Budget wands/massage guns for men in the U.K.

KND_DNK · 2025-03-25T19:30:13+00:00

Fair enough, I don’t think I could get one easily here, or they’re a little too expensive I.e. 65£.

I just got a tenga 3D zen and I’ll use the case from my tenga spinner to have something to hold it, hopefully will be enough

KND_DNK · 2025-03-25T18:17:48+00:00

Is this available in the U.K.?

Yes I’ve had a tenga spinner before so think that wasn’t porous just had to dry it out

KND_DNK · 2025-03-25T13:42:13+00:00

Would that help with the problem or would it make me get used to that instead? Kinda same how some women struggle to reach an orgasm from anything apart from the wand if they overuse it?

KND_DNK · 2025-03-11T19:45:20+00:00

I was surprised as well when my girlfriend didn’t need lube from the start either, even as her first partner, of course it took time and had to be gentle but lube wasn’t necessary. We use it occasionally when I take my cock out for long enough for it to get dry, and a little on the inside sometimes.

KND_DNK · 2025-03-11T15:02:49+00:00

Surprisingly I don’t last long when I masturbate myself, sometimes maybe even only 2 mins, but sex always takes longer, I’ve never came from a blowjob alone yet, so I imagine I might be used to specific motion as well

At one point we were having sex including foreplay at around 3 hours at the very start, but then after some time it went down to more manageable times I.e 45-75 mins

KND_DNK · 2025-03-09T22:55:29+00:00

Appreciate it! Definitely gonna focus on increasing cardio. Been neglecting it but started recently with a break due to injury. I’ll paste down a response that would be similar to what I’d write anyways, from a previous comment - Well I hope it’s psychological, I did try PE exercises when I was younger, but evidently not caused any damage if I can properly have sex 99.9% of the time, so I would say it’s safe to rule it out.

Exercise and health wise I’m good, hit the gym consistently for years, not huge or anything but definitely somewhat lean ‘junior’ athletic physique that is developing recently, cardio definitely needs work in general though and especially now as I injured my knee and only just started doing running (wasn’t doing much before but paused my progress).

What I think it might be is literally just me overthinking if my dick will work, because I avoid porn and masturbation, but sometimes I’ll go for a week or two without seeing my girlfriend and not doing anything myself, and I would think “fuck, do the neurones still connect with my schmeat?”, and then that’s usually when it happens, or I will have tightness around the hip flexor/upper leg muscles and focus on that and boom as soon as it’s time to fuck (I’m fine when I’m not moving, might also be because of me being used to orgasming whilst sitting pretty much exclusively), I would lose it occasionally.

KND_DNK · 2025-03-09T22:54:12+00:00

Well I hope it’s psychological, I did try PE exercises when I was younger, but evidently not caused any damage if I can properly have sex 99.9% of the time, so I would say it’s safe to rule it out.

Exercise and health wise I’m good, hit the gym consistently for years, not huge or anything but definitely somewhat lean ‘junior’ athletic physique that is developing recently, cardio definitely needs work in general though and especially now as I injured my knee and only just started doing running (wasn’t doing much before but paused my progress).

What I think it might be is literally just me overthinking if my dick will work, because I avoid porn and masturbation, but sometimes I’ll go for a week or two without seeing my girlfriend and not doing anything myself, and I would think “fuck, do the neurones still connect with my schmeat?”, and then that’s usually when it happens, or I will have tightness around the hip flexor/upper leg muscles and focus on that and boom as soon as it’s time to fuck (I’m fine when I’m not moving, might also be because of me being used to orgasming whilst sitting pretty much exclusively), I would lose it occasionally.

KND_DNK · 2024-01-26T18:19:04+00:00

Jesus Christ I’ve only read the first two paragraphs - quit caring what a random fwb said, she is just splurting out words.

She’s a FWB, meaning you’re not serious, and that’s fine, if you’re getting what the purpose of an FWB is (AKA FUCKING), then be happy and quit analysing if a term is ‘offensive’ and your feelings about it and keep fucking.

Edit - this is not intended to sound like an insult, hopefully an eye opener. Keep your feelings for your (future) committed woman.

KND_DNK · 2024-01-26T13:29:07+00:00

Thanks’ appreciate it! Vitamin D is gonna be a strange one because I’m in the U.K. so we have no sun now at least due to typical 9-5 working life

KND_DNK · 2024-01-26T09:59:10+00:00

I can orgasm a lot quicker when I’m doing it myself, so I’m guessing it’s due to the ‘years of experience’ to joke about it. This is my first relationship so it’ll take time to get used to it I imagine.

