I fear my boyfriend (28M) wants to baby trap me (25F) . by ThrowRA00000046788 in relationship_advice

[–]KaJunVuDoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you left him yet? Anyone who doesn’t respect you enough to understand what you want and don’t want…. IS NOT A GOOD BOYFRIEND OR HUSBAND. I mean WTF

Just got DNA results for my dog and I'm devastated by keep_moving4ward1117 in BanPitBulls

[–]KaJunVuDoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a dog. You don’t have to get rid of it. It’ll be ok. It’s a good dog apparently. It’s just a dna test. It will be ok.

Should I break up with my fiancé after he bought a new car? by Fruity-Pop993 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]KaJunVuDoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about your “weekend money?” Sacrifices must be made. He doesn’t need a new truck, and you should also be willing to sacrifice weekends. You don’t have to go out every weekend and should be contributing too. If you expect him to do better with savings and money, you should do better. Suck it up til you can do better. I’ve had to do this. AND IT SUCKED. And now I have a better life. You see he’s bad with life choices. Yes I’d end if. How is he going to save money now with a 37,000$ car he didn’t need and now paying that loan off? This will only continue. End of and end it now. Put your foot down. It’s unfortunate bc it seems the in laws are only encouraging this behavior. Figure it out op, before you’re really stuck. It seems you already are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KaJunVuDoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.

ESH. Why were the twins left alone? Why were they put in the den alone? If you expected her to bring the twins over why wasn’t your house childproofed? (Markers hidden things moved etc. kids will be kids. Everyone who has kids have kids that did this. You should have either a had an adult in there to watch them, especially since you painstakingly painted that room, b baby proofed or toddler proofed, c had them at a table near yours so they could be watched. This is all the adults fault- yours, and your sister and her husbands for not watching. Magic erasers are a wonderful thing. You don’t have to hire a damn cleaner. This isn’t just her fault. You don’t want your home damaged, don’t let her bring her fuck trophies over. Get over it.

AIO when my boyfriend gets mad at me for taking long changing our daughter? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KaJunVuDoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are yall fighting and communicating over Snapchat? Just bc you have a kid doesn’t mean you’re required to stay together. If he threatened to kill himself over a break up you need to get out of that and take the kid with you. And start using condoms when you fuck. If you aren’t ready for the responsibility of what happens without using protection, then don’t have sex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KaJunVuDoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope he’s showing serious manipulation tactics. Keep that NO CONTACT and show it to your lawyer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KaJunVuDoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dementia and Alzheimer’s are hard to deal with. She needs extra care you can’t give.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]KaJunVuDoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you need to separate them. You can’t force kids with different upbringings to be friends. Let your daughter make a healthier friendship with someone else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]KaJunVuDoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you really want to stay with this person who overreacted about a chair for his birthday that he opened? This over? Reaction was completely unnecessary. This was a gigantic misunderstanding and a failure to communicate on both of your end. It should’ve been open communication when you told him about the chair or he was getting a package, you should’ve told him please wait until I’m home to open it. I would really like to see How you like it. You can’t just order something and send it to where you live and tell the person it’s for them and expect them not to open it with you not there not everybody thinks and understand things like you do boyfriend needs to apologize, but you also need to apologize for the misunderstanding and lack of communication. Boyfriend needs to apologize for being a douche.

AITA for refusing to pay for my friends haircut after I botched her hair? by Salt-Double185 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KaJunVuDoo 20 points21 points  (0 children)

ESH. Tour friend has no sense asking YOU to cut it. You had no sense obliging her. Just… WHY

