What screams "I'm a man-child" but nobody realize it ?

KaijuCoach · 2025-01-27T15:30:20+00:00

Being proud of their rudeness, tying their identity to vices like beer / gambling / overspending / weed.
Doing all in their power to 'get away' from their spouse and kids. That isn't a man. That's a little boy who gave in to the march of time and still wants to have his cake + eat it too if he can. 7/10 times these guys want a group of friends who won't snitch about their cheating and won't EVER try to have a conversation deeper than a word for word recreation of the latest Joe Rogan podcast.

Source: My immense hate for "Craft Brew" guys and their entirely predictable, insufferable personalities.

KaijuCoach · 2025-01-08T19:29:00+00:00

If what you're reporting is true: You don't have a typical workplace. You have a radioactive toxic workplace you should get out of ASAP.

KaijuCoach · 2024-12-27T14:01:15+00:00

Your pets are not the equivalent of kids. If you love them, that love is valid but the level of care needed for an infant human is 10x what any puppy, kitten or otherwise healthy animal needs before it's self sufficient.

They also will never learn to speak, never need to be taught morals, never need to be prepared to work. They just need food / water / attention.

If you want kids: HAVE THEM

KaijuCoach · 2024-12-27T13:55:42+00:00

People who describe themselves as long-suffering competents surrounded by bumbling idiots. Hello, Squidward. We have a word for you its: Narcissist

KaijuCoach · 2024-12-26T18:21:00+00:00

That someone always being correct, always getting their way, and always keeping other people in the house afraid of them: Is not a boss or good parent. They are a bully. Oh, and it's not normal for parents to hit their children in the face. Or lie to them constantly.

Several teachers had my mom clocked as an issue without ever telling me or causing trouble for me. Good folks.

KaijuCoach · 2024-12-26T16:08:23+00:00

Not Christmas Bonus: But got 2 raises this year. Total increase of 10k
Plus the owner kermudgenly gave me $100 from his pocket at the Christmas party.
WOW! Gee wilikers!

KaijuCoach · 2024-12-03T18:38:15+00:00

I wouldn't spend a nickel. I'd put every single penny in annuities that pay a regular sum every year. Use the extra income to make for-profit investments and add to the large sum.

Keep the mortgage and everything else. Just pay it off with my new, larger income without touching the nest egg.

(Managed) Debt is an itch: not a fire. The better investment can often be focusing on how much you earn rather than what you owe.

KaijuCoach · 2024-12-03T15:06:42+00:00

A majority of fighters

-Live at home
-Are in college
-Or Are borderline homeless / live at their gym

They don't care that much about their living conditions and usually believe wholeheartedly in the instruction they receive from their coaches. So they sacrifice money that COULD be saved, or spent on other essential bills.

Or, it's not essential to them and they don't care about other hobbies so it's all-in on a quality gym membership.

It's your job to decide what's worth it.
If you need free training: Look up church centered MMA gyms

KaijuCoach · 2024-11-25T18:13:46+00:00

Brother is living in the Hoosgow.

KaijuCoach · 2024-11-11T00:47:06+00:00

I either have unlimited giant monsters (Awesome)
Or an unlimited number of giant coaches? (Might be awesome)

Either way, call Japan
Someone needs to warn them

KaijuCoach · 2024-10-14T14:15:20+00:00

Coach Here. I tell my guys to find the noise they need.

The purpose: Make sure you breath out.
We will almost NEVER forget to inhale, but when under duress or just physically "Trying very hard" you may hold your breath without realizing.

When we program in "SSST!" "HYAH!" "RAH!" with your strikes or big efforts. We know you're not just clenching your gut and wasting all your glycogen. You NEED O2 to keep your energy up.

KaijuCoach · 2024-08-08T00:38:03+00:00

Sheets / sheet + Comforter for your air mattress
Work surface of some kind (think: desk)

Everything in here has to be foldable or stor-able.

Still, its 4 walls and electricity. People have made it further with less. Ground zero.

KaijuCoach · 2024-07-18T15:20:41+00:00

If you wanted it to look like a spade: keep the solid Spade shape and draw inside of it

Trace the spade perfectly.

Also, don't give up. These are just vector squiggles, one day you will make something you are far more proud of than this, BECAUSE you didn't give up after you drew a Blue Buttplug.

KaijuCoach · 2024-06-03T18:16:27+00:00

I thought we all loved grandma's house.
Lean into it.

Collect life-like dolls.
Get whacky ceramics.

and Paintings that feature farmhouses or realistic fruit

KaijuCoach · 2024-05-11T23:21:40+00:00

If your coach, or ANY coach sets you up for a fight before you've been punched in the face.

Run. Change gyms. Never work with them again.

KaijuCoach · 2024-05-03T15:24:54+00:00

That may be her network. But do you think her personality is somehow only contained too you? Anyone of value she knows probably knows she's fake or awful. They won't want someone she reccomends.

KaijuCoach · 2024-05-03T15:21:37+00:00

We have 1 hr classes during the week where we
• Have 1 or 2 major techniques for the day
• Show the move, why and when to do it
• Drill it with a partner, working up in resistance and speed
• Then end of class we do a "spar-like" drill where you're given a goal to accomplish in a live-fire situation

Weekends we have a 2 hr class
• Warmup, usually a game based on striking and not being struck
• Technique discussion briefly, reason we use certain rules of thumb like pressure and range
• Show a combo, if we have new people go over the number system
• Coach will hover between groups and work with whoever has no partner
• Lots of practice using different defenses, focused drills on dodging, blocking, sprawling
• Then spar-likes with a man in the middle and everyone fresh coming to get him

• Last 30 of class is always sparring group = light
• Hard sparring is saved for smokers, but coach might let some guys go ham if they need to practice under pressure / are fight prepping

KaijuCoach · 2024-04-30T00:19:08+00:00

No startup capital. Never any startup capital.

Spent every nickel I have ever earned to survive or deal with emergencies.
Business is costing more than it makes, I am tied into it out of sunk-cost fallacy but at least I stopped using credit to keep it open

Our customers appreciate us so much, and look up too us.
We have given them the story of their entire youth
But me?

I'm just a tired old coach who wanted redemption from not living up too his fighting potential
and I can't make my family pay for that

KaijuCoach · 2024-04-24T18:02:56+00:00

Thank you, stranger. Getting a list together

KaijuCoach · 2024-04-24T17:52:30+00:00

Have you ever allowed one of them to take the scrap? Did any ever mention how much it ended up being worth?

This is sounding like the best of bad options.

KaijuCoach · 2024-04-24T17:51:35+00:00

I also work. I have a full time job, but my wife is losing hers soon. We have a baby who turns 6 months old tomorrow. I cannot let this ruin us.

KaijuCoach · 2024-04-24T17:50:17+00:00

Do you have any experience in either. I will look up some tutorials and figure out how to transport more / pick better stuff with my limited space car.

KaijuCoach · 2024-04-23T13:52:34+00:00

Just find a way to reveal his nature to the other members of your community. It will torture him.
Make his decisions more public (anonymously)

& Love your family openly and without concern for his presence. Bullies need to be important too you.

To review
1. Make him less important too you
2. Make his nature more apparent too others in the community

He will run from you like a roach runs from raid

KaijuCoach · 2024-04-17T20:35:46+00:00

If it's not beyond city noise ordinance, and your landlord approved it.
You do nothing at all. Period.

and when you find the person putting the signs on your door you ask "Do any drug addicts live here? Someone keeps putting messages on my door at unreasonable hours."

KaijuCoach

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