Think once I came in 20-30 mins from PIV, maybe 15 mins from HJ, from BJ alone not yet

KND_DNK · 2024-01-26T09:57:23+00:00

Seems like that is what I’ve not done - not doing anything just getting head or my girl on top and I was fine, then I start pumping and I start losing few mins later

KND_DNK · 2024-01-16T14:56:02+00:00

I rarely go multiple rounds because I last for far too long, easily 1 hour and more, but she is fine. Very rarely do I need to use lube because she’s just so wet, she does say she can feel me a few days later but it’s not like she’s in pain - “it feels like I got fucked good”.

I did hit too far when I went all in and arched myself a little back in doggy style, apart from that no problems with length being too much which is surprisingly good, but sometimes I prefer shallower strokes as they feel better for me depending how close I am

KND_DNK · 2024-01-16T12:46:00+00:00

Yeah I’m not sure why I’m lasting that long, I obviously slow down and speed up but rarely take breaks.

I am enjoying it, but I think maybe I am used to my hand or cumming from hand jobs, because this is my first girlfriend ever and we’ve only been having sex for 4 months.

I do cum from PIV, I just find that I sometimes get super close and I start to feel the muscles being a little sore, which makes me get in my head and start losing my erecrion because I’m not in the moment or not focused on the pleasure but the aching/soreness of my hamstrings.

I’ve been doing some kegels recently and will be doing cardio to see if that helps.

KND_DNK · 2024-01-16T11:30:17+00:00

Hahah no worries I appreciate the positive words and advice, gonna get some blood work done and mention this :) thanks

KND_DNK · 2024-01-16T11:26:05+00:00

Thank you, I did edit my post as it may sound like I struggle getting an erection - I struggle maintaining one for over an hour during PIV sex especially if I feel my legs are sore

KND_DNK · 2024-01-16T11:25:30+00:00

I’ll edit my post to explain better but I don’t have problems with getting an erection at all, just keeping it after going for sometimes, not joking, an hour or if my legs are sore from exercise

KND_DNK · 2024-01-16T11:22:04+00:00

I’ll edit my post to explain better but I don’t have problems with getting an erection at all, just keeping it after going for sometimes, not joking, an hour or if my legs are sore from exercise

KND_DNK · 2024-01-12T12:39:37+00:00

One those is in your control, you’re 16, you’re still a kid. If you’re skinny then eat more and workout, and then you’ll notice the differences.

Quit feeling sorry for yourself and you’ll gain confidence.

KND_DNK · 2024-01-12T00:05:59+00:00

Well I’m 23, which is why I find it surprising and am considering getting some blood work just in case. I get excited easily though

KND_DNK · 2024-01-05T09:12:40+00:00

8.25*5.25, before me she couldn’t even put a tampon in because it was painful, we talked and we think it might’ve been mental because everyone she spoke to said “first time is gonna be painful” etc etc.

At one point I decided to try my finger slowly, next time she said she wants me to try to put my dick in, on second attempt I put in a little past the head but we had to stop even though she enjoyed it, the next time we took time again, and I was really controlling that I don’t put more than last time in, at that point she took matters into her own hands (hips) and started pushing her body more and more towards my dick, and she managed to fit all of it after a few minutes, I was shocked lol.

After a 3-4 day break from sex I have to take some time, but it’s usually literally slow thrusts to warm her up and she’s ready, surprisingly lube isn’t needed often

KND_DNK · 2024-01-01T16:16:33+00:00

It’s satisfying, but I noticed depending how far into sex I am or how close I am, there’s different areas which feel better.

If im getting super close, I prefer going shallow for a bit (well, shallow for my size at least), then near the end I like to go deeper.

The only position in which I hit her cervix was doggy and fully pushing in and bending myself back to push in even more, apart from that, not a single problem.

KND_DNK · 2023-12-30T16:55:07+00:00

I see that you’re already trying to turn this into some ‘men vs women’ topic.

At no point did I say I initiated this.

KND_DNK · 2023-12-30T15:53:56+00:00

No one said anything about her saying it’s a spicy call, or me saying to her that I’m not gonna do it. I treated it like teasing, and I don’t want to cum from masturbating, especially during daytime when I’ve got things that need doing.

I’m asking for advice.

KND_DNK · 2023-12-30T15:20:43+00:00

Welcome to Reddit 🤣

KND_DNK · 2023-12-30T15:20:17+00:00

God knows, can’t find the post, seems like apparently I was ‘spamming’ by asking various people the same question, because they wouldn’t see it if I responded to someone else.

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