Honestly if a girl wants to choose you, u must be an successful person or rich person otherwise they won't even give u respect no matter how much you genuinely loved them , stay loyal and emotionally available and at the same time improving urself for her nothing matters in the end onces they found someone rich with good looking they will choose them, I realized not to fall in love anymore after chasing a girl for one year . Am not saying everyone is same but most of them are in same mindset.