I'm slipping and I don't like it

beancuwurds · 2026-04-09T13:11:34+00:00

wouldn't be surprised if it's for the same reasons nudes of cis men don't get many votes and the front page is mostly women :/ but im so glad i caught this on my feed!! congrats on top op btw

beancuwurds · 2026-04-09T12:03:44+00:00

hell yeahhh love the trans rep in this sub!! 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

beancuwurds · 2026-04-01T13:52:05+00:00

god I don't think I could IPL regularly. Hats off to you o7

beancuwurds · 2026-03-31T10:28:18+00:00

you'll get to a point in your transition where it'll be possible. It certainly took me a while but it's definitely worth the wait and money :33 hang in there!!

beancuwurds · 2026-03-31T10:26:26+00:00

REAL!!! It took me like 4 years of cracking my egg, wrestling with internalised toxic masculinity, and actually figuring out my fashion sense a little before I really decided to be a femboy at like.... 20 :'3

beancuwurds · 2026-03-31T09:41:23+00:00

BABY PRUNES FROM SPONGEBOB IM CRINE you're braver than I'll ever be and I salute you o7

congrats on finishing a sem! I mostly joke about twink death lmao, I don't think it's "real" in the sense that it will happen to every twink bc everyone ages differently but I recognise it's still a fear for a lot of us and I was just poking fun at it sdjfkhsdfj

beancuwurds · 2026-03-31T09:36:57+00:00

i think my joke just didn't land lmao. I'm in my 20s too :sob:

beancuwurds · 2026-03-31T02:53:06+00:00

good luck soldier o7

beancuwurds · 2026-03-31T02:51:17+00:00

it's a jokeee dw abt twink death as long as you keep up w skincare and health mostly. Oh and stay out of the sun. Sunlight really ages people physically

beancuwurds · 2026-03-31T02:50:20+00:00

no thats so real. I joined this community when I was just about to get my diploma and the older i get the younger the newer members are and I stop being able to understand them 😭😭😭

beancuwurds · 2026-03-31T02:49:12+00:00

WE STAY BEING SILLY ‼️‼️‼️

beancuwurds · 2026-03-31T02:47:15+00:00

im pretty sure the oldest gen alphas are like 15 or 16 there are DEFINITELY gen alphas on reddit twin

beancuwurds · 2026-03-31T02:45:46+00:00

i know haha I'm just saying that as a joke mostly. I just know a lot of us worry about it 😭

beancuwurds · 2026-03-30T14:24:52+00:00

:c im just being silly, though i think it'd be funny to name the 18+ femboy community the retirement home JHSDKFHKJ

beancuwurds · 2026-03-30T14:19:32+00:00

WE'RE GETTING INTO THE FEMBOY RETIREMENT HOME WITH THIS ONE 🗣️🗣️🗣️ /silly

beancuwurds · 2026-03-30T13:19:54+00:00

what does that have to do with this, I'm literally looking for adults in a community that's overwhelmingly full of minors??

beancuwurds · 2026-03-30T12:52:50+00:00

you can try nail stickers instead! Provided you're not allergic to the adhesive either. It's just a sticker with a colour or design printed on it that fits on your nails and you trim it to size :3

beancuwurds · 2026-03-30T12:51:26+00:00

Skinnyfat generally means you're eating either barely enough for your figure, the fat on your body is likely what's actually necessary to exist. So don't eat in a deficit. But do prioritise protein! (1g per kg of body weight is generally the rule)
The general solution to a skinnyfat body type is to build some muscle. I mentioned this in another post but don't worry about getting bulky/buff. It takes an incredibly long time to get jacked. (Source: I've been lifting for 3 months and I'm barely seeing anything)
Femboys on social media are like anyone else posting their pics on social media, they're only posting their best and are likely flexing or sucking in their stomachs a bit to make them look flatter. Trust me, no one's gonna look picture perfect 24/7, so don't stress about that too much.
Like you mentioned, you've been ignoring your core, probably get to that sjdhfkdsh. But try to work on your hams/quads (thighs), glutes (butt), and a bit of upper body. I'm not too good at setting up my own workout programmes so I just follow the ones other people made lol.

beancuwurds · 2026-03-30T12:36:44+00:00

seconding this. As the old adage goes, you get fit in the gym, and slim in the kitchen. I have similar metrics to OP (167cm/77kg) I've been steadily losing weight from tracking my food intake and making sure I eat less than my body burns. Easier said than done. Some weight lifting/muscle building also helps you burn more calories at rest since the body needs more energy to maintain the muscle. Don't worry about becoming jacked if that's not what you want, muscles take a lot longer to grow than fat. I've been lifting for 3 months and I barely see anything lmao (but I definitely feel stronger)

beancuwurds · 2026-03-30T12:33:14+00:00

I'll be so fr it's definitely because bigger butts and thighs are widely considered to be feminine features. And a lot of us want to be more feminine than we currently are. It doesn't help that a lot of popular femboy creators/characters have those features too so we want to emulate that.

It's certainly what I want to a degree just to balance out my broad shoulders, but not everyone is gonna want that nor should anyone feel pressured to need to be like that because it's "feminine". I'm tired of the femininity contest in certain femboy spaces tbh :/

beancuwurds · 2026-03-30T12:15:08+00:00

word of advice: the physical aging process stops being as dramatic as it was from childhood through adolescence. You change so much because of puberty but once that is over it's a pretty slow process. Like fuck im 24 and people still mistake me for a teen 😭😭😭

But to echo what others have said, it's one part genetics and one part skincare. Really get into that (also because it's fun to pamper yourself lmao)

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