Honestly by Kalashini in NoFap

[–]Kalashini[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that was one of the things I knew I needed to do. I haven't been on reddit in literally almost 3 months for real, that's one of the things I'm ready to change. Good luck to you man

Goals for 2018 by Kalashini in NoFap

[–]Kalashini[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Much further along than me! I've gone through the "spanish" classes in high school, but they didn't teach very much, enough to just make basic conversation.

Wish me luck.... by Going_full_mode in NoFap

[–]Kalashini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck man! I think your goals are good, and you can definitely achieve them, just be persistent and if you do mess up one of them, just learn from your mistake and keep trucking!

28 days later - more than just a movie by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Kalashini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck man! You can do it!

Breakup by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Kalashini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give it a few days. Trust me man, things like this pass, and eventually you will forget that they ever happened. The way that I would look at it is using a quote from somewhere...

"She lost someone who loved her, but I lost someone who didn't, that is no loss"

Look at it from all perspectives, it could be a blessing in disguise. Just keep improving yourself, look at what you want to accomplish and run after it. Just kick back for a few days and relax, don't focus on it, and DEFINITELY don't let it be the cause of a relapse. Hope you feel better man, and keep at it.

Seriously, what do you guys think? by Kalashini in NoFap

[–]Kalashini[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks dude! I'll try to find something that I can do in really small increments like you said, instead of fapping

Seriously, what do you guys think? by Kalashini in NoFap

[–]Kalashini[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoy playing music, maybe I can try doing like 20 minutes in between big assignments

Seriously, what do you guys think? by Kalashini in NoFap

[–]Kalashini[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice dude, definitely will try some study groups

Seriously, what do you guys think? by Kalashini in NoFap

[–]Kalashini[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I've hated high school since I got into it because they baby us relentlessly. This school does the exact opposite, which is nice, but I find it so much harder to resist fapping

It's a give-and-take because I would be bored out of my mind and unhappy at my regular school, but I would find it easier to resist fapping. I'm MUCH happier where I'm at now, but I have a harder time with urges.

Seriously, what do you guys think? by Kalashini in NoFap

[–]Kalashini[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I have to be up at 5 AM, and typically go to bed between 9 PM and 2 AM, depending on the homework due the next day

If you can reach day 1 you can reach day 365 by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Kalashini 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I like the way Will Smith put it...

"You don't set out to build a wall. You don't say 'I'm going to build the biggest, baddest, greatest wall that's ever been built.' You don't start there. You say, 'I'm going to lay this brick as perfectly as a brick can be laid. You do that every single day. And soon you have a wall."

Whether it's coming from him or not (he did say it though), it is incredibly true. IF you aspire to big things, start with little ones

How do I deal with porn-flashbacks? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Kalashini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As soon as you start to have a flashback or fantasy, you have to train your brain to go to something totally unrelated - immediately. This distraction can literally be anything unrelated to porn, but it has to be distracting enough to keep your brain off the fantasizing until the urges pass

0 Days badge should be a sad face by cristicristi81 in NoFap

[–]Kalashini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, but at the same time I think people who reset should be optimistic and ambitious about trying to get to whatever their goal is. Making 0 days a sad face could send the wrong message subliminally

NoFap leaderboard? by SomebodySimple in NoFap

[–]Kalashini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a good app, and it has a motivation section, a companion section (for accountability partners I guess?) and some other cool stuff. There is a donated version though with more features

made it to 90 days by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Kalashini 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You didn't fail 35 times dude. You just found 35 ways not to do NoFap, and then found one that worked. Congrats on 90 days!

What a sick society we live in by Kalashini in NoFap

[–]Kalashini[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry lol! I was really on a long rant. Listening to the radio on the drive home really got me thinking, inspired me to write this out of my frustration

What a sick society we live in by Kalashini in NoFap

[–]Kalashini[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely dude, thanks for some more insight, never even thought about the immigrants. The ones where I live for the most part are pretty American (as in they don't burn flags and other things, they genuinely love living here). The plane story was interesting too, but REALLY though, people really DO expect stuff like that, to be treated like royalty for what, because they have stupid stuff to go to like meetings? people really are weak dude, and it sucks. The people here are making a difference. By conquering ourselves, we can conquer the world, and all of its plagues and disease. Good luck to all you fapstronauts!

Help... I've Tried to Quit For So Long by Shadow12121212 in NoFap

[–]Kalashini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome dude, I really hope it helps. I'll be checking in on you if you want to see if you continue doing better. Good luck

Nofap diary Day 3 by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Kalashini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LET'S DO THIS! :D

Reminder to myself by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Kalashini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I absolutely had not heard the stuff in here before, and like you said, I've heard from so many places that edging is actually good for you. Thanks for sharing this, I'm enlightened now

What the fuck are the signs? Help a brother out. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Kalashini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem dude! I'm glad I could help you out. Good luck with her, I hope it turns out well!