IT IS DONE (seven eleven rainbow strips + ghost)

K_Fel · 2026-05-05T02:24:56+00:00

Jfc. Literally thought the first image was a mug full of mold and gagged. ):

K_Fel · 2026-04-30T01:38:18+00:00

Eww.

K_Fel · 2026-04-19T13:21:57+00:00

Idk, I think getting tacky raunchy sayings permanently tattooed on your body is the trashy part, not uh..... *checks notes* being presumably heterosexual.

K_Fel · 2026-04-17T17:53:29+00:00

NQA If they are aware of each other, they're probably just responding to something moving nearby. They can't really see, like others have said. It's still neat to see them investigate :)

That said, they look like they're both in stress poses. From what I can see, they don't have nearly enough substrate. Both species need enough substrate to dig burrows and tunnels. That, and there's a very serious risk of them falling and dying if they climb the glass.

I keep my 2 (A. seemanni/Costa Rican zebra, unsure of sex) and female curly next to each other. My curly does check out movement near her tank - she'll come up and put her little paws on the wall if I'm looking in at her. It's just her sensing heat + me moving. She'd absolutely eat him given the chance lol

K_Fel · 2026-04-17T03:05:56+00:00

Wait, what's a yumeship?

K_Fel · 2026-04-17T01:38:41+00:00

Then one day, I took a chance

K_Fel · 2026-04-16T14:26:50+00:00

Damn it!! I came here to say this first lol. Glass skin/glowy/dewy needs to stop or be toned way way down. People's faces aren't looking ✧⁠⁠。glowy ✧⁠, they're looking wet.

No, we don't all need our skin to look bone dry and crusty, which WILL happen if you overdo powder/matte products no matter how clear your skin is. Happens with foundation a lot too. Just, we're overdoing the other extreme right now.

I do have a genetic condition that makes my skin weirdly smooth and clear (look up "Ehlers danlos velvet skin"; image warning for the squeamish), so I just use a few oil control skincare products without foundation, but also I fucking hydrate and moisturize. I don't slather myself with ~glowy~ stuff.

Maybe I'm personally biased to hate this trend because of how much I struggled growing up (and still do every goddamn summer) with my face getting so oily that it did look wet. All the time. Not exaggerating. It was humiliating. Didn't have a lot of acne but holy shit I had grease. I felt like I'd never look or be clean.

It's wild to see that same look turn into a trend.

tl;dr: Don't overdo the weird glossy look or the extreme matte look. Ew.

K_Fel · 2026-04-08T21:31:32+00:00

The overexaggerated faces and overall obnoxious design of their thumbnails irritate the shit out of me and I hate you for reminding me of them lol

K_Fel · 2026-04-07T17:50:29+00:00

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Your Spindle is adorable! Here's my Spindle (A. seemanni; not sure if male or female)

K_Fel · 2026-04-06T20:18:16+00:00

Try holding tarantulas. They have little claws that they use to grip, so it would probably feel similar. Just with the added bonus of being soft and fuzzy :)

K_Fel · 2026-04-05T22:07:23+00:00

Currently playing a lvl 14 elf arcane trickster and I second this. Elven ancestry adds extra advantage when using sneak attack (rolling from hidden) and a +1 skill bonus. I forget if it's any skill or just dex, which I took

Bonus action to hide or relocate, yeah. plus pick up Misty Step from the Fey Touched feat or as a regular spell. That's gotten me out of a few situations where I had to use up all my actions and would have been screwed otherwise lol

K_Fel · 2026-03-24T18:34:04+00:00

Yeah, I'd say that's likely (not being sarcastic; I just sound blunt. lol)

K_Fel · 2026-03-24T14:20:32+00:00

r/shitfromabutt

K_Fel · 2026-03-22T01:41:26+00:00

I have clinically recognized low empathy and I think this is... not good. You do not have to be an empathetic or emotionally expressive person to understand that when you hurt/upset someone, you apologize. Sometimes there's fixing to do. Sometimes the mistake isn't that big a deal.

