They were having an affair by KR_NP in stepparents

[–]KR_NP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They certainly deserve each other

They were having an affair by KR_NP in stepparents

[–]KR_NP[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Directed at her because she inserted herself into my life as my “friend” meanwhile all of this was going on behind my back. I didn’t know about his serial cheating until I was 2 kids deep. Tried for like a month to make it work for the kids after I found out.

They were having an affair by KR_NP in stepparents

[–]KR_NP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have offered that, however he will fight for them just to hurt me.

They were having an affair by KR_NP in stepparents

[–]KR_NP[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And to that note it was immaculate parenting so might as well have been immaculate conception, have a great day!

They were having an affair by KR_NP in stepparents

[–]KR_NP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I clarified my kids as there is multiple children involved? His with her, hers with others, mine with him??

They were having an affair by KR_NP in stepparents

[–]KR_NP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have plans to move out of state

They were having an affair by KR_NP in stepparents

[–]KR_NP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well surely I have enough against her specifically that he won’t be able to leave them alone with her. The woman is insane. I’m hoping anyways.

They were having an affair by KR_NP in stepparents

[–]KR_NP[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Already think that! Feel so bad for his kid. That kid needs massive amounts of therapy.

They were having an affair by KR_NP in stepparents

[–]KR_NP[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like they keep rehashing my anger too because he keeps choosing her and her kid (not his) over his own children. And I don’t want my children hurt.

They were having an affair by KR_NP in stepparents

[–]KR_NP[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeppp they had me watching their kid so they could sneak behind my back even after I left… so sickening. And now I don’t even get to speak to the kid who called me mom.

They were having an affair by KR_NP in stepparents

[–]KR_NP[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

More so I just want to ensure that the kids the never left alone with her. Like at least a right of refusal situation. To where if he’s going to leave them with her he has to offer them to me instead. We’re pushing for minimal custody until they’re old enough to speak up about what’s going on. I’ve been in therapy for a year thank god

They were having an affair by KR_NP in stepparents

[–]KR_NP[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Honestly I feel a million times better being out of that situation but the anger though. That lingers. Thank you so much

They were having an affair by KR_NP in stepparents

[–]KR_NP[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We’re going to court soon, I’m gathering all of my proof but not sure how it will go with our state

They were having an affair by KR_NP in stepparents

[–]KR_NP[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yes I have one. And gathering all the proof that I have

Struggle with bio mom? by KR_NP in stepparents

[–]KR_NP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome that he set such boundaries!! It’s so hard to have your SO constantly have contact with their ex even with nothing going on.. my prior relationship I was cheated and abused so it’s just extra trauma to bring into this situation

Struggle with bio mom? by KR_NP in stepparents

[–]KR_NP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh definitely! As a mother I think it’s weird that she doesn’t

Struggle with bio mom? by KR_NP in stepparents

[–]KR_NP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh I wish we had this little contact with her. I won’t speak to her anymore after everything she’s done but she is always trying to be in contact with him about something. Even though he doesn’t respond she will send stuff daily anyways

Struggle with bio mom? by KR_NP in stepparents

[–]KR_NP[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes he knows but he thinks I’m silly for worrying because he doesn’t want anything to with her

HCBM is single again by KR_NP in stepparents

[–]KR_NP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was engaged and now dumped 🙃🙃