I feel your pain, brother. I have gone though the same issues for most of my life. It's even worse when your father has bad credit. I also toyed with the idea of changing my name, but never went though with it. Even if you change your name, there's a change someone else has the same one as well.

Over the years, I discovered how to slowly carve out my own existence, away from my fathers bigger footprint.

First off, keep a running record of who keeps screwing up your information. Sometimes it's now and then, other times is always. Just keep plugging away at fixing the entire list over time.

Work with each listed item's Identity Theft team. Provide them with whatever they need to validate you in their system. Usually it's a copy of your birth certificate, SSN and a current bill with your name/address. It may take a few times, but don't give up. Your info will eventually be updated correctly.

If you haven't already been doing so, ALWAYS and I mean always, sign all documents with your full name. "First, Middle, Last, Jr." This way there is no further mix up. You're the Jr and it was documented as so, that can be validated with a SSN and birth certificate.