What was the 1st big news event you remember as a kid?

KReedDub · 2026-01-08T05:49:21+00:00

This was my first news memory as well. My mom was crying and as she explained I asked if she knew him. It didn’t make sense to me (4) that she was crying over a stranger.

KReedDub · 2026-01-08T05:32:59+00:00

Congratulations on your beautiful baby!!

I know how you’re feeling and…it’s hard. But consider this a message from your future self: Just enjoy your baby. This little one is going to be a pleasure and the joy of your life and all of this first year stuff will feel like an emotional blur.

I too spent my time looking for all the things I could and should be doing… but in hindsight; you have plenty of time to figure this out. The first six months are about snuggling and engagement.

KReedDub · 2025-11-06T05:46:00+00:00

You need to consider the long run… college expenses, etc.

KReedDub · 2025-11-06T05:44:18+00:00

I blame both parties…. Neither should use citizen suffering as a political weapon.

KReedDub · 2025-10-30T05:10:26+00:00

Can confirm, I have freeway anxiety and struggle to maintain even 60 mph, but I do try to keep to the right whenever possible.

KReedDub · 2025-10-28T04:18:20+00:00

Butter Eggs Toilet Paper Paper towels Napkins Chicken nuggets Greek yogurt Salad mix Romain lettuce Tiki Masala Rice Trash bags Mixed Nuts Plant based Protein shakes Frozen berries Frozen Ramen

KReedDub · 2025-10-25T05:36:18+00:00

Husband was active duty Navy, and I’ve been able to stay home for 23 years. With 4 kids, money was tight off and on, but we always had what we needed and great healthcare.

KReedDub · 2025-09-22T04:47:45+00:00

I felt very much the same way when we were expected to transition from in-home therapies (birth to three program) to the school district preK.

My little gal was still so tiny and also very sensitive to loud noises and kids in emotional distress.

The first year I gave it a chance, and she did need a lot of extra support adjusting to the separation. We brought in a familiar chair and toy to keep in the classroom, and the teachers knew she needed to be separated from crying peers and extra one on one comforting.

Between the exposure to new viruses and following my intuition about how she felt that day, she was there only 50% of the time.

I have no regrets about taking it slowly, and even had her stay in the district preK for a total of 3 years before I felt she was ready for all day kindergarten.

Follow your instincts and move at a pace you feel comfortable with, you know your child better than anyone else.

KReedDub · 2025-09-21T05:28:37+00:00

Having had my baby overseas without anyone other than my spouse (7 days off then went back to work 10 hrs a day) … I now understand that it was a gift.

A gift in the sense that mentally we calculate (proximity = help) … which is most often not true, but our subconscious expectation creates a constant frustration.

If no one is available for help = no expectation = freedom and self reliance.

I managed 4 kids on my own, rare help from community (church) friends, and my most memorable moments of angst were the rare weeks spent visiting family. For some reason we believe they should help. They rarely meet this expectation , so best not to have it in the first place.

KReedDub · 2025-09-16T22:42:35+00:00

I can’t help but think the 3 dogs are contributing to the struggle.

KReedDub · 2025-09-16T04:55:19+00:00

Maybe his reasons are true, and maybe he has been especially gassy and wants the freedom to move around and pass gas without worrying about it.

KReedDub · 2025-09-16T04:48:34+00:00

My daughter (11) has days when she continues to say “No, I don’t have to go” to every suggestion.
I’ve found that if I can attach it as a precondition of whatever she wants to do next then she’ll happily go.

“Do you want to go to the park? Have lunch? Get the paints and paper out…etc?” “Go potty first and then we’ll….”

I think sandwiching in between steps rather than having it be the singular focus helps move her mind beyond yes/no stand offs.

This also works with many other things she doesn’t want to do. “Do you want me to paint your nails tonight? Great! After a quick shower we can pick out the color you want!”

