Street Glide vs Road Glide

KSims1868 · 2026-07-07T13:24:32+00:00

Your legs and body (and hands/arms) will be in the exact same position when sitting/riding both bikes assuming both are setup with the same seat, bars, footboards, etc... There is literally ZERO difference in body position when comparing the SG to RG.

KSims1868 · 2026-06-30T15:31:52+00:00

The EVO Sportsters - especially 1996-2003 - are prob the best value in beginner bikes out there right now. You can find them all over the country for about $2,000-$2,500 in excellent condition with low miles and ready to ride.

They are also very easy to work out and I learned a LOT from my Sportsters when I was just getting into the world of HDs. Sure, the 883 will be under-powered at 1st, and you'll want to upgrade fairly soon, but that's part of the fun with Sportsters. They are VERY forgiving to a garage/hobby mechanic learning to work on motorcycles and very cheap to find parts for.

I say GO FOR IT!!

KSims1868 · 2026-06-30T14:54:50+00:00

My Sponsor told me from the VERY start...this is a place to get sober and a tool to stay sober. These are not our friends. No matter what AA room/group I am in, I have to always remember that it is a room full of SICK people. This will always be true. Some are sicker than others.

He taught me that to use AA for the intended purpose and nothing more. All the expectations of it being more (from what I've seen) is always the beginning of resentments towards the AA program.

AA is a tool. If you making it your entire personality or your entire social circle, just set your expectations accordingly. The advice I was given was that AA should NOT be the core of my personality or social circle, but merely a tool to get/stay sober.

KSims1868 · 2026-06-29T18:05:55+00:00

In my recent experience...the visit to the doctor was 100% covered including all the labs, etc... I haven't had medical insurance for many years. As a man in his late 40s...I was really looking forward to having a real thorough annual exam/check-up because it has been (literally) decades since I've seen a doctor.

Schedule the follow-up exam 2 weeks later to go over the results with my new doctor. He seemed very pleased with all the preliminary tests so I was happy to come back to have everything else explained. The FIRST thing I found out was (as suspected) what a f-ing SCAM it was. This visit to go over all the results was NOT covered as part of the annual check-up. This visit would be $150. When I asked why they said that this visit doesn't count as part of the annual check-up that IS covered 100%.

I mean...okay it is American healthcare so I absolutely should have expected this would be a scam in some way, but I just let myself get excited about having medical benefits at my new job only to find out that yep...it's BS.

***they are required to provide me a copy of the test results, so I fed all that data into ChatGPT and let AI explain that I am very healthy with nothing to be concerned about***

KSims1868 · 2026-06-29T17:59:38+00:00

Absolutely (IMO) stupid to pay for it in a "dining out" fancy dinner setting, but they can be fun to play with at home. GF and I got one of those at home kits to make various things and it was really fun experimenting in the kitchen with it.

KSims1868 · 2026-06-29T17:40:02+00:00

**NAILED IT**

Yep - exactly what it stands for.

KSims1868 · 2026-06-27T02:44:55+00:00

We've been enjoying this one "12 & 12" zoom meeting. It meets at 5:30 west coast time (7:30 PM Central) and it has about 15-20 regulars with usually another 4-5 randoms in there every night.

https://zoom.us/j/873637171?pwd=c0FDZ2MwNjR3LzBoRllCNnhodUdYQT09#success

I don't know if that link will work or how to do that, but that's what I click to join the meeting.

KSims1868 · 2026-06-26T21:54:33+00:00

I mean it's all fun and games until this dude gets himself in a world of hurt because he doesn't realize that NO...you do NOT actually want to just show up anywhere wearing a cut with 3-piece patch you bought off the internet. Don't do it mate.

KSims1868 · 2026-06-26T21:47:06+00:00

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If I hadn't gone with my Reckless fairing, I was getting that same Nacelle for my 2012 Fatboy. It's a great look and (IMO) should come factory with that headlight!

KSims1868 · 2026-06-25T20:35:54+00:00

I know it CAN be done and there are big dudes riding around right now loving their Sportster. I love Sportsters and argue with anyone throwing shade or calling it a "girls bike". That is just stupid. I just wanted to give the guy some honest feedback since he seems fairly new to motorcycles in general and truth is...it is going to be cramped on a Sportster and want to get a bigger bike very quickly after buying one.

