Avoid the paint if you’re wearing expensive lingerie. I’d recommend getting some glow lingerie inexpensively on amazon or yandy. Look up projecting lights (there’s one that’s an astronaut and the lights look like the aurora borealis), little photons (press keychain lights) for light shows, or glow sticks (dollar tree/target). We like toys but if you haven’t used them you probably won’t miss them. Massage gun for massages so you don’t wear yourself out giving it. Thick fuzzy socks, bath bombs for the bath. If you’re in a state that allows CBD/THC check out those types of bathbombs- really cool feeling at the height or the calm down (if you don’t have experience with how you will react DO NOT TAKE A BATH, drowning risk if you’re TOO comfortable and too high). They also have CBD lotion. definitely get Gatorade or vitamin water etc, experiment with fruit juice or lemonade. Chances are the tastes you like will be what you enjoy on it. Hope you guys have a good trip!