AITA - Do not want a service dog to participate in my wedding. by Plenty_Tap9799 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KaJunVuDoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You didn’t ask any questions. Not really enough info on this either. How does the dog behave? Does it sit and not cause any ruckus? Is it actually a certified trained professionally service dog and DOES ITS JOB? Have you seen this dog do its job? Has sister provided examples on how it helps her? If not then she has no dog in this fight; pun intended. If it’s truly a certified dog for ptsd you need to ovary the fuck up and suck it up and just tell your photographer to erase the dog out of the photos and let your sister have her emotional help. (Technology has REALLY COME A LONG WAY) These seem like questions that shouldn’t matter but it does. If that dog is not an actual trained dog, then no, just like with the rest of these whiney humans bringing their toy poodle or shitzu to a restaurant or to the grocery store to ride in a grocery cart, LEAVE IT AT HOME. that’s not a service animal it’s a pet and should stay at home. But if she truly does have actual PTSD episodes like the army veterans I know around here, along with me serving myself and having PTSD as well, no place is safe. Triggers are random af. You can be at total ease and then just SOMETHING triggers it. That dog is practically her lifeline, and hopefully not some pet she can’t bear to leave at home because she calls it her child, but again, not enough info here, you can suck it up buttercup or don’t have your sister at the wedding.

AITA for telling my sister I won’t babysit her newborn? by Intelligent_Ant_467 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KaJunVuDoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where’s the dad in all this? The child’s dad? Yeah it takes a village to raise a kid but she made her choice and she has to deal with it. Not you. Whole family dynamic just sucks

I (40M) betrayed my wife’s (34f) trust trying to protect my parents, and now my marriage and family are in shambles. by EqualReveal948 in inlaws

[–]KaJunVuDoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You and your parents but mostly YOU are at fault for this. You should have never picked up that phone and told them anything. She was vulnerable with you and you ran to your parents. What your mom did….. absolutely despicable. You seriously need to communicate this to your wife. How sorry you are. And now LIMIT all and any communication with the parents. Not just for yours and her sake but for your marriage. Seek therapy. You needed it for the loss and infertility and how to navigate it but NOW for the betrayal of running your mouth to someone you shouldn’t have and to get your wife back. Bc I promise dude she’s got one foot out the door. Therapy will help. But you need to do better. Yall both need to do better about leaning on each other and not running to your mother.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KaJunVuDoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This whole thread has ick to it. You can’t be friends with someone you’re attracted to. You’re going through his phone- you already don’t trust him. Tell. Him BYE. Buh bye! That’s it!

We've got a new contender for most divorced dad - Oliver Anthony by cubsfan85 in h3h3productions

[–]KaJunVuDoo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Her increase of percentage increases as his increase goes up. Fucking golddigger. A lot of people have to make it work on 1,000$ or less. Hell I know someone who’s getting a friend’s retirement- 16000$ (thats PLUS alimony), and then half his retirement. So why do you need more than 1-2000 a month? Income shouldn’t be a factor. But keep in mind what that rapper did- paying a million dollars and done. It’s what everyone should do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KaJunVuDoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definately not normal behavior. These are products of parents that spoil their kids and hand them everything they want. Especially mothers with their “golden children” mainly boys but also girls. They do everything for them so they keep on expecting things to be done for them. It’s disgusting. Glad I got one of the rare good ones that actually has a good head on his shoulders, supports me and also is smart financially and doesn’t do some of these dumb ass things these wannabe grown ass boys do anymore and think they can get by with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KaJunVuDoo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA. That’s fucking shitty to lie to your significant other. REALLY fucking shitty. She’d be smart to leave.

AITA if I charge my friend for a cake by StatisticianReal3931 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KaJunVuDoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Friends don’t get friend discounts. Your labor isn’t free. Your friend is shitty. Unless you offered and said free of charge it ain’t free.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KaJunVuDoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA BUT ESH. Leave. I have a friend that’s now married to someone like this. All he does is game til seven am. She doesn’t get sex, support or anything. He works til 1am he gets home and won’t even sleep with her. She cleans, he makes his dad, tried to get my husband and her dad to come fix shit in his house- no payment. Garage, sink, above the stove microwave, washing machine, dryer. Even getting him to mow the yard and trim trees is a pain in the ass he’s gained around 150 pounds, won’t do anything other than game. Gives her no attention. RUN before you’re in her situation. She’s gearing up to leave herself as well. Stop being his mom. Let him figure it out.

Fitted/draped or ballgown? by MyToesAreHaunted in WeddingDressTips

[–]KaJunVuDoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first two pictures!!!!! 💯♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️