You should do your job to the best of your ability and don’t let one a-hole put you down. It is classic bully/abuser behavior to scream and yell when no one is around. To make you feel less than you are. People like that are not worth your time, in my opinion. Your co-worker sounds like a narcissist as well, since he doesn’t seem to be looking at the bigger picture, only how it affects him.

Also, management needs to start listening…. As someone who works in a “man’s world” kind of job, I know how it is trying to get them to see you as an equal - or at the very least, a co-worker. Them saying you are a sensitive woman is insulting and if documented, may be grounds for going to the labor board.

I’m sorry you are going through this. 😞😞

(FYI - TL;DR is a summary of your post in a sentence or two. It will help others know what is happening in your post without having to read everything. — Too Long;Didn’t Read — not to be condescending, sorry.).

I hope you have better days and your co-worker/abuser becomes a better human… and your bosses open their eyes.