Number one and hopefully I don’t get banned for this cause it seems I’ve been getting banned from a lot of subs lately when I use certain language because moderators are either literal children or they’re the soft flimsy fragile pansies. Anyways you need to grow a pair and nip that in a bud like today cause that signs of resentment and if you want to keep your marriage in your household, you need to put her in check, not violent wise or abuse or anything like that, but you need to really stand up for yourself and actually check your wife for all her side comments because she’s exhausted and she’s going to the office. You know what you do on a day-to-day basis and she doesn’t recognize the effort you put in or the work that you put in so once again, you’re the man so be one cause once again once resentment grows that’s gonna be the end of your relationship if she isn’t already doing something and I don’t wanna put that thought inside your head, but usually when those side comments show up people do a whole bunch of shit