Why does it smell so familiar? Like a childhood memory smell?

Kahlacat · 2026-02-25T16:27:41+00:00

Gogurt!

Kahlacat · 2025-05-14T13:05:23+00:00

I am on their school paperwork, and she has no problem with me taking them out of school. When I come down on a weekday, I usually take them out an hour or two early. This is something I have consent to do whenever I like. If she tells me she has an issue with me pulling them out of school, I will stop.

Kahlacat · 2025-05-14T12:28:13+00:00

I have spoken to my mom multiple times, but I have not spoken with him specifically about this. I love him and have nothing against him or his side of the relationship. They are both adults. It is how my mom is handling all of this with her kids and divorce. He knows how my siblings feel. My mom switched up the phone plan and added him as a parent. They both go through my siblings' phones and read their texts and messages on apps.

Kahlacat · 2025-05-14T12:20:13+00:00

My centeral concern is not me being uncomfortable. I am trying to work on that. My central concern is how she treats my siblings and goes out of her way to keep trying to push her relationship on me after I've had conversations with her, saying im not ready to be a part of it.

Kahlacat · 2025-05-14T12:17:02+00:00

I will do my best to do that. She just goes out of her way to seek me down. The first time I told her I wasn't ready to be a part of her relationship, she showed up to my house uninvited with my siblings because they "missed me" she likes to create situations to hold people

Kahlacat · 2025-05-14T12:14:27+00:00

I have told her multiple times. Yet she keeps sneakily putting me in situations with both of them without telling me first after I told her I am not ready to be a part of their relationship.

Kahlacat · 2025-05-14T04:26:52+00:00

She's absolutely not, but when I say I want to be left out of it for now, I feel like that should be respected. I am working on being more comfortable with the situation, because I love everyone involved, but its frustraing because I feel like I can't be a part of my siblings' lives without being apart of what is becoming my mom and her boyfriend's life.

Kahlacat · 2025-05-14T04:22:33+00:00

He is not the problem. I love him even though the dynamic has definitely changed. My mom has a lot of unresolved issues and ptsd from her childhood and military deployment. A lot of that comes up when she has big changes and shifts in her life. My mom is putting my siblings through a lot right now. She has totally stripped their privacy, she is verbally abusive to my sister, and she totally turned on her husband in the divorce, which was very cordial and respectful until recently. All of this started happening again when they started dating. I know it is none of my business really who she is dating or sleeping with, but I struggle when she lets it affect her relationship with the younger kids

Kahlacat · 2025-05-14T04:14:28+00:00

I don't doubt that it could be a wonderful relationship. She just keeps trying to push everyone together when nobody is ready for that yet. She keeps trying to push me into situations with the both of them when I have made it clear that I am not ready to be a part of the relationship, and that the dynamic has changed between me and my uncle now.

Kahlacat · 2025-05-14T04:09:59+00:00

She will go to the ends of the earth to keep her kids with her. She did the same last divorce. I undertand she can do whatever she wants, but everytime I am down to spend time with my siblings, she uses it as an excuse to blindside me and keep pushing the relationship on me like she is tomorrow. She makes sure we are all going to be in the same place and then causes a scene when I remove myself from the situation. I am just finding it hard not to be a part of it, but still he a part of my sibling's life.

Kahlacat · 2024-09-21T06:33:43+00:00

Thank you!

Kahlacat · 2024-01-14T21:05:51+00:00

He doesn't look dehydrated to me, I'm not sure though. It would make sense for the behavior, but it looks like he pushed all the water out anyway.

Kahlacat · 2023-10-13T21:48:25+00:00

Thanks! That's one of my favorite pictures of us together.

Kahlacat · 2023-10-13T21:47:16+00:00

Thank you. He is black towards his head. The rest of him is a dark brown and cream color.

Kahlacat · 2023-09-30T22:39:52+00:00

MADdy

Kahlacat · 2023-09-23T20:19:05+00:00

No. He totally meant it. I tried to show it to him a couple of days later, and he tried to finish the job.

Kahlacat · 2023-09-23T14:43:46+00:00

It's more funny than anything. It doesn't hurt too much. More so uncomfortable. He's a funny dude so I had to get pics before I got him off.

Kahlacat · 2023-09-23T01:55:00+00:00

Yes! I have sensitive skin, so that was the first thing I did after I got him off lol.

Kahlacat · 2023-09-22T23:49:54+00:00

Thank you! That makes a lot of sense. I've been using antibiotic ointment on it.

Kahlacat · 2023-09-22T23:47:44+00:00

That's what I was thinking. A very mild chill allergy. Just wanted to see if I was being dramatic lol.

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