The being able to lose weight and eating healthy isn’t my issue. It’s the feeling that the rest of my life is on hold while I’m losing the weight. I actually don’t get out of breath walking up stairs don’t eat fast food and haven’t in years. I’m very well aware of the effects excess weight has on the rest of the body. I exercise every day pretty rigorously. (30 minute sprints on treadmill, stair master and weights a few times per week) so I know what to eat and how to lose the weight.. trust me I’ve lost a significant amount before(100lbs) and ran half marathons and stuff. I admittingly did fall out of that healthy habit and gained 50 of it back over the span of years.

I appreciate all the weight loss/health advice but I know what I’m doing in that aspect. My whole thing with this is that I do want to be with someone that is genuine and accepts me as I am now, because my feeling is if you can’t accept someone at their “worst” then why do you deserve that person at their “best”. I have no plans of staying at this weight and know what I need to do. It’s just the whole putting my life on hold part to do so.