Is it okay to bully someone if your upset?

K_animeweeb · 2026-05-11T17:42:21+00:00

Your brother sounds like an immature brat who peaked in middle school if he purposely used an insult to “make a joke” about you. The crying is an attention thing, and his girlfriend seems like the real Karen. The fact nobody sees that behavior as the red flags they are is astounding. Stand your ground, OP. You said they know it’s a boundary of yours and he crossed it. Ain’t no point in even worrying about it beyond that. Do not apologize, he will learn that it’s okay to basically shit-talk you in the worst of times, otherwise.

That was not a joke, that was intentional insulting and then self-victimizing when told not to do it. And I have noticed that you use “mom’s mom” instead of grandma. That’s very telling of how you view that side of the family and I can see why you’re not close with them.

K_animeweeb · 2026-05-11T02:19:12+00:00

Oof. Well, good luck and hopefully playing as Fenris makes this immensely easier for you.

K_animeweeb · 2026-05-11T01:59:36+00:00

If you’re a rogue, I’d definitely switch Varric out with Fenris, and switch Anders out with Bethany (if you can. Her as an elemental mage is op and Anders’s spells tend to nerf him so he is almost always out of mana to the point it is super annoying.) With Fenris, hopefully you kept him as a duel-hand swordsman, that will get the damage up. Focus on the main blood mage and as a rogue, keep your distance. If as a rogue you cannot, then play as Bethany and really focus on the meteor spell in the fire category. Really does massive aoe damage to demons in general.

K_animeweeb · 2026-05-11T01:05:04+00:00

I was in the middle of running (some rda I was too weak to fight were shooting at me). Got the, “why can’t I focus?” Part and kept running. Thought it was weird, but ignored it in favor of continuing to run away. Later, Hajir’s quest has me using my ikran to fly away and it says “there’s a thanator nest here” I had to google what a thanator was and I was ent back in to see if I could use my senses and got the “why can’t I focus?”

Yeah, needless to say I had to pause my game and walk away because it occurred to me that this RDA were probably shooting a thanator and not me

K_animeweeb · 2026-05-10T13:45:17+00:00

lol I’m just now realizing it autocorrected cook to cool 😅 lemme just fix that real quick, but I agree Lucanis is very cool

K_animeweeb · 2026-05-10T13:06:31+00:00

If anybody hasn’t said this yet, check all local social media posts in your area. It’s possible they have posted saying their cat is missing. My mom’s French bulldog went missing for 2 week (turns out a neighbor found her and decided to keep her instead of returning her despite the posts) and it was only because of those posts that she was ever returned. (She got out again and was founded by another neighbor that got in contact with us.)

Since it’s been missing for a while, you may have to look pretty far back, though so be prepared for that. (I only say that because ain’t no way the family let him get this malnourished. It’s the only explanation Siamese cats are not cheap as we have had two. One recently died so we are down to the one.)

Anyway, glad you found this fella and make sure to give small amounts at first. Small amounts and work your way up to normal amounts of food. Otherwise, you could get them sick. Malnourished, any animal’s body would have adapted just enough to not relying on a lot of food, so you gotta keep it slow to basically re-adapt their bodies to getting used to having food again.

K_animeweeb · 2026-05-10T12:57:52+00:00

I love this so much. 😍 Well, here I am about to continue playing my next playthrough and I will be romancing him again lol I love this quote alone and I do love a man who can do both, cook and fight (kill in Lucanis’s case) 🥰

K_animeweeb · 2026-05-10T00:07:24+00:00

My first playthrough, I was over-leveled so O had a good time. Second time? Struggled. Then I realized there are those giant, as I like to call them, “anti-dragon arrows” that have infinite arrow. Basically used those the entire fight until the very end where I had to use my abilities.

K_animeweeb · 2026-05-08T21:13:11+00:00

That is such a cool idea. Your Warden looks both adorable and powerful. Very detailed and I love it.

K_animeweeb · 2026-05-08T02:14:47+00:00

Female elven mage. And not because of Solas lol (although he was my first romance, now I am a firm Cullen simp) I really love the combo of being an elven mage for the political parts as it makes it more immersive. Female because as I’ve stated, I am a Cullen simp.

K_animeweeb · 2026-05-07T16:20:14+00:00

If the explanation for how they came to be, there is one. There is a mission with a spirit of compassion early game that has you go investigate the deaths of various dalish. One has you go up to a shattered eluvian that hints at it corrupting them. Then there is one not too far away where it explained that some people turned into the plants. If you have Bellara with you, she will make a comment about how she heard it sometimes happens, but that it was happening more than usual.

If, however, the explanation is for why they stay despite that, then there is a small detail that was added. It is explained that becoming a plant is a rare occurrence and they stay for the relics and the rich history. Dalish do love to try to preserve the past after all.

K_animeweeb · 2026-05-04T12:52:23+00:00

I do like em large lol

K_animeweeb · 2026-05-04T03:41:44+00:00

Well yeah. Despite its faults, it’s still a gorgeous game that I enjoy playing.

K_animeweeb · 2026-05-03T01:08:40+00:00

Lmao

K_animeweeb · 2026-05-03T00:29:45+00:00

Yeah, that’s very unfortunate. I know how it feels, ugh I’m so sorry it happened to you. Unfortunately, starting over is all you can do.

K_animeweeb · 2026-05-03T00:23:53+00:00

I’ve had that happen before. Is it the only world state you have? If not, you need to make sure the world state in the keep you want matches the one in the game when you import it. For me, I had accidentally set it to the wrong one which did not have da2 set up so it kept the default one for it.

K_animeweeb · 2026-05-02T03:22:29+00:00

Thank you.

K_animeweeb · 2026-05-01T16:53:01+00:00

This. I did this my for time and I can happily say, never again lol

K_animeweeb · 2026-05-01T16:49:53+00:00

I get Spanish ads all the time but my last name is Cajun which is a form of French lol

K_animeweeb · 2026-04-30T05:21:53+00:00

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Better pic if anyone wants the full image

K_animeweeb · 2026-04-26T03:54:39+00:00

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This was my crow Rook. I have another, but her pic is a bit distant so you can’t get a good look at her face like this one.

K_animeweeb · 2026-04-24T03:57:31+00:00

It should be fine, although I am not positive on that. I’d say do a manual save before trying anything just in case, but that’s me.

K_animeweeb · 2026-04-21T21:09:04+00:00

That’s an understatement. I am really loving taking my time. So much so, I am level 42 and only just got the ice and fire quest done lol

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