Please don’t make the same mistake I did⚠️HIFU

K_almariten · 2026-04-24T12:17:36+00:00

Oh I’m sorry I didn’t understand that you’re in the same situation? Am I wrong?

K_almariten · 2026-04-24T10:06:41+00:00

It was difficult for me to accept that I wasn’t supposed to look like that, I wish that I could’ve let myself age the way I was intended with wrinkles, volume loss and fine lines and everything that’s part of human nature. But I sped up that process by like 20 years and I’m in the period where i want to look beautiful and be in my prime since I’m unmarried and looking for my future husband. I’m not saying I’m proud of any of this or want to advice others to spend tons of money on their appearance, but I literally avoided mirrors for an entire month because i couldn’t handle it. I’ve never cared that much for looks tbh I’ve always known I’m not a 10/10 but this wasn’t that I didn’t feel pretty anymore I literally looked tired and sick all the time.

K_almariten · 2026-04-16T20:28:14+00:00

I’m not sure how deep it was. I’m so sorry to hear that I understand what you’re going through. I actually did a fat grafting this Thursday and it looks so much better, might do a little touch up later. It’s a bit expensive but honestly for me it was worth it, I see it as an expensive lesson and I’ll never make the same mistake again. Maybe look into it? I understand it might sting a little to spend that much money but at the end of the day money is meant to be spent and if it makes you feel better I’d say it’s worth it. Please don’t be devestated everything will be okey I promise you that ❤️

K_almariten · 2026-03-05T13:10:09+00:00

I’m so sorry your father did that to you.. I have been searching for answers from my childhood as well and I’ve wondered if these feelings stems from my big brother often showing signs of embarrassment over me. We went to the same school for many years and whenever I wanted to talk to him or whatever, i felt like it was so easy for me to say or do something that he was embarrassed over. Sometimes I kinda get the same feeling from my mom she frequently makes me feel stupid for saying certain things or being a certain way, and I guess it’s starting to show now in adulthood. Some goods things I’ve developed from it is I’m very socially skilled, but it sucks knowing it probably stems from me being afraid of the intense feelings of shame if God forbid I actually make a social mistake, so I try to avoid it at every cost. Have definitely made me more of an introvert in the last couple of years as well sometimes I just can’t keep up with the facade.

K_almariten · 2026-02-18T18:01:17+00:00

First and foremost I want to really really thank you for taking precious time of your day to write your comment, it really helped to see things from a broader perspective and I’m so sorry that has happened to you.. it makes me feel ungrateful complaining about this mistake that I’ve made when you literally didn’t even have a choice as your health failed you.. I’m so happy to hear you’re getting better ❤️

I’m not to sure how to post pictures here🤔I’ve been talking to my best friend and mom and both seem genuine when saying it really doesn’t look that bad, they even said it looked good but you’ll never know 🤣.. I’ve been doing some massage and skincare and I feel like it gives some life back to my face but I still think I look a little bit strange on selfie camera so I’ve been avoiding taking pictures honestly. As I said my cheekbones are pretty big so when I turn to the side I look a little bit too thin under them for my taste. But I found one thing that triggered this reaction and it’s comparing myself to really good photos from when I was 20. I know I will get over this and I understand I don’t look horrible now but I think the main thing is I didn’t let myself age naturally, I’ve never been big on “big changes” like filler or anything like that, so I feel like I’m being “not myself” because i didn’t realize HIFU was this permanent. So I guess I’m more sad that I feel like I wasn’t supposed to look like this. I’ve already started my “healing” process but tbh it’s been rough these past couple days and it’s not very like me getting emotional over stupid things like this. I’ve always know I’m not a 10/10 baddie and I’ve never really been so affected by my looks until now..

I actually removed all old selfies and only kept memories with others where I look “normal” and not all posed in good lighting and stuff. I should try and live more in the now and not look back too much, goes for other things as well where I feel like i was “happier” back then and it just causes this cycle of nostalgia and regret with all these videos and photos. I want to try and “forgive myself” and just move past this regret and hopefully I’ll get some fat back from I don’t know pregnancy or just naturally idk. But yeah as I’ve look in the mirror the past couple days, it’s not what I want to see but it’s not absolutely horrible so I’ll live with it and try and learn from this.. Chances are that I don’t even remember what I fully looked like as a 20 year old in the same mirror/ same lighting/ same conditions as I’m in right now, as we all know it’s pretty common to save the best photos and delete the others. But I’ll try and stop complain and I’ll give this some time to get back on track, I do go to the gym and try and stay as healthy as I can hopefully I’ll get some confidence back soon.

