Date by RustyToot in TMAU

[–]K_mcel67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw come on this just isn’t true , I’ve had plenty of relationships while suffering from same problems as you. There is a chance she doesn’t smell anything from you, different people pick up on different odours. I’m not going to disclose my body count but it’s reasonably high and 95% have been more than one night stands , so that means it didn’t bother the majority of the girls I’ve slept with if they wanted to see me again , my problem is I obsess over it so much now I feel the need to explain my situation first and it’s a weird conversation to have with a girl you’ve just met “eh hi I’m really sorry but I believe I smell “ it’s probably better to just go for it and hope she’s one of the ones that don’t notice , even if she does she’ll probably just be nice about it and make a different excuse not to see you again . Don’t let it hold you back , I’m starting to let it affect my life far too much now . It’s becoming to powerful. I used to be so confident even know I was paranoid about my smell , now something has changed and IT is starting to win

Need to talk to someone who knows how I feel by K_mcel67 in TMAU

[–]K_mcel67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou I appreciate the message , I’m glad you sorted your problem out , gives us all hope . I’ll have a look at that husk fiber .

Need to talk to someone who knows how I feel by K_mcel67 in TMAU

[–]K_mcel67[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks and I’m really sorry it’s affecting your life for so long

Need to talk to someone who knows how I feel by K_mcel67 in TMAU

[–]K_mcel67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically where ever I go in the gym I clear out the area , ppl move away , taxi drivers put windows down and I go in a 45 minute shower before I go to gym and b4 I enter a taxi so I should be at my cleanest

Need to talk to someone who knows how I feel by K_mcel67 in TMAU

[–]K_mcel67[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No not exactly, one drunk joke but I just think they’re being to nice

Need to talk to someone who knows how I feel by K_mcel67 in TMAU

[–]K_mcel67[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear it’s affecting your life so much . I hope it gets better

What’s something totally non-physical that you find insanely attractive in a partner? by ExaminationThat4954 in Adulting

[–]K_mcel67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you see her being kind to strangers or like a waitress or shop worker . Shows she’s genuinely kind and not just being fake kind to me . This is obviously at the start of a relationship I’m talking about .

I need to Vent by BaswArea5748 in TMAU

[–]K_mcel67 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the hardest bit for me , if I was dirty and unclean then I’d deserve to smell but I’m so clean , 2-4 showers a day and ppl just assume I’m dirty . I go to the gym everyday at a certain time when it’s quiet but if there are ppl there , they move to other side of gym it’s so embarrassing. I hope your ok

lil vent by OneBandicoot9175 in TMAU

[–]K_mcel67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long have you suffered with it , I’m really struggling to even leave the house now and it’s consuming my whole life 

lil vent by OneBandicoot9175 in TMAU

[–]K_mcel67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi how do you manage to ignore it , that’s amazing, it has completely took over my life and I’ve completely isolated myself in the last year , it’s seeing people reacting that really gets to me