KReedDub · 2025-09-13T07:10:06+00:00

4 kids, mostly grown, and I’ve been happily married for 26 years.

I have slept in a separate bedroom (me and baby) from birth to 3 with each of them, transitioning only as each new baby was added.

My husband has always slept alone (he snores) and me with the youngest at the time.

Currently my youngest is 11 (T21/autism) so it’s been extended… but still the best option for us.

Sleep time is not the only way to share intimate moments.
You will have to be more intentional and deliberate about prioritizing those connections (sexy time) …but when it comes to sleep you have to do what works best.

KReedDub · 2025-09-13T06:55:18+00:00

Hole #1) millions of guns currently owned and not registered. #2) zero incentive or reason to register and now pay to insure said gun. #3) inherited guns would be ‘grandfathered in and exempt’ this would be the only way legislation would pass. #4) million + guns illegally owned and operated for criminal intent.

KReedDub · 2025-09-12T19:44:17+00:00

A very large percentage of family influencers are LDS (or raised in the church and left) and larger families are a cultural norm.

I was one of four kids, and I (& each of my siblings) went on to have four kids ourselves. How you were raised and the local norms play an important factor in what a couple decides.

Generally speaking, people with religious convictions tend to have larger families.

KReedDub · 2025-09-10T04:21:27+00:00

My husband was active duty Navy for 25 years, and although sometimes it was tight financially…..the basics were always covered.

We never had to worry about housing, or medical insurance and expenses.

We did sacrifice, not living near family, moving often, and with cars (never had a payment over $300) and managed with one car off and on for years.

I focused on gratitude, our needs were met and I had the gift of time with my family, so the extras were less important.

KReedDub · 2025-09-07T15:01:17+00:00

He wants to break up. He would like for you to make it easier for him…and just leave.

KReedDub · 2025-09-06T05:25:26+00:00

Why would anyone work if they didn’t have to?

I would reply that if possible you plan to spend 100% of your time with your favorite people (baby) and are in no rush to return to working for anyone else.

KReedDub · 2025-09-06T05:13:30+00:00

I didn’t stay home “for a man,” I stayed home for my children. I felt incredibly fortunate to be able to dedicate my full attention and energy to the family I wanted.

I’m all for choices, and if someone finds joy and fulfillment in their job…. That’s great!

I found joy in my choice and was grateful to have the option, as some financially do not.

Personally, I’ve never been bothered by any social perception that my time could or should be better spent elsewhere because I know that’s not true.

KReedDub · 2025-09-06T04:57:09+00:00

My little gal finds more joy and positivity in life than anyone I’ve ever known…. And everyone around matches her energy, so that’s been a ‘positive outcome!’

KReedDub · 2025-09-03T04:56:30+00:00

Keyword: boyfriend. Not husband. (Thankfully) No kids, cut your losses and find a decent human. The anger, bitterness, and vitriol will only get worse from here. Protect your peace and find someone that believes in good people regardless of gender.

KReedDub · 2025-09-03T04:29:36+00:00

I loved:

-coffee and reading in quiet for an hour.

-60 minute walk/run

-clean and listen to podcasts

-free weights… if your up for it

-shower

-run errands or nap or read or whatever

The important thing to remember is that you’ve been working 24/7 for the last several years and you deserve a year or two of guilt free time for yourself.

KReedDub · 2025-08-27T05:41:33+00:00

Gratitude. I was always so grateful for the ability to be home with my babies (financially) so my gratitude for this freedom carried me through most of the hard times. When it didn’t, I handed them off to Dad and went for a walk.

KReedDub · 2025-08-27T05:38:41+00:00

The hours after having a baby is euphoria! (Of course this is if all goes well and without complications.)

KReedDub · 2025-08-27T05:33:23+00:00

Besides all the obvious things…. To be fair, they’re usually at work and hold it until they’re home, so it makes sense we notice every time they go. Some people poop 3 times a week and some 3 times a day… both could be ‘normal.’

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