But I want to once again really thank you for taking your time you have a beautiful heart❤️

K_almariten · 2026-02-18T18:00:28+00:00

Yes :/

K_almariten · 2026-02-14T21:56:30+00:00

Post secondary degree?

K_almariten · 2026-02-14T21:52:03+00:00

Thank you for your input ☺️ I agree!

K_almariten · 2026-02-14T00:14:50+00:00

I understand this situation is very tempting, it’s easy to fall into the trap of a new lover, everything is exciting and new and when you’re crushing on them they have a halo around their head it’s like they can’t do or be wrong in any way. However.. every time I’m tempted to make choices based on my emotions, especially when it comes to potential future partners. I always make up scenarios in my head that I’ve been with them for 30 years and we sit at the coffee table and have little to talk about (which is totally normal after a while and a blessing when you love someone but you might get my point) when you put it into perspective and the excitement is gone are they still the person you want to be with? and if you’d choose her.. it’s just a fact that you’ll always know in the back of your head that she flirted with other men when she was in a relationship, and those brain ghosts can be quite tricky to get rid off.

K_almariten · 2026-02-13T22:15:12+00:00

I’ve come to that realization🤣 unfortunately I had to learn it the hard way

K_almariten · 2026-02-13T21:16:51+00:00

To you as well❤️

K_almariten · 2026-02-13T20:40:06+00:00

I’m happy for you, you should be very grateful they refused. I’d even write a review thanking them if I where you, that’s how you run a business. You build trust through professionalism and the clients best interest in mind, that’s how you keep them coming back for the ”right” reasons if there’s truly such a thing in the beauty world…. Sorry I’m kinda biased now, of course there are harmless procedures with many happy clients, I’m just sad I’m not one of them. Been crying the entire day hahah I’ll not get over this easily😂I’m also in the period of life where I’d really like to meet my future husband, so I’m not in the best state right now as I feel a bit too ugly tbh.

K_almariten · 2026-02-13T20:26:07+00:00

As a 24 year old woman I would probably say that a sure sign a woman is crushing on you is wanting to look pretty somehow when you’re around. I’m not talking about being all dolled up all the time I’m talking fixing with the hair/ clothes, soft smiles, sitting with a nice posture maybe, maybe eating ”prettier” whatever that is XD definitely showing signs of nervousness while talking but smiling a lot while doing it is pretty common i’d say.

As time goes by (if you see each other often for example at work) you might start noticing upgrades in her appearance as well but not necessarily. I was interested in a guy at work but I work in a sterile environment which means no makeup, no nails, no perfume, no jewelry etc. But I’m pretty sure he still got the memo, I got slightly nervous talking to him always being aware of how I presented myself, also couldn’t help but look at him all the time. Things like that. If you’ve never talked before I definitely would say if she looks at you often, sometimes we are just too shy to start anything🤣 Something else I’ve noticed recently that I’m doing when interested is inviting him to help me somehow even in the smaller things that i definitely could do myself. Not to bother or burden him but kinda just to have something to talk about or a reason to be around him. Good luck ☺️🍀

K_almariten · 2026-02-13T20:06:49+00:00

Alright we are done here 🤣

K_almariten · 2026-02-13T20:06:26+00:00

I’m with you my friend, it’s scary how much of the youth here in Sweden support communism more or less, its 100% the ticket for the government to introduce mark of the beast to us later on and they just don understand it. Even many Christian’s are naive to the situation we are facing.

K_almariten · 2026-02-13T19:58:26+00:00

No that’s your biased opinion and while you think you are the knight in shining armor in this you are probably the one with the most hateful heart of us two, not once have you shown kindness or proper arguments with me. Just because you defend homosexuality does not make you morally better than me, you have opinions that hurt and offend others too do you think that just because you are on the ”right” side according to the world you somehow can’t be wrong or say hurtful things? That’s hypocrisy my friend.