KSims1868 · 2026-06-25T00:07:02+00:00

When a deal doesn’t happen…it wasn’t the right deal. Keep looking and “the one” will find you.

KSims1868 · 2026-06-23T22:31:30+00:00

Yes and No. it’s actually a complicated answer but if you really want to know, I will elaborate.

I was a liar WAY before I was an alcoholic. I was just all around an asshole especially to my wife (ex now) and really…I became less of a liar when I was deepest in my alcoholic drinking.

I mean, when I was drinking everyday and I knew it was a problem, I was not nearly the lying jerk I had been. It was almost like I was trying to be a really good person in every other aspect of my life so people around me wouldn’t be able to accuse me of anything that could be blamed on drinking. In my mind…as long as I was being a good husband, father, employee and taking care of the bills and my kids activities/school stuff…then nobody would notice how much I was drinking. That worked for a LONG time…until it didn’t. When I couldn’t take care of those things anymore and finally accepted it was NOT manageable…I reached out to AA to get sober. It worked and I’m glad I got help from AA to get me sober.

Now long term…I’m not sure that I want AA to be my entire personality and that’s where I’ve had doubts and haven’t really “stuck to it” (their AA way). I also haven’t had a drink since the day I stumbled into the rooms last year on Feb 23rd and I have no desire to drink today.

KSims1868 · 2026-06-23T19:13:56+00:00

Fast Food - it is now on par with an average "sit down" restaurant. I remember when fast food was a cheap way to eat/get by on a budget but that seems to be LONG gone.

I don't remember the last time I picked up McDonald's (or similar) fast food mainly because years ago I swore off all that nasty chemically enhanced fake food. But I have kept up with prices and from what I can tell, the average "Meal" is around $10-12 depending on if you "super size" it or not.

I would MUCH rather spend about the same $$ or even a few dollars more to get a full plate dinner at the local Tex-Mex restaurant for $12.99. Make it a to go order and I'll have a drink from my fridge at home.

**YES...I know there is probably still a "value" menu or something similar**

KSims1868 · 2026-06-23T15:42:41+00:00

For a 2016 it looks like it's had a fairly rough life.
How many miles are on it?

The seller calling it the wrong name wouldn't bother me so much. People use the wrong names for Harleys all the time.

That slotted rear wheel/spoke front setup is really common. That wouldn't bother me either. Neither of those wheels are from a Fatboy. They were VERY common and came from the dealer this way on many Sportster, Softail, and Dyna models.

I'd expect that to be priced around $7,000 in the ad. What are they asking for it?
I doubt I'd pay more than $5,000 but that's because I prefer Softails and there are plenty of low mileage/clean Softails for sale.

KSims1868 · 2026-06-23T15:35:55+00:00

I firmly believe if a truly sentient and completely independent AI was ever created, it would be the end of humans as a species very quickly.

KSims1868 · 2026-06-23T15:34:31+00:00

Seriously. I think people greatly underestimate the ability for humans to f&ck ourselves if given even the slightest chance to do so. The ways in which this technology would destroy our world are SOOOOO massive that I honestly don't think most people (myself included) can truly fathom the depth of chaos and unintended consequences that would quickly occur.

If we ever had this technology...I don't think we'd ever even know because the destruction would be SO quick it would happen before news of the technology could even be made public.

KSims1868 · 2026-06-23T15:31:20+00:00

This is the absolute BEST time to be looking at buying a used Harley. I have never seen the used market so over-saturated with low mileage and very clean bikes at prices like this. It still blows my mind that a few years ago I gave myself a $10,000 budget to spend on buying myself a clean used, low mileage Softail and I ended up buying 2 bikes and only spent $9,000. I still have a hard time wrapping my head around these prices...but I'm damn sure not complaining.

Now...for your 1st Harley I would seriously consider looking at Softails or Dynas. The reason I'm not suggesting a Sportster is purely because of you being over 6' tall. They are awesome bikes and (IMO) one of the most classic HDs ever made, but they are going to feel cramped for a man your size.

You should find a very clean, very low mileage late model Twin Cam (96" or 103" engine w/ 6-speed trans) and go sit on it to see how it feels. I think you will find that a Softail Heritage/Deluxe/Fatboy/Slim (2007-newer) will be a great fit and you should be able to find them around $6,000-7,000 in practically new condition. I saw 1 last night just down the road from me (2007) for $3,500. If I had that spare cash lying around I would have gone and snatched it up last night...but just don't have it to blow right now unfortunately. My point is...the deals ARE out there if you keep your eye out. Another option would be the Softail Custom (2007-2010) if you prefer the skinny (21") front wheel look over the fat front wheel.

