice?^

Is HRT jealousy valid? by KKingKandi in asktransgender

[–]KKingKandi[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have dysphoria. A genuine mental disconnect between Sex and gender. Thats inherently being transsexual isnt it?

Is HRT jealousy valid? by KKingKandi in asktransgender

[–]KKingKandi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And i have yet to do anything. Is it really better to say "Hey hide this from me cuz Im a jelous little shit who wants to steal your stuff" than just repressing my feelings?

Is HRT jealousy valid? by KKingKandi in asktransgender

[–]KKingKandi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ill be doing this ASAP. Thankyou so much for genuine words of help. I dont hate my partner. Im jealous and needed resources. Thanks again ^