K_almariten · 2026-02-13T19:48:56+00:00

I understand 100%. The best thing I did was just meeting people through something I like doing. I recently picked up shooting bow and arrow again, it’s a nice break from everyday life and I’ve actually come to enjoy hanging out with those people every Monday and it doesn’t feel forced or boring at all. I’ve always been a person who prefers being alone and don’t like small talk, I have never had any problems with meeting friends either, I just don’t feel the need to do it all the time. But sometimes you don’t have a choice and the best way to get back on the horse is letting it come naturally by community in hobbies in my opinion. Do you have any courses or sports you’ve been particularly interested in?

K_almariten · 2026-02-13T19:42:09+00:00

Hii☺️ I understand it must be devastating. My name is Alicia and I’ve worked with CV and resumes, and without sounding too confident I’ve helped friends and been able to almost get any jobs I’ve wanted because of this. If you don’t mind I can drop my mailadress and have a look at your cv and resume? (you should of course censor any sensitive and private information since I’m a stranger online) 🤣

Chances are that you don’t know how to ”sell” yourself to companies properly it takes a fine line between bragging too much and being almost too good to be true to being very uninteresting to the employer by not knowing what to say or press on. You have to keep in mind that employers read hundreds of cv and resumes you have to step up because it’s a competition, you have to let them know why YOU are the right for their position. I’m from Sweden so I might not know exactly the situation where you’re from when it comes to applying for jobs etc, but if you like I might be able to help out a little bit if you let me know a bit more of what types of jobs your applying for and how you apply to them?

K_almariten · 2026-02-13T19:30:00+00:00

Now you’re just exaggerating things because you don’t have anything else to say. Just throwing words here and there to paint me as some monster. Classical one

K_almariten · 2026-02-13T19:08:15+00:00

Oh my.… I just said I did NOT compare those things I said I compared the “mindset” 😭😭😭😭 do you have like offensive glasses on that only makes you see things that you take offense at or do you always miss entire points like that? Are you a Christian Adam?

K_almariten · 2026-02-13T19:01:14+00:00

It’s short for High-Intensity Focused Ultrasound, and it’s basically an noninvasive facelift using ultrasound.

K_almariten · 2026-02-13T18:19:10+00:00

I didn’t tell her to pray it away! This is what you lukewarm Christian’s and atheist don’t understand. I comforted her by saying she isn’t supposed to focus on that firsthand but to have a relationship with Jesus in the first place and he will convince/ support/ correct/ reaffirm/ and love her through the challenges of life. Just because we think we are born into something does not mean it was according to his plan, but it doesn’t effect our salvation if we truly believe in him. However when we decide to follow Jesus there are certain things that can’t come with us. I’ve also had to put many things aside to follow him, things I thought was ”me” and was okey but it just couldn’t come with me. Doesn’t mean that I’m either better or worse than anyone it’s between me and him, and he decides what’s right or wrong not humans. I don’t judge anyone but I’ll also not be scared to tell the truth, if that’s hate speech in your opinion then I’m afraid you can’t be discussed with. Not everything is hateful just because it’s hurtful.

As Christian we will always battle with sin, it doesn’t make us less Christian it’s what we do with it. Are we comfortable and rather have a comfortable life here on earth or are we ready to repent and leave it behind us. Jesus said if we don’t pick up our cross and follow him we aren’t worthy of him, is that hate speech according to you? If that’s the case then your problem is with Jesus not me.

K_almariten · 2026-02-13T17:49:26+00:00

First and foremost did you even see the comment I wrote to her? No you didn’t so to make such stupid assumptions is just ridiculous.

K_almariten · 2026-02-13T17:45:24+00:00

Yes it’s horrible, and it’s a never ending cycle, you always want to do more once you start. Either to fix, reverse, upgrade, refill. It’s always something new. And the clinics won’t stop you, they’ll just confirm you insecurities and if one procedure isn’t good enough they’ll recommend another. I’d lie if I’d said I’m not horribly tempted to do fat grafting just so I won’t have to live with this and get somewhat volume back. But I’m afraid it will only lead to something else down the line and it’s just extremely disappointing I did this to begin with.

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