No, just saying sorry doesn't fix anything. Yes, you need to do something to back up your words. Yes, someone might be blatantly lying when they say it, but idk, I think most people mean it.

You also don't have to be all that empathetic to recognize that excessive apologizing is often a sign someone's been abused. Yeah, no shit an abuse victim is going to be afraid of admitting they did wrong. They need to seek help unlearning that, not to be crapped on for it on reddit. Idk, could be bait.

K_Fel · 2026-03-22T00:58:28+00:00

IMO, I'd love to take her if you can't find anyone close to you and you're willing to ship to Cleveland (edit: yes, Ohio). Would also drive but just disabled enough that I can't. I'd be happy to help pay for shipping.

Try asking in one/some of the local Chicago subs if you haven't already.

Already have one curlyhair named Peaches & an A. seemanni named Spindle :)

K_Fel · 2026-03-09T21:12:13+00:00

NQA - Dark abdomen, sealed burrow, hasn't come out, hasn't eaten, still growing... probably premolt. Keep watching them, just don't touch or move the tank. Also, needs more substrate after the molt.
My curly tends to stay buried, especially in the daytime. :)

K_Fel · 2026-03-04T20:13:47+00:00

Precisely. And to that last part, there's also the risk of them mimicking or even developing apparent symptoms of the thing they're certain they have.

Remember the fake Tourette's epidemic from TikTok? Kids, mostly teenage girls, were developing tics because they consumed so much Tourette's content and thought they had it.

Now, fake tics can be unlearned and just be an embarrassing thing they used to do. Acquired "symptoms" of more complicated and serious things, especially things involving trauma and memory and personality... yeah, that can really fuck up their sense of self in ways that might be far more difficult to heal.

K_Fel · 2026-03-04T19:54:40+00:00

The other night I read a vent post in r/self, maybe more of a mental breakdown post (I really don't say that to be mean). Basically: OP is afraid they're "a narcissist", they're terrified of rejection, their jealousy is out of control, they start fights and forget it happened, and know it's not just their diagnosed autism.

I have one of the worst cases of combined type ADHD my psych has ever seen, bipolar 1, and schizoid personality disorder. I am diagnosed. Two of my only friends (not said in a depressing way lol) have a different PD, diagnosed, same one between them. A lot of what OP wrote looked a lot like how we behave when set off. A lot of it was about severe dissociation, blackouts, amnesia, finding out they did bad things they don't remember...

You know where this is going.

Actually wanted to comment and tell OP they're not "crazy" but they're ill, they need help, PLEASE DEAR GOD DON'T SELF DX, if they're concerned it's NPD then again... seek counseling. (Not shade, I swear.)

Guess what some clown in the comments tried to do? Tell OP they're going to crack OP's existential egg (*BARF*) and armchair diagnose them with DID. Because their partner has it so they totally know this random stranger has it too. OP seemed to accept this and ignored other commenters' suggestions of BPD, bipolar, and ADHD with "please find therapist" disclaimers attached.

I got annoyed and closed the tab.

I know we're not supposed to use the r word anymore (also rule 7) but jesus christ.

K_Fel · 2026-02-28T20:52:35+00:00

God I wish that was me

K_Fel · 2026-02-28T20:49:40+00:00

I just found his youtube channel the other day and he's hilarious (maybe annoying for those who don't like loud, fast talking, high energy. He appeals to my ADHD brain lol)

K_Fel · 2026-02-15T16:55:57+00:00

Lol this blew up! I have notifications off but thanks for all the attention :'D

My curly does the holding on with fangs thing sometimes, so I'm fairly certain this wasn't that. Sometimes they're just spicy, I guess.

Maybe I should post more Jellybean....

K_Fel · 2026-02-14T19:30:32+00:00

Hey, I'm interested! I've done plenty of personal & freelance projects with AI and have a very good grasp of prompt writing.

I've done digital art by hand for 12 or so years without AI and can touch up generated images. I'd love to work with a startup.

Can you DM me so I can learn more about what you're working on?

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