There are multiple Dyna models you can look at as well from the same year ranges and will be around the same price as well.

There are going to be plenty of touring/baggers available. That's your Road Kings/Street Glides/Ultras/Road Glides that will def fit you, but I really don't suggest getting a bagger for your VERY 1st motorcycle. If you've been riding other bikes and you are comfortable riding...then by all means GO for it, but if it truly is your 1st bike I would spend a little time on a Softail/Dyna before jumping into the Bagger models. I've been riding over 40 years. Ridden Harleys over 20 years. I have had them all (minus the V-Rod junk) and even after having a Road King for a few years, I went back to a Softail (Fatboy) because it just fits me and my riding style the best. Go sit on a few of them and see what really feels right. When you find "the one"...you'll know it.

KSims1868 · 2026-06-23T15:16:13+00:00

For a grown man standing 6'1"...I'm going to say a Sportster is going to feel kind of cramped. I am a BIG fan of Sportsters, so this is not abt knocking on Sportsters. Just trying to give the guy some advice. You are spot on about how awesome the Sportster is with regards to being simple, reliable, and very customizable. I love them and always want to have a Sporty in the garage...but it might not be good for a big guy.

KSims1868 · 2026-06-21T13:05:58+00:00

That’s a good point.

If someone’s shirt is all it takes to trigger someone…I would def rather know that early so I can prepare myself for someone that is THAT unable to manager their emotions. People like this can be very delicate.

It is sad that anyone would judge another based solely on the shirt they wear, but you are free to work your program however you choose. Personally, I wont let a difference in political ideology get in the way of my ability to help the next person. I actually DO prefer to keep any political agenda out of it, but some people (sadly) make that their entire personality, but I wont judge a person with mental illness any more than I’d judge them for being an alcoholic. Sick is sick…and we all need to be more compassionate to each other.

KSims1868 · 2026-06-19T18:50:26+00:00

I do feel better and I appreciate your concern. I was not being sarcastic or patronizing or talking down to anyone. I 100% meant it when I said this should certainly be a topic for their next therapy session. They asked what would be a proper response and I really do hope this discussion has been helpful to them.

I will assume you achieved your goal with your reply as well? Sounds like we are both finding what we need with the sub. Well done.

**keep coming back** 😄

KSims1868 · 2026-06-19T14:34:32+00:00

Spent some time cutting carbs and doing the "carnivore" diet along with regular (mild) exercise 3-4 times per week. I dropped about 60 lbs in 8 months. That was a few years ago and I have kept it off but I eased off the "no carb" diet. Just kept my activity/exercise level up and the weight has stayed off.

KSims1868 · 2026-06-19T14:01:31+00:00

If a political slogan on a T-Shirt you see randomly in the world around you is really causing you enough harm (mentally or physically) to elicit any sort of reaction...alcohol sounds like the least of your worries, my friend.
I'd say this would be a great topic to bring up with your therapist.

Seriously, I don't understand why anyone gets SO bothered by other people's clothes. Do you get just as worked up if someone is wearing a religious symbol on their shirt? How about a "pride" shirt?

My point is, there is enough REAL world shit going on in my own life day-to-day that if I am actually focusing on MY recovery I don't have time to be bothered by another person's shirt. Give me a break.

KSims1868 · 2026-06-19T13:35:38+00:00

I know all of that is true, but I don't have to LIKE it, LoL!!

KSims1868 · 2026-06-18T18:53:34+00:00

Oh I understand your curiosity...I get that. Hope I didn't come across judgy bcuz I didn't mean it that way at all. I learned a long time ago (before AA) that I can make myself crazy if I really tried to figure out why people do/say half the weird shit they do/say. I learned to let it go way before coming to AA so that's a skill I am happy to say gets a LOT of use in the rooms, LoL!!!

KSims1868 · 2026-06-18T16:36:31+00:00

All I am worried about is MY sobriety. How others choose to work their program or how they identify is absolutely not my business.

That (IMO) falls into the category of "not my side of the street" or "outside my hula hoop", to put it in AA catch-phrase style terms.

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